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Re: Ask An African-american A Question by bawomolo(m): 2:28pm On Mar 19, 2008
Actually I believe bluegrass is.

metal, grunge AA's just love to claim everything as theirs.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by MsLurker(f): 2:53pm On Mar 19, 2008
Seun:

Because black women behave like vindictive drama queens when they are rejected?

Some do. Some don't.

At the end of the day. I would think most people wouldn't want a person to be involved with them that doesn't want to be with them. I know I wouldn't.

Life will go on. Being hurt sucks but come on, if we are both adults we should be able to handle it properly. And if the black woman in question will act vindicitive wouldn't you know how she is PRIOR to getting involved with her?

bawomolo:

no it isn't, no comprehensive study have been made to confirm this. are trying u to say it is DL men that are spreading HPV to black women have u black women heard of female condoms or something. can bisexual women spread diseases.

Most downlown men (no matter the race) won't admit it because they are "straight". Anyway, any one can spread disease if they aren't careful but it is true that a lot of gay guys don't practice safe sex. I have some gay friends and a lot of them don't do it.

I'm not just blaming the men. Women should be held accountable too. You need to protect your own neck not depend on someone else too.

The downlow debate. tongue
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by bawomolo(m): 3:25pm On Mar 19, 2008
Most downlown men (no matter the race) won't admit it because they are "straight". Anyway, any one can spread disease if they aren't careful but it is true that a lot of gay guys don't practice safe sex. I have some gay friends and a lot of them don't do it.

aren't there downlow men among whites too. so why don't whites have the same STD's rate as AA broads. just because ur gay friends don't practice safe sex, doesn't mean most of them dude. please post a study that says that. what about lesbian ladies, u ladies just love to heap the blame on men for no reason.


The downlow debate.

the downlow debate is exaggerated and just a slight at black men for no reason.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by MsLurker(f): 3:59pm On Mar 19, 2008
I'm not a dude. :-)

And if you read all my comments on the downlow, you would get my side of the debate. Don't pick and choose and read what you want to read.

I never said only black men are on the down low nor did I put all the blame on the men.

You need to read more thoroughly.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by bawomolo(m): 4:42pm On Mar 19, 2008
And if you read all my comments on the downlow, you would get my side of the debate. Don't pick and choose and read what you want to read.

I never said only black men are on the down low nor did I put all the blame on the men.

You need to read more thoroughly.

then why bring it up or attribute it to the spread of STD, seems u were insinuating that. 50% is just disgusting
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by MsLurker(f): 4:55pm On Mar 19, 2008
Because it's becoming one of major contributors to the spread of STD's.

Unprotected gay sex than having unprotected sex with some one who doesn't know that youa re screwing around.

But both sides are to blame. It's malice and ignorance no matter how you dice it.

I currently live in Atlanta and it's HUGE here. I can't speak for everywhere but here, it's like a huge craze. Not sure why.

Followed by drug use.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by EXPONENT(m): 6:42pm On Mar 19, 2008
by the way, I'm not Hero.

Ask Seun.

I'm sure he has the I.P. addresses.


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The truth of the matter is , African Americans or Americans in general don't know JACK about Africa, Asia or world affairs.


There is little American Media showing anything outside of the continential U.S. The ONLY WAY an AA will know anything about Africa - he must seek it out, and believe me not many are seeking.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by christiely: 7:06pm On Mar 19, 2008
My own question is-y do akatas like havin sex with nigerians or africans?i think say una talk say we ugly.an AA guy would be so proud if he got one african chic to Bleep,y?
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by EXPONENT(m): 7:44pm On Mar 19, 2008
My own question is-y do akatas like havin sex with nigerians or africans?i think say una talk say we ugly.an AA guy would be so proud if he got one african chic to mess,y?

As long as you know how to move that ass - it's on.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by MsLurker(f): 8:29pm On Mar 19, 2008
christiely:

My own question is-y do akatas like havin sex with nigerians or africans?i think say una talk say we ugly.an AA guy would be so proud if he got one african chic to mess,y?

