Idowuogbo:
Cut who to size? U don't Gerrit and I doubt u'll ever get it. Trading words wiv registered imbec..ile..s makes d sane look deranged. Gerrit now? Tot so! Yea u! now put d U in STF and stay mute till I decide to press play.

carefreewannabe:

Even if I was 40 and not married, I'd still not act deseperate.
There's more to life than money. And marriage is definitely not about money. At least, for me.
I prefer to adopt a baby and be a single mum than feel disgusted by the man who wants to sleep with me.
That's another topic.

AlterEgo™:
hahahaha... Abegi nor turn table jor and please don't make this about me cos nor be me say make you go be to pesin wey go mince-meat you.
Don't derail the thread any further and please don't quote me back, you are better off smarting from the humiliation that lad made you suffer abirun

DailyNews: I wonder dear...she asked for opinions and she got them and she is getting all irritated at what she asked for y? Plz op dnt expect glossy counsels from all. Now let me warn you, if this is an attempt to hype some product for some e-buyers, hmmm, u better watch it.


My last review of this story:

There has been a lot of threads condemning Nigerian girls for being materialistic and after gifts and money guys offer to them, these threads are too many, which had been used to educate the Nigerian girls, and in response to these threads, in an attempt to let the Nigerian guys on nland complaining of Nigerian girls being materialistic know that there are still some few good Nigerian girls who aren't after material things and money, a female member has responded by starting a thread to tell the male folks that she is not amongst those Nigerian girls that crave for material things and die for rich guys, reason the poster mentioned that her friend in question comes from a rich family and has taken over his parents company, this is a hype for some yet to be uncovered reasons


If this story is real, how does the poster know that this presumed friend of her doesn't visit nland to come openly online to disgrace and talk down on him for buying her a presumed gift, what crime did the presumed friend committed I ask again and again


Who are you trying to hype this product for on nairaland? Pls and pls be very cautious, the presumed saints you meet online that you are trying to hype yourself for may not be saints. Ladies pls be cautious of internet, cos I can sense most Nigerian ladies now throw themselves easily to e-guys while forming queen of sheba for the guys they know in real life. Be warned, what people act online may not really be who they are, do not ignore your real life friends, they supersede all these e-buddies that's making most ladies go gaga to be coming online daily to tell stories of how they turned down one rich guy and how they turned down Dbanjs marriage proposal. Plz dnt get upset, this advice is for op and every other person reading this. Goodmorning all

atbu1983: i am a guy. It is always difficult for a lady to ask a guy out and get the guy. Only 2 out of 10 will succeed. This case is diiferent. Dis is a guy asking a girl out. Nature of both sexes has made it possible for a guy to win a girl's heart if he work hard for it. I can tell u 7 out of 10 cases d women ends up falling in love with d guys. Guys shd stop bring ing thier experience of how they rejected a female friend advances here.

methodman: Well...the only advice i will give you is to follow your heart. In as much as i understand you i still believe u need to at least give it a trial. There is no harm in that.

And for the lucky dude, what i have learned in life is that giving someone all our love and affection isnt an assurance that the person will love back . We shudnt expect love in return. We need to wait for it to grow in their hearts but if it doesnt at least you shud be CONTENTED it grew in ours..

I guess its time for him to let go.

juleze:

When I read this post, I couldn't help making a loud exclamation of "e don reach this level"
Babes, I've worn similar "shoes" before and it wasn't palatable.
As much as I strongly believe it's perfect to marry your closest friend, who you can share anything with, and is not liable to hurting you intentionally, attraction matters.
I also couldn't imagine hugging him and getting intimate when married. I tried, and could haVe even ignored the reason I gave him (spiritual compatibility), because since leaving my ex almost a decade ago, he was the only one that ran a chance of being as ideal for me as my ex was-easy to talk with, considerate, focused, confident, morally sound. But, I couldn't.

My advice- trying beats not trying. Try to see him in the light of being married to him. Give yourself time, and work up some emotions, if you can't, then forget it.
About the gifts, it would be rude to reject them. He's still your friend. You can offer to help him screen ladies to know the one that would be a suitable wife to him, as this would reinforce your unwillingness to be with him.

GBAM# Stay friends and try to see him in a different (lover) light. If it doesn't work out then tell him. Atleast you tried.

