chronique: So so sad. Everytime my dad disturbs me about getting married,I keep telling him that the ladies they had in their era can't be compared to what is obtainable today but he doesn't seem to understand how bad things are. It's easier for SU brothers and sisters to marry than for those who've had experiences of what life outside the church looks like. how do you explain your wife slamming your younger brother? Not your neighbour or friend or colleague;your own blood? What's as humiliating as that? The more I read about issues like these,the more it makes me drag my feet towards settling down. Wouldn't it be better for one to be single and happy than for one to be married and sad? If you dig deep,you'll find out she's been shagging others aside his brother.

Sorry for the loss of your friend. Once had a girl who was doubling up between me and my bestie(although the whole thing started as a game). My bestie opened up to me about it and at first,I was heartbroken and embarassed. But I had to be a man. I told him to carry on. We both screwed the bitch and when we were done,we left her. But in her silly mind,she was playing games,not knowing we were busy chilling with drinks at night to discuss her p**sy and the stretchmarks on her saggy boobs. When I left that hood,I passed her round to others.... The irony of it all is that one innocent man would marry her and start a family with her. These are the kinda girls you can't leave at home without them testing other dicks behind you. Unfortunately,there are so many of them outthere. Yes,he was wrong to have taken his life but nobody knows how destroyed he was,inside. Maybe he would have been able to cope if she was still his girlfriend but his wife,mother of his child? That must have been pretty tough. May his soul r.I.p.

biolabee:

Irrespective of how bad it looks, NO ONE, I repeat NO ONE MALE OR FEMALE deserves to be murdered because of infidelity or to take his or her life

Why don't you leave it to God to judge as we all have sinned and should not judge

Once again, may the departed rest in peace

2jideofor: True -but you know the thing with emotions, it clouds your thinking.

If I didnt call myself to order, I would have had BP at an early age. For some weeks I had respiratory difficulties.

But God is a marvelous God because financially, I am far better than she left me or more than she could have ever imagine... I almost moving up the ladder of a million... Just a corper

That is what this man should have done, concentrate on making himself a better person. The truth is that, the wife did what she did for a reason she finds so difficult to tell her husband.

Na God get power

biolabee:

It is well bros..
So much anger in the system

You will go from grace to grace
Amin

Rooneyboy:

@The bolded part of ur post:

As if u knew what transpired before they got married .
Truth is he was warned sternly not to marry the lady but his response was "I know what I'm doing, I want to prove some people wrong".

ayobase:

A lady that screws men is tagged a prostitute, but a man that screws women is tagged a Don in most cases.

Why?

The trauma of woman cheating is FAR heavier than that of man!

As a woman, u are bound to counter me on that, but its the fact!

chronique: So so sad. Everytime my dad disturbs me about getting married,I keep telling him that the ladies they had in their era can't be compared to what is obtainable today but he doesn't seem to understand how bad things are. It's easier for SU brothers and sisters to marry than for those who've had experiences of what life outside the church looks like. how do you explain your wife slamming your younger brother? Not your neighbour or friend or colleague;your own blood? What's as humiliating as that? The more I read about issues like these,the more it makes me drag my feet towards settling down. Wouldn't it be better for one to be single and happy than for one to be married and sad? If you dig deep,you'll find out she's been shagging others aside his brother.

Sorry for the loss of your friend. Once had a girl who was doubling up between me and my bestie(although the whole thing started as a game). My bestie opened up to me about it and at first,I was heartbroken and embarassed. But I had to be a man. I told him to carry on. We both screwed the bitch and when we were done,we left her. But in her silly mind,she was playing games,not knowing we were busy chilling with drinks at night to discuss her p**sy and the stretchmarks on her saggy boobs. When I left that hood,I passed her round to others.... The irony of it all is that one innocent man would marry her and start a family with her. These are the kinda girls you can't leave at home without them testing other dicks behind you. Unfortunately,there are so many of them outthere. Yes,he was wrong to have taken his life but nobody knows how destroyed he was,inside. Maybe he would have been able to cope if she was still his girlfriend but his wife,mother of his child? That must have been pretty tough. May his soul r.I.p.

vivian chinaza:

How much fuc...king bride price do you even pay?

