kaboninc:

Lady?

byvan:

Don't ignore a woman that you know many can't ignore.choose your battles wisely.

NEROSKY: Can't believe i read all this comments..Okay lemme summarize and Close thread....
From the comments from ladies here,shows that they're so self centred,and they don't care about their husband feeling..You girls should choose the approach of food rejection later apologis than Heavy blow in the face for correction,don't force your husband to beat you and later you complain of Men tantrum/Childish behaviour... I just thank God 4 my babe,she don't give room for fracas/qurrel..she would apologiz and also ask me to..and the outcome is woah!!!(such a lovely n undestanding gurl.A wife material 4 that matter)...LADIES YOU SHOULD WAKE UP AND LEAVE THAT YOUR INSIDOUS PHILOSOPHY...For poster, be ready to move in ur new husband apartment because you no get Akö nu Úchè..or leave in trauma if u're the one providing..

caesaraba:

Gbam! This is the sole reason I'm not taking the 'next-step' with my g.f. What a ludicrous school of thought to belong to. If I have to always keep it at the back of my mind that my woman can easily move on to someone else because I ignored her while having a quarrel, then I guess it was a mistake marrying her in the very first place.

(I think) Ladies who have low self-esteem often wanna prove that "if you don't want me, someone else wants me." Kinda makes you look cheap.

OCTAVO: I see it as a silly attitude when men refuse to eat just because they have a little misunderstaning with their wives. They purnish their stomach because of unnecessary pride.
Some starve themselves even for days. I just laugh whenever this happens. Will I have to beg you to eat again? Lailai!
Men are just too egocentric and always expect to be treated like some lord!
As for me, it‘s when he refuses to eat that i even scatter the house more with nice aroma.
I torment his stomach more but pride won‘t let him request for food.
Men, what is it with this your delibrate starvation?
Even if you eat outside, you still have to come to momma someday.
*Winks*

Localtrouble:
And what do men who think"I can get food from another woman if I don't eat my wifey's or GF's" have? Over bloated ego? Hope that poor girl knows the plan you have for her?

الملكي فوق الله:



.....Sounds like you Naija Ladies put up with a bunch of childish stubborn stupidd men to me.

Les: man/woman, i no know, i just love his/her choice of words

Osareime: I will beg my husband to eat oh. Men like to be pampered by their wives. Truth.

I would cook his best food and call him ''oko mi" until he smiles and hugs me and eats my food. Because cooking for my husband is a joy am not ready to let go of.

Btw getting my angry husband to eat my food is a sure way to peace and I need peace in my home.

kaboninc:

Ohhhh....you're so sweet. I honestly believe that such a person like you will have no problem at all capturing the hearts of men!

For God's sake, men love to be pampered! Not only ladies. But just do it. If a man decides not to eat your food because of a fight and you don't show concern, then you need to really think about yourself because that could be the entry point for marital *= opposite of bliss* into your marriage.

Localtrouble:

Kwaaaa.."men love to be pampered", when you do, they complain of being smothered, remind you that you are not their mothers and they are not babies..infact,the pampering makes them throw tantrums,yet they want to be pampered. Choi African/Nigerian men have turned the tables round to suit themselves, the Bibeli clearly states that women "should be loved". I wee bye pampers, bip and feeding bottle (adult sizes ) not forgetting shakashaka, I wee also ababa him, bathe him and feed him. Shuwo!! Like someone said earlier..marry a husband not just any man(baby)

leonardpac:
The argument attach 2 this thread is baseless.