Wish you the best...but nothing would make me more glad, in this case, than to see 2 best friends get wedded.

juleze:

When I read this post, I couldn't help making a loud exclamation of "e don reach this level"
Babes, I've worn similar "shoes" before and it wasn't palatable.
As much as I strongly believe it's perfect to marry your closest friend, who you can share anything with, and is not liable to hurting you intentionally, attraction matters.
I also couldn't imagine hugging him and getting intimate when married. I tried, and could haVe even ignored the reason I gave him (spiritual compatibility), because since leaving my ex almost a decade ago, he was the only one that ran a chance of being as ideal for me as my ex was-easy to talk with, considerate, focused, confident, morally sound. But, I couldn't.

My advice- trying beats not trying. Try to see him in the light of being married to him. Give yourself time, and work up some emotions, if you can't, then forget it.
About the gifts, it would be rude to reject them. He's still your friend. You can offer to help him screen ladies to know the one that would be a suitable wife to him, as this would reinforce your unwillingness to be with him.

Idowuogbo:
Humiliation? Den u finish it off by calling ur entire generation abirun? Kai! Ur folks have definitely suffered.poor u!

AlterEgo™:
oh Gawd! I said you should not quote me back abirun.
hehehehehe e pepper you reach dis Pele tie o
Mods please hold this abirun here o, 'it' is hellbent on derailing this thread.
Abirun on the loose

Idowuogbo:
Is dat all u bastardious lab specimen could come up wiv? Disappointed! Try harder!

AlterEgo™:
haha lmfao
No need to get emotional abirun, it's just banters.
Why are you making this sound like contest Gives your battered ego boosts
Please enough derailment abirun, I've had enough of your prating.
When the other lad comes around he duly put you in your place and definitely get you to shut up.

Idowuogbo:
U done?

Wuss!

flanrey:

Leave the goat, let him rant on and on
You know, some people actually fantasize having an e-fight...No need to make his dreams come through

DailyNews: I wonder dear...she asked for opinions and she got them and she is getting all irritated at what she asked for y? Plz op dnt expect glossy counsels from all. Now let me warn you, if this is an attempt to hype some product for some e-buyers, hmmm, u better watch it.


My last review of this story:

There has been a lot of threads condemning Nigerian girls for being materialistic and after gifts and money guys offer to them, these threads are too many, which had been used to educate the Nigerian girls, and in response to these threads, in an attempt to let the Nigerian guys on nland complaining of Nigerian girls being materialistic know that there are still some few good Nigerian girls who aren't after material things and money, a female member has responded by starting a thread to tell the male folks that she is not amongst those Nigerian girls that crave for material things and die for rich guys, reason the poster mentioned that her friend in question comes from a rich family and has taken over his parents company, this is a hype for some yet to be uncovered reasons


If this story is real, how does the poster know that this presumed friend of her doesn't visit nland to come openly online to disgrace and talk down on him for buying her a presumed gift, what crime did the presumed friend committed I ask again and again


Who are you trying to hype this product for on nairaland? Pls and pls be very cautious, the presumed saints you meet online that you are trying to hype yourself for may not be saints. Ladies pls be cautious of internet, cos I can sense most Nigerian ladies now throw themselves easily to e-guys while forming queen of sheba for the guys they know in real life. Be warned, what people act online may not really be who they are, do not ignore your real life friends, they supersede all these e-buddies that's making most ladies go gaga to be coming online daily to tell stories of how they turned down one rich guy and how they turned down Dbanjs marriage proposal. Plz dnt get upset, this advice is for op and every other person reading this. Goodmorning all

freecocoa: For once I'm seeing things the same way with you.
Weird.

claremont:
You are assuming that the OP is Nigerian, you may be wrong..

Idowuogbo:
U done?

Wuss!

flanrey:

Leave the goat, let him rant on and on
You know, some people actually fantasize having an e-fight...No need to make his dreams come through

carefreewannabe: Let me answer to some questions
and accusations, EVEN THOUGH the
answers are ALREADY in my
INITIAL POST!
PEACE

AlterEgo™:

Ogbeni yiwo eh sohun jo, park well.
You've been found out by DailyNews, so spare us the verbiage!