pleep: I had given up all hope that women were capable of understanding that double standard go both ways

Gbam 100X onila, you are litterally the first i have seen on Nairaland.

even tho pple are meant to tolerate guys cheating . .it shldnt be accepted

too many diseases out there

if my guy or husband is banging different women, my only fear is STD,S or any kind of trash

i didnt overcome temptation from other men all my life to get some disease from my spouse aka as..shole

I know. Cheating is bad for men and women, no one should accept cheating. The important point here is that you understand that double standards go both ways... most women dont seem to be capable of that

bukatyne:

Your post really got me laughing!

What really is the moral of your story?

Are you and your bestie any better than the girl you were jointly sleeping with?

Moral of my story is that I've been in a situation close to what the deceased experienced and I know how it feels. Are me and my bestie better than the girl in question? Yes we are. Maybe you'd have preferred to hear how I fought my bestie and broke his head with bottle but sorry to disappoint you. I can't exchange punches over a biatch. It's my policy. I'd rather make life miserable for the cheating biatch. Yeah,her case got as bad as pple calling her my leftover. That's how you treat girls who think they're smart. I didn't need to get violent about it. That was my way of getting even. When she found out we were playing her,she was ashamed of herself. My friend didn't rape her;she gave in willingly cos she thought she was good at her games and mind you,she was also Shagging one married military man... My dear,don't try to defend her. You treat a dog like a dog and a woman like a woman;simple.

pleep: I dont get what is so hard for these dumb women to understand that men & women have different priorities in relationships.

most men will not tolerate being cheated on

most women will not tolerate brokeness

@ ladies get it through your estrogen saturated brains...

Why don't you go for those women who will appreciate your chicken change in exchange of infidelity. Simples.

In my own world, women work twice as much hard, and they expect to be treated with respect. In my own world I have seen great women who stood by their husbands when they are broke, yet, the husbands cheat. In my own world, we believe in the golden rule.

I personally might forgive a cheating spouse under special circumstances, other than that he gets tossed out. And I'd choose to toss him out not because I'm not bruised, not because I don't feel like killing something, no. I'd choose the tossing out option because no lousy son of a biatch is worth ruining my life over.

If you say the food who have prepared is delicious, then you need to taste it.

vivian chinaza:

Why don't you go for those women who will appreciate your chicken change in exchange of infidelity. Simples.

In my own world, women work twice as much hard, and they expect to be treated with respect. In my own world I have seen great women who stood by their husbands when they are broke, yet, the husbands cheat. In my own world, we believe in the golden rule.

I personally might forgive a cheating spouse under special circumstances, other than that he gets tossed out. And I'd choose to toss him out not because I'm not bruised, not because I don't feel like killing something, no. I'd choose the tossing out option because no lousy son of a biatch is worth ruining my life over.

If you say the food who have prepared is delicious, then you need to taste it.

are u gonna marry a Nigerian man


what advise wld u give a guy if his girlfriend hit him

@ vivian chinaza lol, w/e ma'am do ya thing.

vivian chinaza:

Why don't you go for those women who will appreciate your chicken change in exchange of infidelity. Simples.

In my own world, women work twice as much hard, and they expect to be treated with respect. In my own world I have seen great women who stood by their husbands when they are broke, yet, the husbands cheat. In my own world, we believe in the golden rule.

I personally might forgive a cheating spouse under special circumstances, other than that he gets tossed out. And I'd choose to toss him out not because I'm not bruised, not because I don't feel like killing something, no. I'd choose the tossing out option because no lousy son of a biatch is worth ruining my life over.

If you say the food who have prepared is delicious, then you need to taste it.

You toss him out of his house?

CAMEROONPRIDE:

We are looking for feminist like u

https://www.nairaland.com/1254189/feminism-why-women-general-especially/3#15232202

Thanks for the invite.

I have gone through the thread and will comment tomorrow cos i'm mobile now

CAMEROONPRIDE:

You toss him out of his house?

i think vivians paying for the house

# fail

if yr gonna marry a naija man

u shld be ready to accept cheating

pleep: i think vivians paying for the house

# fail

She is messing with broke nigga

Anyway that means she ain't a gold digger

Shes a "wanna be" gold-digger. I remember all her posts demanding a rich man

i guess she is not hot enough lol.

bukatyne:

Thanks for the invite.

I have gone through the thread and will comment tomorrow cos i'm mobile now

np

pleep: ^ lol ma'am... i just made 3 posts explaining how men are conditioned by evolution to be less tolerant of a cheating partner.

I am not going to go though all that again just to try and convince another dumb woman (i.e you) of a truth she will never accept

Truth is relative.

The fact that Vivian doesn't agree with you doesn't make her dumb.

There is no need to convince me to accept your opinions; I am entitled to mine and you yours.

I believe you are a reasonable person. Insulting people because they do not share your POV is a quality of an UNREASONABLE person.

bukatyne:

Truth is relative.

The fact that Vivian doesn't agree with you doesn't make her dumb.

There is no need to convince me to accept your opinions; I am entitled to mine and you yours.

I believe you are a reasonable person. Insulting people because they do not share your POV is a quality of an UNREASONABLE person.

Truth is not relative , who told you that?

@ dumb woman- I don't care dumbo... my posts are suppported by facts while yours are just opinions. fact is not relative

now buzz off if you don't want an e-beef.