Well, I've only dated two. Not something I was thinking of doing. It happened. It was interesting, but I like learning about people that aren't like me. And I came to appreciate Africa. grin
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by toshmann(m): 5:02am On Mar 20, 2008
Ms. Lurker:

Well, I've only dated two.

hmmn, some people de try o grin
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by davidif: 1:03am On Mar 29, 2008
@mrs lurker
I am a nigerian but i have to say that you are the classiest woman ever and i admire your class a lot, you stand in the heat of the battle with all this people saying things about your people and you don't get angry and just loose it like i saw Toccara lose it on TV a couple of nights ago on "celebrity fit club" grin . But seriously though, you are a very temperate person, i just argued with one of my oyinbo (white) friends here, and she was getting all sensitive about my views on the things i don't like about America and i remember being so angry with her but you are the definition of grace my lady, and i apologise for all the shennanigans from our naija people on this board.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by davidif: 1:32am On Mar 29, 2008
@exponent
I have been reading this post and as a naija man i want to apologize for all the nonsense from our people on this post, and i want to say i am so sorry on behalf of our people for all the nasty comments.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by Nobody: 1:34am On Mar 29, 2008
abeg speak for yaself
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by Dreloaded(f): 1:40am On Mar 29, 2008
Exactly

dont apologize for me o. Asinwin.

I meant all that I said and more.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by girl22(f): 5:17pm On Mar 29, 2008
aren't there downlow men among whites too. so why don't whites have the same STD's rate as AA broads. just because your gay friends don't practice safe sex, doesn't mean most of them dude. please post a study that says that. what about lesbian ladies, u ladies just love to heap the blame on men for no reason.

That is a lie that 1 in 2 aa women have an std.

The same way they lied when they said only 600000 showed up a the million man march when there were 1.2million.

Stop letting Europeans tell you the statistics. The statistics among aa women with std's have dropped if you would do research.

Do you honestly believe that I'm stupid enough to believe the western media when they say 80% if Africans have aids?

So why are going to believe 50% of aa women have std's.

I know and you know 80% of Africans dont have Aids.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by girl22(f): 9:08pm On Mar 29, 2008
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No whitey isn't the cause of our problems but they sure do cause alot.

Yes people are responsible for their downfall. But alot of it has to with racism.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by naijadiva2(f): 10:15pm On Mar 29, 2008
girl22:

Africans, we already know what our problems are and do not try to blame whitey for it like you and your people.

Who invented Aids?(you need to resaerch this disease)
Who invented racism?
Who insinuated the war on Iraq?
Who inteniontionally don't approve loan of blacks who have PERFECT credit?
Why are gas prices and the price of goods higher in black communities?


No whitey isn't the cause of our problems but they sure do cause alot.

Yes people are responsible for their downfall. But alot of it has to with racism.



that is so not true.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by Dreloaded(f): 10:46pm On Mar 29, 2008
girl is lying as usual

Gas prices higher where? You're insane. Compare the gases where I stay (Westchester) to places like the bronx.

and instead of whining, why dont you answer our questions like good ol' Madam Lurker did since Hero obviously FAILED woefully.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by chiogo(f): 10:59pm On Mar 29, 2008
girl22:

aren't there downlow men among whites too. so why don't whites have the same STD's rate as AA broads. just because your gay friends don't practice safe sex, doesn't mean most of them dude. please post a study that says that. what about lesbian ladies, u ladies just love to heap the blame on men for no reason.

That is a lie that 1 in 2 aa women have an std.

The same way they lied when they said only 600000 showed up a the million man march when there were 1.2million.

Stop letting Europeans tell you the statistics. The statistics among aa women with std's have dropped if you would do research.

Do you honestly believe that I'm stupid enough to believe the western media when they say 80% if Africans have aids?

