Very sad story.

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Flaubert Ajiero: I got this email from one of my Blog Reader(www.flaubertajiero.com) who need a public opinion on her predicament. I.D kept Confidential.

It Reads:

Dear FAB Readers,

I need solutions, it all seems like my world is crashing right before me.

I'm a girl of 28 and I'm in a relationship of about 2 years now.

I work with an insurance company and life has been good until my boyfriend lost his job roughly 10 months ago. And everything changed. I cater for him and myself as well since then.

He continually nags about not having a job despite his applications for a new one. And to be very honest this whole situation sucks life out of me.

So I decided to meet my boss at the office and I asked if he could help in any way. He accepted but requested sex with me and because I felt fed up with my boyfriend's situation, I gave in to sleep with my boss but we'd an agreement that it will be a one time stuff. I was desperate and was willing to sacrifice for my boyfriend.

Weeks later my boyfriend got the job and according to the company policy, employees must have a 3 months training before confirmation.

This situation led to my boyfriends being trained at my branch of the company,which is also where my boss that gave him the job works.

Just less than 6 weeks my boss couldn't let me stay for a day without further request for sex and in the process my boyfriend found out the whole thing.

He quit the job instantly and left town without a word. Doesn't take my calls to hear my side of the whole thing.

I feel confused as I've only intended to assist but it's all falling on me now.

I wrote so that I can have a public view and advice on what to do.

Is there a chance or anything I could do to salvage the situation

Please I need help.

Thanks

N.J

What are you Guys opinion and advice to N.J's situation, does she still have a chance to rescue the problem?

Something Similar to this also happened to me just last year (2012) and believe me, its so hard to forgive n forget.. Assuming you tell your Boyfriend immiediately you had sex with your Boss, its still better but not telling him and him knowing himself makes the matter worse but if you aplologise, and stop all those Shits maybe he can still consider you... But the real fact is You dont have a genuine love for Him

mike404:
Gbagaunalism

If at all there is such a term, it should be: GBAGAUNISM. This means you are guilty of committing an even more atrocious GBAGAUN yourself.

soloyes: What has happened has happened. The first person U need to border about is God and not even your job or Boy friend. If you go to him in genuine repentance he will forgive U and give you a better life. I know it is very difficult but it is the most viable solution because anything U do to bring him back now outside God will certain backfire someday and the trust has already been eroded. so i advice you go to the perfect mender and restorer-God to give your life meaning again-he has a way of correcting our error and only him can do that and guarantee continual happiness.

Yea! Go to God in repentance n forget abt ur guy even if he forgives u. Na for ur own good. Just move on! And just for d records, try n find a way to explIcitly explain d conditions surrounding ur stoopidity to him. But still, move on!

The only reasons for ur action is simply because ur bf was sulkin n u were beginning to take some responsibilities u wudnt normally assume if he had a job. Talking of giving a permanent solution to a temporary problem. U Bleep up! Imagine if u were married n d lost job problem arose!

Useless you.

infact these days gyals can open legs for any man..to get their way ..to get what they want...clap hands for the babe..and the man o ey continue to dey nak her..for the sake of the job stay..for the boyfriend

Flaubert Ajiero: I got this email from one of my Blog Reader(www.flaubertajiero.com) who need a public opinion on her predicament. I.D kept Confidential.

It Reads:

Dear FAB Readers,

I need solutions, it all seems like my world is crashing right before me.

I'm a girl of 28 and I'm in a relationship of about 2 years now.

I work with an insurance company and life has been good until my boyfriend lost his job roughly 10 months ago. And everything changed. I cater for him and myself as well since then.

He continually nags about not having a job despite his applications for a new one. And to be very honest this whole situation sucks life out of me.

So I decided to meet my boss at the office and I asked if he could help in any way. He accepted but requested sex with me and because I felt fed up with my boyfriend's situation, I gave in to sleep with my boss but we'd an agreement that it will be a one time stuff. I was desperate and was willing to sacrifice for my boyfriend.

Weeks later my boyfriend got the job and according to the company policy, employees must have a 3 months training before confirmation.

This situation led to my boyfriends being trained at my branch of the company,which is also where my boss that gave him the job works.

Just less than 6 weeks my boss couldn't let me stay for a day without further request for sex and in the process my boyfriend found out the whole thing.

He quit the job instantly and left town without a word. Doesn't take my calls to hear my side of the whole thing.

I feel confused as I've only intended to assist but it's all falling on me now.

I wrote so that I can have a public view and advice on what to do.

Is there a chance or anything I could do to salvage the situation

Please I need help.

Thanks

N.J

What are you Guys opinion and advice to N.J's situation, does she still have a chance to rescue the problem?

in fact, every actor in this drama acted his or her role perfectly, what a lovely movie with lovely ending

Mazi_Omenuko: The deed has been done. Dust yourself up and move on with your life. Honestly, I don't blame the guy, neither will I blame you; but you can't have it all.

