sanb: Really? If you and a lady are in the same financial status, your throwing money around her won't win, control or impress her i.e. it'll make no difference what so ever to her.... Rather, it's the love you show her that'll make the difference... This means you don’t have to throw money around love as money sometimes can’t buy true love...

Mrs.Chima:


You ain't got shit.

Raggedy_Ann:

This is so true! But most Nigerian men have very little to offer save for a d*ck and some dough. So they're intimidated by women who make their own money. They prefer those they can impress cheaply with cash and then they go complaining that Nigerian women are materialistic.

israel ben-zion:


No time to waste: y leave till tomorrow what u can do today already?

slyfoxxjoe: what is it with all these rules for men to please women on nairaland front page of recent? u Nigerian women really think our worlds revolve around u to the extent we have nothing better to do than study a phd course on what u like and dont like? now let me tell u this once and for all and i dont care if it pisses yall off: A real man only see's women as leisure and a reward for his success and not the 'main thing' in his life when there is money to be made out there. so u crazy nairaland girls can stop withh all these self centred posts on Nairaland.

D-Explorer:

You must have been watching too many nollywood films. The Nigerian men i know want a lady that can bring something to the table; something to complement his efforts. Thence, been intimidated is out-of-context except for broke lads, and if what a man offers, and you enjoy, is his diçk and some dough, he has proven himself to be a man except if you wanna be "materialistic" as you put it.

Raggedy_Ann:


D-Explorer I have read your comments and your banter with Sagamite on this thread and it`s obvious you're a child. You would dig a hole for your foe and fall into it yourself. Never mind the nollywood movies based on your life dear, start from the beginning of this thread. You would find men bragging about deep pockets and big Co.cks being their most relevant assets to landing a babe. You would find men saying they couldn't date women who are of equal means. Ergo: most men. I do realize that we have a number of exceptions [I got one of those. The poster and Mynd_44 are cool too).
I don't get why you felt you had to comment, do you? Or maybe you'd like to be seen as a bit more than superficial. What would you want your woman to "bring to the table", or that just something you've heard being said in your nollywood movies?

D-Explorer:

Damn, and why the f was i against Saga when he said Naija girls are arrogant? I think not all but some. LOL. Lass, I will let this slide. Enjoy your night, you don't want to have a nightmare, do you?

cdamsel: una won start another war?

D-Explorer:

Bawo ni dear?

franel79: These are hard truths that I have often ignored due to ignorance. THANKS @POSTER

D-Explorer:

Damn, and why the f was i against Saga when he said Naija girls are arrogant? I think not all but some. LOL. Lass, I will let this slide. Enjoy your night, you don't want to have a nightmare, do you?

lalaosky: how come sagamite wasn't banned as well

adahib: (shaking my head slowly)
nice points bro but sorry,my notepad is full.i mean with all the lists of DOs and DON'Ts on nairaland these days,why wont it? hell,if a young man gets to read all this stuff on nairaland,he cant help but feel so damn inadequate and downright scared of entering a relationship.una don dey make this relationship thing come be like say na exam person want write.abeg easy oo

fresh_dude: Don't mind jobless people. Me, I don't follow no rules. I treat you the way you deserve and that.s that, feel free to leave if you don't like it.
#Seven_reasons_my_arse.

Sagamite:

Fcking great life principles!

That is my approach to women too.

fresh_dude: I just don't get it. There are so many rules for the modern man to 'earn' love, but when a dude states his preference, you hear comments like ''who does he think he is? He better get rid of that slave mentality'' and I'm like ''equity people'' but for where? The female is a very selfish being. And I have no time for entitled broads.

Sagamite:

Abi o!

They want to programme you to be a "Real Man".

The modern woman thinks she has to do nothing while you to work for love and then you work to stay in love even though they need you for the love more than you need them.

Their interpretation of equality is for men to drop all their advantages while women keep theirs.

The bolded red is EXACTLY the same conclusion I have come to. Be selfish too, nothing wrong with it!

fresh_dude: Oh, selfish I have become, and I realise it works like a charm. The old me is shocked at how suddenly 'attractive' I have become since my switch from real man to ordinary natural man.

Sagamite:

Wow!

We are living the same life.

The younger they are, the more selfish I am. I learn to think of me first.

fresh_dude: Hahaha. Those ones actually believe the sun will stand still for them. A coupla years and uneraseable wrinkles will dispell such fantasies from their limited intellect. Oh, life.

Sagamite:

So fcking on point. Then they all of a sudden become nice, polite, considerate and know how to be more civil. The things they lack and will give every excuse under the sun for before.

I love reading the comments section on dailymail to remind myself how selfish most women can be and how bias they can be on simple logical issues, so I know I need to protect my interest at all times and should never be deluded I would get a rational woman if things go wrong.

I am sorry for any foool that does not take this approach because the selfishness of the average modern day woman is even getting worse than yesteryears' women.

The average women that comment on the dailymail comments section are the most selfish, self-centred, ignorant, bias and unappealing cunts one can come across. It tells me that in a natural state and where there is no punitive reward, the average woman lacks objectivity.

ronkebp: Loll...SEE small boys crying when "real men" are on the go with their babes and wives......taaaa!!!! change your views.

Mrs.Chima:
Nairaland women don suffer!