safarigirl: They come dressed in high-end clothing, articulate in speech, they claim to be anything from MOGs to doctors, lawyers and contractors/businessmen(most used).

What they really are? Wolves waiting to pounce on unsuspecting, successful women.

Many times the art of gold digging has been attributed to only females, but more and more men seem to be involved in worming their ways into the hearts of women with the sole aim of sucking her dry both financially and emotionally.

It's apparent that our men aren't interested in working hard for their money, rather preferring to feed off of unsuspecting (mostly desperate and lonely) women, who are deceived into thinking the men in question are truly in love with them.

This trend is mostly popular in the cities (Lagos,PH,Abuja), but Abuja has to be the headquarters of these men. They date older, successful women and promise them marriage only to abscond with their money and valuables (probably off to marry the younger girl they've been courting for years)

These shameless men have even gone international, dating and most times marrying women twice their ages in the hopes that such women die few months after the marriage, just to get citizenship/wealth.

It surprises me how NL men have the nerve to say ALL Nigerian girls are gold diggers, when the men are just as guilty.

Accept it or not, Nigeria has more male gold diggers than female gold diggers(at least we don't see Nigerian women marrying old, frail men twice their ages)

32-D:

[size=16pt]well what is good 4 d goose(Chioma) is also good 4 d gander(Chukwudi)[/size]

Okija_juju:

Bitches be hussling brothers everyday for everything from; Recharge cards to Cellphones to cars, house rents, lands, open up boutiques for them, shopping in Dubai, Private jet lounging, Yatch cruises, expensive vacations, money in the bank, etc.. This has been the case since the beginning of time. We men complain, but we keep it on the down low..

A Man gets some help from a woman, she opens a website and tells the world...

Whats the ratio of Guys who hussle women to girls who hussle guys?! Prolly like 500,000 : 1 (in just Abuja o!!)

Okija_juju:

Bitches be hussling brothers everyday for everything from; Recharge cards to Cellphones to cars, house rents, lands, open up boutiques for them, shopping in Dubai, Private jet lounging, Yatch cruises, expensive vacations, money in the bank, etc.. This has been the case since the beginning of time. We men complain, but we keep it on the down low..

A Man gets some help from a woman, she opens a website and tells the world...

Whats the ratio of Guys who hussle women to girls who hussle guys?! Prolly like 500,000 : 1 (in just Abuja o!!)

4llerbuntu:

do u feel better now after the improbable and ass-brained rant?


Like seriously, The above is NOT TRUE.

and even more pertinent is, why does it bug u pple so much? since the advent of time, you pple have been doing this, under various guises and celebrated it as being smart, sharp etc etc.

ALL those fun cliches, ALL those "pay my bills" etc etc.

now the shoe is on the other foot,its now bothering u pple?

Nna, deal with it. Just the way all those Mugu men have dealt with it over the years.

feel free to rant, it helps relieve the stress.


BTW, in case you dont agree, feel free to be gay. since in your dystopic world, women are not gold diggers.


And just to be clear about all this BS, for every male gold digger, there are 1000 female gold diggers. matter of fact every female is a Gold Digger. Yeah i went there.

disprove it

4llerbuntu:

do u feel better now after the improbable and ass-brained rant?


Like seriously, The above is NOT TRUE.

and even more pertinent is, why does it bug u pple so much? since the advent of time, you pple have been doing this, under various guises and celebrated it as being smart, sharp etc etc.

ALL those fun cliches, ALL those "pay my bills" etc etc.

now the shoe is on the other foot,its now bothering u pple?

Nna, deal with it. Just the way all those Mugu men have dealt with it over the years.

feel free to rant, it helps relieve the stress.


BTW, in case you dont agree, feel free to be gay. since in your dystopic world, women are not gold diggers.


And just to be clear about all this BS, for every male gold digger, there are 1000 female gold diggers. matter of fact every female is a Gold Digger. Yeah i went there.

disprove it

Ujjoan:

That's because it's an anomaly . .
If you saw GEJ smoking in public I'm sure you'll open a thread on NL about it . . but others do it and it's no big deal!
A man is supposed to be a man!

