Chazim: Sometimes we waste too much time thinking
about someone who doesn’t eventhink
about us for a second.

Cutejay: Mods, Mynd44 or whoever is in charge close down this thread pls,

it's almost 2years old. No more comments or advice needed
i have a fiance now, done with the intro other marriage rights coming up soon!

This issue is stale i moved on a long time ago! Thank u all for the advice!

Emusan: @op a fellow Nlander name owenlyn1 need advice on ''how to stop thinkng abt her'' i guess dats a good combination for u people, grap him nw before another intruder will come in

Les:
If you tink dis relationship has failed you, go into another one till you meet ur mr perfect, dont ask me how many relationship you've to be into, after ol, dat electric bulb you are seeing, d inventor failed 999 times b4 he succeeded. Keep trying,

ikenna44:
Lik...rily? R u kidin me? U re in ur early 20s...and u re wilin 2 put up wit all dat drama? Baby daddy! Dat kips secrets 4rm u? My dear u beta run...u re 2 young 4 all dat.
If he has a diferent fb acct wit a lady's pic on it...it cud only mean 1 of dis 2... He's tryn 2 scam sum1 or homegirl, u re bin playd big time.
Throw up ur deuces...its a new year...u dnt nid all dat drama.
Bless

If my woman stalks me.... i'd run!!
If he says she's a friend then believe him till he gives you reason not to...... or maybe you could tell him that you expect more from the relationship.

Your'e hurting... i know your type..... due to previous heart break you dont trust anybody and shit.....

i run from ur types sha

IYANGBALI:
and women will always be what?

Youngpo413:
the guy is rich that's why,naija ladis always falls in love with a mans money and won't mind being the 10th wife to a rich man...some old enough to be their father.


When a naija lady is heartbroken,Its because of the money she will be missing in that particular relationship,not for love,that's why I don't pity a broken hearted naija lady.

dlinglos:
My candid advice


If you feel insecure about the relationship,feel free to sit him down and talk about what you've been thinking.. Listen to what he says carefully and review/compare it with what you've seen,from there you'll know the way forward either by staying or leaving him
Finally @cutejay... You're still very young to be feeling this way there are a lotta people in the outside world looking to have you as a wife to be,don't waste your time on wishful thinking cos it hurts much... True dear! Move
on!

Mercyu1:
@ Poster,my dear dnt kill ur self wit worry.Guys will always be cheats.They will always fink they are smart.It is obvious ur bf has something wit dt girl if nt he wuldnt have gone behind u back 2 open another fb account so as 2 paste d girl's pics.I had similar experience n wen i digged deeper,i found out dt my bf was dating d girl n was even planing marriage wit her.My cadid advice is dt u make hay while d sun shine.Dump him now b4 he dumps u.Dat was exactly wat i did and d said girl later dumped my ex-bf cos she found out d guy is a complete womaniser.Move on wit ur life besides d girl already has a baby 4 him n dt will always be a point of connection b/w them.

totalbaby:
Am so sorry. What a douche bag. Some men just make me sick. You will be fine ok. Time heals all wounds and pls b more careful in future.

ugbakolo:
listen to me young lady.......ur problem is not ur guys being heartless but rather, u being insensible......as long as u continue opening those two legs of urs to any guy that comes in in d name of love and trust....sweetheart, will take and go.....better be smart....consider me a big brother for telling u d truth.......enjoy.

yme1:

This reminds me of a married man that asked me out and I turned him down, he asked why? I replied 'because you are married'

surprisingly he replied "Now I know why some men lie about their relationship status"

Now its my turn to ask, did a woman turn him (them) that way? whay are most men witless, callous, inconsiderate and irrational?
why do they want to have it all? why will they stoop so low and bury themselves in deceit not giving a damn about hurting an innocent lady?
why can't they be truthful and stick their dic.ks at home where it belong, to the wife? why will everything be in their own best interest? na woman cause that one too?


No! virtually all men are naturally heartless dogs that want it all to themselves. so why are they mad when women copy them?
why will a married man cheating on his wife with another chic and then get jealous when the chic is seeing someone else? oh no i know that, because they are Twats.

oya make I rest, I don dey drink panadol for another person headache

yme1:

Gbam!!!


No, it is not. that is the plain truth, men are born to cheat
few can control the urge, many can't

Cutejay:
I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit.
I need your advice please friends! In one of my post i talked about a guy i was dating who has a kid,after everything i agreed to stay not minding if he has a child or not cuz he pleaded with me not to leave cuz he loves me and wouldnt marry his baby mama cuz he doesnt love her and i truely love him so i agreed.
It started in december last year after the child ish,i checked his facebook account and there was a lady he used in his profile picture,i asked him he said she was just a friend i said ok. Then on the 12th of december he opened a new facebook account without informing me which i later found out, i asked him why he did that and he didnt respond,i let it go. On the 1st of jan this year i logged on to facebook and decided to go through his new account though i am not his friend there i went to his wall,only for me to see the same lady in his profile pic. I got upset and asked him who she was and he said why am i disturbing myself over nothing,untill now he has'nt told me who she is to him. I sent him a text today only for him to call and say i shouldnt worry that nothing is happening but its obvious they have something together and he doesnt want to say i suspect something. My annoyance now is that when we started dating 6months ago i asked him if he had someone and he said no, i asked that cuz i wanted 2 clear my concience and i was single at that time i met him and i just graduated from the uni when i met him he is 34 and i am in my early 20's,i didnt mind the age difference cuz i loved him. I have never cheated on this guy,i trusted him,i was everything but content with him,i never asked him for anything he does it at his will,i was ok with that. Now this is all i get BETRAYAL. Why are men like this? I have decided to let him go though it hurts i will try. I am a good girl but right now i want to be bad cuz my goodness hasn't paid off i dont need anyman around me anymore. Please advice me before i take my final decision.

UjSizzle:
Try lesbianism...


Though on a serious note, this is hardly a reason to suddenly hate men. You're still young, and beginning to discover how many douchebags exists as men...gear up for the years ahead, it could get worse and then it will get better.

You still need to cool off though; take a break, enjoy ur girlfriends, flirt, and when you're ready some guy will blow u off ur feet and u just may have found that perfect guy (or maybe just another douche).
Point is, it's all a gamble, u win some and lose some but never lose hope.

harlos:
Guess it happened like this...
Kudos to all guys we too get sweet mouth

Cutejay:
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