So why are going to believe 50% of aa women have std's.

I know and you know 80% of Africans don't have Aids.

You got a point there, u know. In your second post, u said white folks are not the cause of black folks' problem, (good that u know)
But that they do cause a lot(interestin'). I totally agree but my point is what are blacks doin' about that then?? All i keep
hearin' is white folks are the cause of black folks' problems, and what then are they doin' about it??

I got one question for y'all African-Americans(y'all would probably ignore it again):

Why do black folks like sittin' at the back of the bus?? I don't get it, Segregation days are over. Strong people like MLK and Rosa Parks
helped stopped this but blacks keep degradin' and enslavin' themselves up till this day or sittin' at the back of the bus is now the coolest thin'??
do answer. . . .
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by 4Play(m): 11:08pm On Mar 29, 2008
girl22:

Do you honestly believe that I'm stupid enough to believe the western media when they say 80% if Africans have aids?

So why are going to believe 50% of aa women have std's.
I know and you know 80% of Africans don't have Aids.

I must have been living in a cave all my life. . . . . .please where and when did the media ever state that 80% of Africans have AIDS? Don't blame your own ignorance on the media.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 11:14pm On Mar 29, 2008
@girl22

Whoa! I read her previous postings, I suggest you, @girl22 to educate yourself understanding Africa culture especially Nigeria without judgment and without believe in western media including black publications such as Ebony, Jet, Essence, Black Enterprise, as well as black media such as BET, TVOne, etc.

Why don't you take your African History in your college elective course yourself?

Nigeria itself has 250 language with the majority: Yoruba, Hausa, and Igbo including English and 300 ethnic group/tribe. It also has 150 millions population in 35 states.

I myself am not a Nigerian, but US citizen-born.

girl22:

Why are gas prices and the price of goods higher in black communities?

@girl22, are you say that American increase gas and goods price higher in black communities while decrease or remain the same on gas/goods in white communities in the USA? Is that right? If it is not right, then please explain why you say that bold  question quoted at above?

I disagree with you.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 11:26pm On Mar 29, 2008
chiogo:



I got one question for y'all African-Americans(y'all would probably ignore it again):

Why do black folks like sittin' at the back of the bus?? I don't get it, Segregation days are over. Strong people like MLK and Rosa Parks helped stopped this but blacks keep degradin' and enslavin' themselves up till this day or sittin' at the back of the bus is now the coolest thin'??
do answer. . . .
@chiogo
Oh really, how long you been stayed in MA? Is this where you live in Boston MA as you stated all black folks sitting at the back of the city bus just like back old good at time of segregation days? You said they degraded and enslave themselves!

I had been visited to Boston MA few years ago---i do not see myself personally on the city public bus as well as train riding as you mentioned above quote.

That is flatly not true! What a laugh!  smiley  grin  cheesy  smiley

In every major cities in the USA, where public transportation provide, the reason why black folks enjoying to sit at the back of the bus is BECAUSE IT IS EASY ACCESSIBLE TO GET OFF THE BUS STOP at the rear exit door, not because of segregation days habits! angry
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by chiogo(f): 12:02am On Mar 30, 2008
uspry1:

@chiogo
Oh really, how long you been stayed in MA? Is this where you live in Boston MA as you stated all black folks sitting at the back of the city bus just like back old good at time of segregation days? You said they degraded and enslave themselves!

I had been visited to Boston MA few years ago---i do not see myself personally on the city public bus as well as train riding as you mentioned above quote.