@ pleep, yea, I'm an angry woman, who goes about opening threads and whining about other people, who goes about screaming "I will never get married!" Who attacks other people's personalities to feel so good about herself, who resorted to cheap blackmail to drive home unnecessary points. Oh wait, that's you!

is it not ironical? How a mad man goes about calling other people mad?

I will never cheat on my husband, not because I can't but because I won't! But if he dares cheat on me? I won't kill myself, life still dey sweet me jare. I will considering pulling a trigger at him, but nah, no SOB is worth ruining my life over, unless they legalise shooting. I will simply toss him and move on to better men.

One more thing, I do not believe in double standards. I will never raise my hands on a man unless in self defence. No man should raise his hands on me. In as much as I don't want to be beaten, I'm not gonna push a man to the wall. But if he dares for no just cause raise his hands on my, I don't believe in inviting the police, I believe in bringing some guys to beat the hell outta him too, then we can go to the police.

@ pleep, yea, I'm an angry woman, who goes about opening threads and whining about other people, who goes about screaming "I will never get married!" Who attacks other people's personalities to feel so good about herself, who resorted to cheap blackmail to drive home unnecessary points. Oh wait, that's you!

is it not ironical? How a mad man goes about calling other people mad?

I will never cheat on my husband, not because I can't but because I won't! But if he dares cheat on me? I won't kill myself, life still dey sweet me jare. I will considering pulling a trigger at him, but nah, no SOB is worth ruining my life over, unless they legalise shooting. I will simply toss him and move on to better men.

One more thing, I do not believe in double standards. I will never raise my hands on a man unless in self defence. No man should raise his hands on me. In as much as I don't want to be beaten, I'm not gonna push a man to the wall. But if he dares for no just cause raise his hands on my, I don't believe in inviting the police, I believe in bringing some guys to beat the hell outta him too, then we can go to the police.

chronique:


Moral of my story is that I've been in a situation close to what the deceased experienced and I know how it feels. Are me and my bestie better than the girl in question? Yes we are. Maybe you'd have preferred to hear how I fought my bestie and broke his head with bottle but sorry to disappoint you. I can't exchange punches over a biatch. It's my policy. I'd rather make life miserable for the cheating biatch. Yeah,her case got as bad as pple calling her my leftover. That's how you treat girls who think they're smart. I didn't need to get violent about it. That was my way of getting even. When she found out we were playing her,she was ashamed of herself. My friend didn't rape her;she gave in willingly cos she thought she was good at her games and mind you,she was also Shagging one married military man... My dear,don't try to defend her. You treat a dog like a dog and a woman like a woman;simple.

I am not defending her or expecting you to fight your bestie. There was nothing stopping you from ending the relationship.

I want to believe you are not a christian; else reread your posts from a christian POV.

bla bla bla.. i've said my peice. I'm tied of this thread, you ladies just argue in circles

If you didn't beleive in double standards you wouldn't be demanding a richer man, or letting guys pay for dates etc etc. just buzz off woman, ur brain is slush

bukatyne:

I am not defending her or expecting you to fight your bestie. There was nothing stopping you from ending the relationship.

I want to believe you are not a christian; else reread your posts from a christian POV.

lol, women like bukatyne want every man to ask like jesus

... but they never see anything wrong in womens behavior. Chronique didn't do anything wrong.. the lady did. You ppl are so blind.

onila:

are u gonna marry a Nigerian man


what advise wld u give a guy if his girlfriend hit him

Sweetheart,

If you can cope with cheating, not every woman can. Besides, there are responsible and faithful men out there.

As for a girl hitting her man, how many girls hit their guys knowing that their guys are stronger?

Are you comparing a slap max to sleeping with someone?

CAMEROONPRIDE:

Truth is not relative , who told you that?

According to religion, God created the earth
According to evolution, the earth evoluted from ...

Yea, I'm gonna toss him out, not out of a house but out of my life.

You see, I don't believe in a man's properties, if for any reason I divorce a man, I don't want to go with his penny, I don't need his house or alimony. The only things that would leave with me are the things I bought with my own money. Before and after I get married I'm gonna acquire properties in my own name, which my hubby would be aware of. That is why I don't bother myself about court marriage.

bukatyne:

According to religion, God created the earth
According to evolution, the earth evoluted from ...

Your point is?

Truth/facts are not relative don't fight the obvious.

A dog is an animal? How can you say it is relative?

pleep: @ dumb woman- I don't care dumbo... my posts are suppported by facts while yours are just opinions. fact is not relative

now buzz off if you don't want an e-beef.

I said truth, you said facts...

Why should I care if a nameless, faceless moniker wants to have an e-beef with my moniker or IP address?

bukatyne:

Sweetheart,

If you can cope with cheating, not every woman can. Besides, there are responsible and faithful men out there.

As for a girl hitting her man, how many girls hit their guys knowing that their guys are stronger?

Are you comparing a slap max to sleeping with someone?

one out of 100

So you make a difference between a truth and fact?
Lol anyway it is still not relative.

And if you are going to reply don't quote or mention your useless bible anymore

CAMEROONPRIDE:
Your point is?

Truth/facts are not relative don't fight the obvious.

A dog is an animal? How can you say it is relative?

Is fact and truth the same?

^ you tell me you are the one making a difference

CAMEROONPRIDE: So you make a difference between a truth and fact?
Lol anyway it is still not relative.

And if you are going to reply don't quote or mention your useless bible anymore

Mr,

I DO NOT care about your beliefs BUT do not rubbish mine.

onila:

one out of 100

Whatever you believe!