Olu-Emma & Ass.:
I'm a lonely single guy who would like a lady for a friendship which could just soar. Hola me on 08132232989, 08188360168. Night calls allowed. Won't be any girl's val maga, though.

Hello Olu,I am not here to judge you but I think sometimes we express ourselves wrongly.Your last sentences can be described in this scenario.A lady who neatly dressed up for a date only for her to get there and soil her dress with food/drink cos she has poor eating nmanners.No sensible doll would call that line after seeing your last sentence.Because ,consciously/unconciously,you will always be suspicious around the lady,thinking she wants to drain your acct.For crying out loud you re even yet to meet her.Please my brother,whoever gave you this orientation about ladies did you no good.somethings should not be said either.Apply diplomacy.

^^
Abeg I no fit laught.

Nice

carmelion:

Ok,now I understaand what you mean and what I would say to you is that you re with the wrong person.This is just the same thing as a girl who is being presurized by her boyfriend for sex.Chike,in this case,the lady is faaaaar ahead of you in the game.Even if you end up sleeping with her,you won't still be man enuff cos a novice can't compete with the master.Try and see if you can talk sense into them,above all go for your type.Birds of the same feather does what again.?

Yeah Carmy..u has a point birds of the same feather should flow together but as the world is changing fast! these feathers really want to exprience what they saw on movies,novels..and their friends told them making it difficult for them to listen a gentlemen advice..funny once u allow them to go enjoyed their malaria assumption dreams..,And the guy ill move on later they started calling back apologizing it's was devil & a mistake...hahaha that's remind me one threaten to kill her self as her guy didn't accept her back finally lost the guy to another damsel...

A novice losing her to the Masters..is that what u said? u see my dear that's were they have serious problem..b/c these masters once they through with them..and wanted to start the real relationship for marriage they target the Novice ladies whom they can upgrade to their standard..now who lose?the ladies who live novice (guy) and rush into masters guy that will sure dump her at last?..Note: when these ladies realised their plan didn't work out the next thing to rush back to so call Novice guy which u know offcourse another sharp lady have already occupy the vacant seat.. Most of our ladies contributed to their plight today!..complicated world indeed!..
Birds of the same feathers does what again..? relates together offcourse!...but will other bird stick together as suppose.. Carmelion?.

Oh Carmy doll! God bless u, I feel better just to know someone shares my feelins, I know he's out there :-)

What will i do?Am single and dont know maybe am searching becos of some ladies are fucking up big time....I feel like,i dont want to marry anymore....I keep fight with my mum over this,ladies i jst shake my head.....

seunny4lif: What will i do?Am single and dont know maybe am searching becos of some ladies are fucking up big time....I feel like,i dont want to marry anymore....I keep fight with my mum over this,ladies i jst shake my head.....

You attract the kind of women who shows a reflection of who you really are. Have you thought that you are the one with the problem?

fitzmayowa:

Am here waiting for you

lol, u wish

Mynd_44:
You attract the kind of women who shows a reflection of who you really are. Have you thought that you are the one with the problem?

Lol,me?Guy,am gentle and dont like making noise...I know what i passed through with ladies...I dont like clubbing,smoking and drinking becos i just dont like it....But most like going to club but guy,i hate that place called club house with passion and i dont party...U can am just me....

I met dis guy, he's d youngest brother to my dad's friend's wife, somehow somehow we fell in love and started datin, only 4 me 2 discover his 7yrs relationship that had serious problems durin d time of our meetin got back together. I was so devastated, tried 2 leave him but he kept beggin me, confessin his love 2 me and all,that his girlfriend involved Pastors so he had to settle wit ha but he loves me deeply, we decided to b friends but d emotional connection is so strong, what should I do? pls help me

seunny4lif: Lol,me?Guy,am gentle and dont like making noise...I know what i passed through with ladies...I dont like clubbing,smoking and drinking becos i just dont like it....But most like going to club but guy,i hate that place called club house with passion and i dont party...U can am just me....

Pele

Kyle.:
hmmm...Kyledoll?

no, kyledoller ni
mtscheeew

A-ZeD:

Want to "tell" us your story?