That is flatly not true! What a laugh! smiley grin cheesy smiley

In every major cities in the USA, where public transportation provide, the reason why black folks enjoying to sit at the back of the bus is [b]BECAUSE IT IS EASY ACCESSIBLE TO GET OFF THE BUS STOP at the rear exit door, not because of segregation days habits! angry[/b]
That too, gave me a good laugh!!! You say they sit at the back to easily get off the bus?? what a joke!!! I don't know what kind@ bus u're talkin' about but
the buses here have two doors, one at the front across from the driver at the right and another in the middle(1/2 of the bus) also at the right corner.
Therefore, if u sit at the front, u can 'easily' get off the bus thru the front door. And if u sit in the middle, u cld easily get off also thru d 'rear door', which is actually
at the second-half of the bus. So, there's no excuse for them sittin' there. I believe it's an act of self-degradation because back in segregation times, only
white folks sat at the front of the bus while the back seats are meant for colored folks. Now,slavery is wayyyy over, so why the act?? Don't try to justify this act
because it is practiced only by ignorant teenagers and some of these old homeless people. It came to my mind when girl22 made her comment about white
people bein' a cause of black peoples' problem. I'm thinkin': how are they the cause of ur problem when they ain't even enslavin' u anymore but rather, u're
enslavin' urself.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 12:18am On Mar 30, 2008
chiogo:

That too, gave me a good laugh!!! You say they sit at the back to easily get off the bus?? what a joke!!! I don't know what kind@ bus u're talkin' about but
the buses here have two doors, one at the front across from the driver at the right and another in the middle(1/2 of the bus) also at the right corner.
Therefore, if u sit at the front, u can 'easily' get off the bus through the front door. And if u sit in the middle, u cld easily get off also through d 'rear door', which is actually
at the second-half of the bus. So, there's no excuse for them sittin' there. I believe it's an act of self-degradation because back in segregation times, only
white folks sat at the front of the bus while the back seats are meant for colored folks. Now,slavery is wayyyy over, so why the act?? Don't try to justify this act
because it is practiced only by ignorant teenagers and some of these old homeless people. It came to my mind when girl22 made her comment about white
people bein' a cause of black peoples' problem. I'm thinkin': how are they the cause of your problem when they ain't even enslavin' u anymore but rather, u're
enslavin' yourself.


@chiogo
Look at the picture of modern city bus in the USA---every 50 states in a metropolitan cities have one at below:

That what I talk about! Every city buses are different sizes, colors, as well as painting-print advertisement on the bus.



Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 1:11am On Mar 30, 2008
Who invented AIDS?
The AIDS headlines in the San Francisco Chronicle (newspaper in California) from 1981 to 1986 has focused almost entirely on the dubious science and media. (You should make aware the fact that San Francisco has a long history of homosexual city)

The story was launched by Dr. Michael Gottlieb, a doctor at UCLA medical that was specialized in the immature science of immunology reporting his discovery of cases of pneumocystis pneumonia in only FIVE gay men in 1981.

That's how Dr. Gottlieb invented new gay disease, AIDS, that was placed in a classification called primary immunodeficiencies, then later a few rare, usually congenital, diseases that fell into this category. Secondary immunodeficiencies result from the stress of another sick condition such as cancer, or from its treatments like radiation or chemotherapy (AZT), or from environmental stresses such as chemical insults, or from exhaustion, starvation (as in much of so-called African AIDS), depression (as from an AIDS diagnosis), etc.

Later media twisted calling it new sex disease. (I remembered at that time i was in college in 1985 reading media/news everywhere about AIDS spreading scare by CDC (Center for Disease Control)).

The system that defines primary immunodeficiencies was developed by the World Health Organization (WHO). WHO has become a big international player in the game of AIDS.
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 1:17am On Mar 30, 2008
Who invented racism?
The word "racism" was found in the Oxford English Dictionary on October 21, 1907 and is defined therein as "Belief in the superiority of a particular race leading to prejudice and antagonism towards people of other races, esp. those in close proximity who may be felt as a threat to one's cultural and racial integrity or economic well-being."

Up until the late 1960s, early 70s, the word racism was used more or less interchangeably with racialism.

Outside of the dictionary though, the first mention of racism appears to have been made by a German, Magnus Hirschfeld, who published a book with the bland title Racism in 1938.