Okija_juju:

Bitches be hussling brothers everyday for everything from; Recharge cards to Cellphones to cars, house rents, lands, open up boutiques for them, shopping in Dubai, Private jet lounging, Yatch cruises, expensive vacations, money in the bank, etc.. This has been the case since the beginning of time. We men complain, but we keep it on the down low..

A Man gets some help from a woman, she opens a website and tells the world...

Whats the ratio of Guys who hussle women to girls who hussle guys?! Prolly like 500,000 : 1 (in just Abuja o!!)

safarigirl: none of the above really.

It's something I notcied a lot in Abuja, young guys looking for women who drive posh cars and take trips abroad...

There was also this woman in a salon I was at one time who told us of the man she married (she's a sickler and a motivational speaker who writes and speaks at seminars in Europe and Africa). The guy claimed to be an MOG who had cancer, and she went out of her way to take care of him to the detriment of both her health and career. She annulled the marriage once she discovered he was in fact very healthy, all he wanted was a cash cow.

Wondering why men who God made providers would want to alter that and become liabilities to those they ought to provide for.

fewj: We need to import those ABJ, PHC and Lag guys to Warri to mentor Us, Warri girls wan kill us!!!

4llerbuntu:


Really? and where did you get this nugget of wisdom from?

Let me guess, the "holy" books?, your "tradition"?

Nna, shame u picked this portion to hold fast, what about ALL the other aspects of those books and traditions that stipulate that your sorry arses are second class citizens, meant to be seen and not heard? the part that state u all are all properties to be maintained?


That part does not jell with your "modern" outlook, but u accept the part where some fool should have to provide for u abi?




@ debrief,
as much as i understand and sympathise with your views, It became like this the time when it became normative that only men who have it made are qualified to date women.

men have been enduring this crap for years or how they are measured primarily by the amount of cash they control. The human Nature is like the human body, IT ADAPTS.

Its a Sign of the times.


NB: I am not a gold digger, will rather die than be one. but i find it amusing to see woman complain about gold digging,.

seriously? women? what wont we see.

safarigirl: Accept it or not, Nigeria has more male gold diggers than female gold diggers(at least we don't see Nigerian women marrying old, frail men twice their ages)

. . .Accept it or not, Nigeria has
more male gold diggers than
female gold diggers(at least we
don't see Nigerian women
marrying old, frail men twice
their ages)

booqee: Why complaining?? We have golddiggers both in males and females almost in equal measures, so wats ur point in lamenting??

Rhymez: . No time

4llerbuntu:

do u feel better now after the improbable and ass-brained rant?


Like seriously, The above is NOT TRUE.

and even more pertinent is, why does it bug u pple so much? since the advent of time, you pple have been doing this, under various guises and celebrated it as being smart, sharp etc etc.

ALL those fun cliches, ALL those "pay my bills" etc etc.

now the shoe is on the other foot,its now bothering u pple?

Nna, deal with it. Just the way all those Mugu men have dealt with it over the years.

feel free to rant, it helps relieve the stress.


BTW, in case you dont agree, feel free to be gay. since in your dystopic world, women are not gold diggers.


And just to be clear about all this BS, for every male gold digger, there are 1000 female gold diggers. matter of fact every female is a Gold Digger. Yeah i went there.

disprove it

Chubhie: C'mon, There are still Nigerian men who still upholds the natural order of things between the sexes. A real man with principles wont descend to such lows for bodily and material gains. Ladies on the other should learn to plan their life with precision from youth and how they intend spending old age thereby minimizing the risks of being desperate and willing to compromise standards for weak men willing to pry on them. Parents should also learn to teach their kids how to discover themselves very early in life.

ichidodo: O.k they accept that God made men to provide for the family but they wont accept that God made men the HEAD of the family. Whenever you bring the idea of SUBMISSION they scream blue murder...Bloody Turn-coats.

booqee: Why complaining?? We have golddiggers both in males and females almost in equal measures, so wats ur point in lamenting??

safarigirl: My dear, being the Head of the house no be for mouth.

Do you expect any sane woman to submit to a man who doesn't contribute to the family, rather spending all HER hard earned money drinking and coming home to beat her or r@pe her afterwards.

Bey can not disrespect Jay, Joke can never disrespect Olu Jacobs, that's it. Any man who provides for his family and acts like a MAN will always have a submissive wife, a man who cares for his wife and is considerate towards her every NEED will NEVER have to worry