DON'T quit your job like some perfectionist are asking you to do here. Of course you saw what your ex went through to secure a new job. If you quit your job, you may end up sleeping around for a new one.

Finally, [b][/b]nairaland is the worst place to ask for advise, that is assuming this story is real.

exactly!Nairaland is the worst place to ask for advice.not with the myopism our men suffer here.especially when it comes to pu/ssie matters,they no dey compromise

the process through which u got own job is questionable...., no matter the situation a woman is the pride of a man, hence sleeping with another man will never be tolerated by any sane man.. u have broken your own earthen pot.

190-the-clown:
i need to send this link to all my 7 girlfriends

that shell WORK they must work to get it for me


else no marriage

oh boy 7 girlfriends Kwanu? Make you ready to marry 7 wife if you no wan bend down select . . . . . . . . . . .**PAPERS**

well, i think "The did has been done", you still have to think of the way to apologize and explain to your bf, but if he still refuse in accepting the apology, forget it and move on, learn from your past mistakes! Avoid your boss or better still quit from the job if it's possible you still have opportunities to get job!

WHY DON'T YOU ASK BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH HIM?

Mazi_Omenuko: The deed has been done. Dust yourself up and move on with your life. Honestly, I don't blame the guy, neither will I blame you; but you can't have it all.

DON'T quit your job like some perfectionist are asking you to do here. Of course you saw what your ex went through to secure a new job. If you quit your job, you may end up sleeping around for a new one.

Finally,nairaland is the worst place to ask for advise, that is assuming this story is real.

exactly!Nairaland is the worst place to ask for advice.not with the myopism our men suffer here.especially when it comes to pu/ssie matters,they no dey compromise

WHY DON'T YOU ASK BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH HIM?

[size=14pt]Story! Story! You slept with your boss because you've always wanted to. If you are doing your bfriend a "good" favour, shouldn't he know about it? Ashawooo kobo kobo! Ole prick! Yeye person![/size]

Getting your boyfriend back will take a miracle,I advise you get another job or transfer and give him time before you explain your own side of the story. You might not get him back but it's important he knows the truth.
Good luck

My advice - carry your prime people blog somewhere else.


What next, letter from mammy water?

Never,I repeat,NEVER ever fv;ck a man to help/assist/elevate/promote anoda man,be it ur boyfriend,husband,fiance or whteva,because when he finds out,his gonna dump u like a piece of dirty, stinking rag!

Girl,you just have to move on,u fit still dey chop ur boss,dey collect fringe benefits

lorretta u: exactly!Nairaland is the worst place to ask for advice.not with the myopism our men suffer here.especially when it comes to pu/ssie matters,they no dey compromise

Even if u discuss dis wit ur Bf b4 doin it & he said GO AHEAD, he wount dare marry u @ de end of de day. U've made a mistake & u need to move on, xplain to him & let go. Wish u luck dear

Forget the guy. He aint coming back exept he is an Alien or Angel from another planet. Look for another job exept you want to end up being fired cos your boss will become an Oliver Twist. You took a stupid decision, lost your pride(if you had one),your boyfriend(who probably is becoming frustrated and running out of patience with the relationship due to joblesness), job. Sori Juliet. Move on with your life. That man is gone forever. On a lighter note, if your boss is single. . . . . . .

M-O-V-E O-N! That's all i can say.. You messed up right, but you can't keep crying over spilt milk. You have to leave that Job, and hope to find another better person.

babe, you're just sorry you got caught... if he hadn't find out probably by now you'll be in another level of intimacy with your boss...scoff.

I really pity both party but d only choice z 4 each 2 move on with life.....as it z said dat memory fades with time.....

Wahala90: [size=14pt]Story! Story! You slept with your boss because you've always wanted to. If you are doing your bfriend a "good" favour, shouldn't he know about it? Ashawooo kobo kobo! Ole prick! Yeye person![/size]

GBAM! She don dey eye her oga at the top since,just use bf as excuse,I say it again,kip gbungeing ur boss n enjoy all d benefits attached to it, ekpa jiji!

storiiiiiiiiii e don tale way d guy day nack ur akpako. No lie for ur bf head.

I do not understand how you find it easy for you to open ur leg wide for another man just in the name of finding a job for your boifriend. your chances of getting back your boifriend is absolutely slim n looking at you who knows may be you and your boss have been doing it prior to your boifriends getting a job.. my advice just move on with your life and start afresh. Good luck

DDid Try and sleep with his close friends so that they convience him to forgive u.

So sad she wil ve 2 lose @ both ends.I really pity her. D guy ought 2 knw dt it ws 4 his own good dt she did wat she did, eventhough it wasn't right. He shud pik her cals atleast.