Actually, this book was published posthumously, because Magnus Hirschfeld died in Nice on May 14, 1935, his sixty-seventh birthday.

He was not its sole author, the reference on page 279 in the appendix to a legal declaration was made by a Swiss Court on the day of his death.
==== ATTENTION ====
However, I cannot summarized myself about Magnus' biolography. It was quite interesting to learn that he devoted the rest of his life studying in the field of sexology medicine in 1910. At that time of Nazis, his publication burnt that prompted him left German for good in November 1931---because of his Jew academic.

Also there are more different people who invented "racism" other than Magnus in different year era.

source cited: http://www.alexanderbaron.150m.com/man_who_invented_racism_3.html
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 1:43am On Mar 30, 2008
Who insinuated the war on Iraq?

The "insurgents" in Iraq continue to blow themselves up to prevent the interim government from gaining credibility among the populace, please note the report that the new "interim government" has confessed that Saddam Hussein started the eight-year war with Iran in 1980. All these years, the people of Iraq believed the war grew out of Iran's Ayatollah Khomeini's call for Iraqi Shi'ites to overthrow Saddam in order to install a sectarian Shi'ite government in Baghdad.

Then Bush’s former Treasury Secretary, Paul O’Neill said that the Iraq war was planned just days after the President Bush was sworn into office. That's how it started Bush administration cover-up, worrying about losing international support for the sanctions it placed on Iraq ten years earlier leaving the door open to the possibility that Saddam Hussein would be let out of his proverbial box.

==== Attention ===
You all know the rest of the story, that i do not have to repeat! Do your homework!!!
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by girl22(f): 1:47am On Mar 30, 2008
I must have been living in a cave all my life. . . . . .please where and when did the media ever state that 80% of Africans have AIDS? Don't blame your own ignorance on the media.

You dumb ass it was in an news article
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by girl22(f): 1:48am On Mar 30, 2008
girl22, are you say that American increase gas and goods price higher in black communities while decrease or remain the same on gas/goods in white communities in the USA? Is that right? If it is not right, then please explain why you say that bold question quoted at above?

google it that can be proven
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 1:56am On Mar 30, 2008
Who inteniontionally don't approve loan of blacks who have PERFECT credit?

Obviously it shows evidence regarding racially discriminatory acts in the mortgage lending market in the USA who intenintionally don't approve loan of blacks who have PERFECT CREDIT.

All mortgage lending industry in the USA violate relevant provisions of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act or the Fair Housing Act (Title VIII of the Civil Rights Act of 1968). A lender in violation of fair lending laws would also fail to meet its obligations under the Community Reinvestment Act (CRA). The lender includes home appraisals as part of the mortgage lending market. There are a host of other federal laws, two Executive Orders, and many state and local laws which prohibit or relate to discrimination in mortgage lending.

According to the local TV news, it said 150 mortgage subprime industries caught up in fraud tricking low-income homeowners as well as blacks and elderly by FBI investigations on the ground of scamming/money-greedy. 500,000 houses in the USA now already foreclosure status, many homeowners walked away giving up!!!
Re: Ask An African-american A Question by uspry1(f): 2:14am On Mar 30, 2008
girl22:

girl22, are you say that American increase gas and goods price higher in black communities while decrease or remain the same on gas/goods in white communities in the USA? Is that right? If it is not right, then please explain why you say that bold question quoted at above?

google it that can be proven

@girl22

Please provide us your source cite stating that gas and goods price increase in black communities while decrease in white communities in the USA. Your statement is not correct!

Why are gas prices and the price of goods higher in black communities?

I use official government gas price data by state site. According to the site says in the west coast, $4.00/gallon gas price hits while in the east coast, $3.52/gallon gas price hits. Of course for food price increases the rest of the USA too.

But it is not impossible based on races communities to divide varies gas price/food price differently! For sure, it will cause American grew angry at the government if found out the truth. You @girl22 silly student!

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