CFCfan:
Just ignore d guy joor.

Clearly i wasn't talking to u, radio.

vanstanzy:

Clearly i wasn't talking to u, radio.

ITbomb: Problem is, sometimes the space may allow the mind to roam and another party comes along and fulfil the fantasy, making the re-entry very difficult

CFCfan:

I know. But why are u asking that type of question on a public forum? Its simply astonishing.

ITbomb: Problem is, sometimes the space may allow the mind to roam and another party comes along and fulfil the fantasy, making the re-entry very difficult

ogugua88:

Personal space, as in go to a park and relax, or read for an hour a day by yourself. No one is talking of six months vacation and falling for a nudist named Gustavo.

Idowuogbo:
Mind to roam go whia Only slutsss like urself will give room for dat.

vanstanzy: I asked a question, cos i honestly didn't know. Sorry for intruding on ur space.

vanstanzy:

Now that u've calmed down to talk, we'll talk. Firstly, In the Religion section, satanism is also discussed and there have been notable members in those threads. Secondly, this is a public forum, yes. But do u see anyones' faces, who has not posted his/ her pic? No. Its a faceless public forum, unlike facebook. God knows i wouldn't ask her such there.

ogugua88:

Personal space, as in go to a park and relax, or read for an hour a day by yourself. No one is talking of six months vacation and falling for a nudist named Gustavo. Lol.

ITbomb: She had all the working hours to herself and coming back for a few hours to be with her before u sleep , she says she need space .
FOR WHAT!!!!!!

ogugua88:

Well, there are several reasons she can ask for space in such a situation. I'll examine one.

She works all day, has a nagging boss, papers stacked on her desk, etc. She goes home and meets domestic responsibilities, which she performs. There's nothing wrong with her wanting some time to herself to wind down. I know I surely would. Let her read, watch her favorite program, work out, or whatever she wants to do. Then, she'll meet you in the bedroom.

Sometimes, all you have to do is put yourself in someone's shoes. My mother didn't start giving herself personal time until recently. She's a changed woman, for the better, and I'm very happy for her.

Duke_Nija: Rubbish!!!
Space in Marriage??

Space Ko! Space Ni!

ogugua88:

We have our quiet moments. There are also times where I'd rather talk to someone else lol.

Vikin: Nice one!

I love my space, when hubby goes offshore, I have 4 weeks to myself to do whatever I want, wake up anytime, eat junk etc....I can't ask for more. When he comes home, it's like the relationship just started. I also love going for a trip outside my residence.....


You can never ask for more...

Vikin: Nice one!

I love my space, when hubby goes offshore, I have 4 weeks to myself to do whatever I want, wake up anytime, eat junk etc....I can't ask for more. When he comes home, it's like the relationship just started. I also love going for a trip outside my residence.....


You can never ask for more...

ogugua88:

I'm not a satanist.

As you dey suffocate me now, make I go find personal space. Lol.

Duke_Nija: @CFC
Lol @ the price of Alomo bitters.
Nothing guarantees anything.
Not Space nor 'Choking'

A Marriage will succeed or Fail if it will.
Its the players d@ matter most.

Couples will definitely get their alone time. So asking for space is down right repugnant. All these divorcees in the making sef!!

she-blayze:
The spacing thingy is well thought of. Once in a while we all need a vacation from everything, including friends, family and work. One simple solution to boredom in marriage is rebranding. If wifey is busy tryina upgrade in her career and hubby(husband)is doing same, the result might be 2-sided. Either the "getting a space" thingy is achieved and life gets more exciting, Or couple gets torn apart. It happens everyday, I mean, suddenly hubby or wifey wakes up and say "we used to do stuff together, but now we're like strangers to eachother". You know what the next thing is! "divorce". Methink that, whoever you wanna get married to should be someone who will give you all the PEACE you want. And that can only come from someone who understands you perfectly well.