Of course I will when the time is right.

Maya2pretty: I met dis guy, he's d youngest brother to my dad's friend's wife, somehow somehow we fell in love and started datin, only 4 me 2 discover his 7yrs relationship that had serious problems durin d time of our meetin got back together. I was so devastated, tried 2 leave him but he kept beggin me, confessin his love 2 me and all,that his girlfriend involved Pastors so he had to settle wit ha but he loves me deeply, we decided to b friends but d emotional connection is so strong, what should I do? pls help me

Maya doll,am with you in this one.it happened to me in the year 2011,I tot I would die,I cried my eyes out.Mine is kinda old cos they re married now with a son to show for it.But please check todays date,it says 2013.that means I am still alive,and believe me I don't miss him anymore.How did I do it?First I lblocked him on facebook cos I couldn't stand their pictures and I can't stop him from posting it either.He noticed it and complained but I told him my reasons and stood my grounds.Then I warned him politlely that its completely over btw us.At first ,he backed out but later started sending me text messages for us to arrange for dates.I strongly refused!,though I was tempted to agree.it wasn't easy ,it took me close to a year,but it paid off.Do same dear mayadoll.You will pull thru and your man would come.Don't go back to him no mata what!

i met these two ladies at different time, told them i just like them,hoping to be friends(platonic),get to know ourselves better n who knows somethin lasting could come out of it.
they told me they had someone separately thereby foreclosing further relp.
later wen they got to kno me better,one thru body lang wanted to kno my place&d 2nd said she was no longer wt her guy&wanted to visit me also.i neva allowd dem.
y ar ladies too quick to switch luv n make quick conclusions when approached?,i hate it!

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goodmrnin dollz....i
think ds thread is xo cool. itz xo hard to c a cool thread on nairaland,
bt dis is1.kudos dollz....
as much as i buy d idea of involvin guyz in ds luvli dollz thread,i thnk
t should b 'only guyz hu av problem wif their relationship or past
rlationship', dere4 mynd should not b contributin 'excpt' he is ready to
rit a well composed post, dt all dolls will apr8...well if he is not
up2 dat challenge, he shld jus b quiet and watch dolls tlk.
call me babydoll

First of all i must say it‘s a good thread with a unique approach but it all fairness i wonder why girls don‘t trust guys easily.Just because you have been hurt 1ce does not mean your hope is lost.just believe and things would definately work out,just keep an opened mind-set.dats my contribution

Is this some kind of joke?

@Adeniyi, can you really blame the girls? They probably have had bad experiences with men in the past hence they wanted to be sure who you are before letting anything happen.

Human being do that a lot. Give aome time for a "Trial period" and in that time, decide if you are worth it of not. Is is bad thought that there are two of them but you should see if you reciprocate the feeling towards them and choose one.

This does not mean you should stop being friends with the other one. And even if you choose none, you can still be friends. Cos liking you changes nothing

Maya2pretty: Oh Carmy doll! God bless u, I feel better just to know someone shares my feelins, I know he's out there :-)

@maya doll,u sound nice would like to us to be friends...

baibijay@yahoo.:
goodmrnin dollz....i
think ds thread is xo cool. itz xo hard to c a cool thread on nairaland,
bt dis is1.kudos dollz....
as much as i buy d idea of involvin guyz in ds luvli dollz thread,i thnk
t should b 'only guyz hu av problem wif their relationship or past
rlationship', dere4 mynd should not b contributin 'excpt' he is ready to
rit a well composed post, dt all dolls will apr8...well if he is not
up2 dat challenge, he shld jus b quiet and watch dolls tlk.
call me babydoll

wow babydoll,u sound hard bt straight!I really want to be connected to a great sista in here....

my single bobos are taking over?