Bro face it, men are weaker vessels. You can't just get ur acts together, stand up and own up to your responsibilities, no! You always push the blame to someone else. What does that make u? Cry babies. You guys are just weak.
And its good a lot of you are served the very food you prepared. At least you get to see how great it tastes.
When next you see a woman on the road? Duff ur cap for her! She is an epitome of strength.
And I didn't say this from a view point of feminism. I'm not a feminist.

A lot of you guys are just full of shi..t and I wonder how women put up with u.

bukatyne:

Don't mind them, they think they have the reserved rights to demand fidelity from their women.

Lol! Why are you not a feminist?

vivian chinaza:

I don't agree with some of their ideologies. And in practice, I don't like the so much anger in them.

vivian chinaza:

How much fuc...king bride price do you even pay?

Bro face it, men are weaker vessels. You can't just get ur acts together, stand up and own up to your responsibilities, no! You always push the blame to someone else. What does that make u? Cry babies. You guys are just weak.
And its good a lot of you are served the very food you prepared. At least you get to see how great it tastes.
When next you see a woman on the road? Duff ur cap for her! She is an epitome of strength.
And I didn't say this from a view point of feminism. I'm not a feminist.

A lot of you guys are just full of shi..t and I wonder how women put up with u.

pleep: Im so sick of people acting like men and women are completely the same whenever it benefits them. Vivian chinaza, why dont you pay for dates, why don't you open doors, why don't you initiate courtship?

Why do you feel entitled to a man who is richer than you?


the majority of Nairaland ladies are just over-grown babies that want to have their cake and eat it too. smgdh grow the hell up!

pleep: thats funny because i remember you yapping all over the forums about how you want a rich man.

yep.. right around the time of that Mrs Nairaland contest.... lie lie lie, independant bla bla bla. all the word indepdendaent means to a black woman is single motherhood

pleep: You are bitter as hell and i have no idea why you are figthing this point with so much ferocity

Maybe men are the weaker vessels i dont care, you can practice w/e you want in your household that is not my problem.

All i know is that if i listed the ways women are weaker than men this post would never end.....

Not not speaking about this because of some stupid man vs women competiton. Im speaking about facts that have been proven by the scientific method. Though-out history cheating spouses have hindered mens ability to pass on their genes to the future, this is a proven fact, you cant argue against it.

You might as well argue with all the surveys and studies that have been done on the subject as well as the phychology today article that stated the magority of american women wouldn't mind being a millionaires second wife.

Cheating affects men more on a subconcious level.

Men and women are not the same, fucking accept it

hottiechoco:


Are you justifying suicide?
People are going through worse situations,
Everyone is praying for life and someone is taking his because of a woman.
He went to the extreme

vivian chinaza:

Bitter? , I'm defending my gender the same way you are.

If you are not so bitter? Why the name calling and personal attack? Why are u resorting to cheap blackmail?
Let's face it, you are not man enough, cos if you believe in yourself, why take bring others down?

biolabee:
Appreciate your frankness
truly but generally black women are mostly angry
Just that the feminists' angerlevels are quite high CONSISTENTLY

vivian chinaza:

I don't agree with some of their ideologies. And in practice, I don't like the so much anger in them.

bukatyne:

Ideologies like?

pleep: I dont get what is so hard for these dumb women to understand that men & women have different priorities in relationships.

most men will not tolerate being cheated on

most women will not tolerate brokeness

@ ladies get it through you estrogen saturated brains... if it bothers you so much have a march lol.

onila: I am satisfied with the double standards

a man cant hit a woman but a woman can hit her man

a man can cheat n get forgiven but a woman cant be forgiven

I will never cheat but I will def slap him when he messes up