MyNameIsIT

Beautiful thread here!!am in line wt ur opinion @ cowgurl..ladies let's make ourselves happy in our ways..hang out wv colleagues,go on vacations and so on..single lady..get urself a life!..don't wait 4 a guy 2 make u happy..single lady,there is a man out dr 4 u and before he comes,give ur life d best,don't brood over the heartbrks and disappointments..be happy!!I love u all..yea I do "big hug"

Nice thread,ladies group hug,we will make it thru the pains and heartbreak and smile soon.its well

Maya2pretty: I met dis guy, he's d youngest brother to my dad's friend's wife, somehow somehow we fell in love and started datin, only 4 me 2 discover his 7yrs relationship that had serious problems durin d time of our meetin got back together. I was so devastated, tried 2 leave him but he kept beggin me, confessin his love 2 me and all,that his girlfriend involved Pastors so he had to settle wit ha but he loves me deeply, we decided to b friends but d emotional connection is so strong, what should I do? pls help me

hmm I feel ur pain too, sometimes these men just use you to past times, while working on their relationshiip forgeting that you are human too and sometimes they think you heart is made up of bricks, I use to think that I can never be jealous but alais I lied,
I even shouted at. His girl freind which I was not suppose to, I was a shouting match as I type we have not spoken to each other since then this I hardly do , I feel ur pain these men fit make person crazy

Please I need help I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday.I feel I have allow him to play and toil with my life and this is tearing me apart, but I need to mend fast cos I can't just stop crying since yesterday. 1st he is a baby daddy of a 5 year old girl and a 2 year old boy.to make the matter worst another girl go through the line for him last week.I get to know and ask him and he said it is true that he does not have to lie about that,

@Carmy doll and Sexy bash hmmm, am so hurt right now cos comin from another source, den am convinced bein wit him is wrong, I'l try to cut off from him, I wont die, since Carmy doll didn't. Exactly, he just used me to pass time and now he wants to keep me, as a mistress or what? am 2 special to b d 'other woman' and meant to b d one and only

rita lewisky: Please I need help I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday.I feel I have allow him to play and toil with my life and this is tearing me apart, but I need to mend fast cos I can't just stop crying since yesterday. 1st he is a baby daddy of a 5 year old girl and a 2 year old boy.to make the matter worst another girl go through the line for him last week.I get to know and ask him and he said it is true that he does not have to lie about that,

im sorry for your pain swtie. u were betrayed, ur love was thrown back at you. u should cry it out... u need to mend, true but don't try to hasten d process or u won't mend properly.so if u ve to cry all weekend,pls do. u ll feel much better afterwards.

we are here for u swtie but do u ve any friend around u? call a friend to come over wit a box of chocolate and keep u company. make sure she is a good listener, pour out ur hrt.

care to tell us wat really happened? is he married or just a baby papa? who did d breaking up?

just know dat u r better off without him. ur happiness is not tied to any man. u ll come out from dis sad place, happier and stronger. u r a jewel, a beautiful doll, u deserve and ll have d best. cheer up k

Maya2pretty: @Carmy doll and Sexy bash hmmm, am so hurt right now cos comin from another source, den am convinced bein wit him is wrong, I'l try to cut off from him, I wont die, since Carmy doll didn't. Exactly, he just used me to pass time and now he wants to keep me, as a mistress or what? am 2 special to b d 'other woman' and meant to b d one and only

tell me mayadoll, how do u intend to cut off from him?
i feel ur pain.

Rolly83:

@maya doll,u sound nice would like to us to be friends...

na so, since ur desperately lookin 4 a wife na

Maya2pretty: @Carmy doll and Sexy bash hmmm, am so hurt right now cos comin from another source, den am convinced bein wit him is wrong, I'l try to cut off from him, I wont die, since Carmy doll didn't. Exactly, he just used me to pass time and now he wants to keep me, as a mistress or what? am 2 special to b d 'other woman' and meant to b d one and only

babe thanks I know even the sunset in paradise, am on my way to kaduna to spend some time with my dad , he made realized that happy ever doesn't exist, all this love fairy tale am full of it(sobing)

gree-die:


tell me mayadoll, how do u intend to cut off from him?
i feel ur pain.

I'l try my best, I'l channel my attentions to somethin else, I pray I get a job soon too, that'l really take my mind off him