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Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Boyemmy(m): 5:07pm On May 28, 2013 |
albridge: When a mans trust in his wife is betrayed by her having affairs with other men and he caught her red handed with a man on top of her should he still stay married to her or divorce her? Is there a place for christian forgiveness in such a case?[color=#770077][/color] |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by yeko68: 5:07pm On May 28, 2013 |
Even if the man should forgive, such memory is difficult to delete and he will forever suspect every of her move so whats the point? For me i cant be intimately involved with that woman again, never. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:08pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton: bukatyne: |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by crispgg: 5:09pm On May 28, 2013 |
albridge: When a Should A Wife Forgive An Adulterous Husband? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Adanyebe(m): 5:09pm On May 28, 2013 |
FORGIVE OOOOOOOOO !!!!...... IF REVERSE WAS THE CASE WON'T YOU BE EXPECTING FORGIVENESS.... 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Decryptor(m): 5:10pm On May 28, 2013 |
bukatyne:Do you have a brother who is married? Is his wife pretty? PM me her phone number and facebook profile so i can woo her and slam hell outta her. I guess your brother will forgive the both of us since he attended sunday school with you! 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:11pm On May 28, 2013 |
Toks2008: bukatyne: |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Toks2008(m): 5:12pm On May 28, 2013 |
alutacontinua: For about 12 years i have remained faithful to my wife simple because i'm a believer,i fear GOD and also respect her as well as love her so if catch her today sleeping with another man, do you expect me to still keep her as my wife? HELL NO! If as a man i restrained myself despite all these temptations moving around so why can't she do same? Nevertheless, i will not go through teh stress of divorcing her but punish her more by getting married to another lady and i care less if the new lady is a confirmed akunakuna and leave the stress of walking away to her. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by plaetton: 5:12pm On May 28, 2013 |
bukatyne: WTF? Who? Is he my townsman? Garbage. The bible told me that god, at least the biblical one, does not forgive any sin. Just ask the Israelites. Obviously some unforgiven people are going to hell, not so? So For whom else is hell for? |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Davidoritse: 5:12pm On May 28, 2013 |
As a christain you can forgive but divorce her because she will still do it again, that thier thing wey dey in between thier legs dey sratch some of them at times, watin you don start at times to live am dey hard oooooo |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:16pm On May 28, 2013 |
idk...should a wife forgive an adulterous husband? |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by thelonestranger: 5:17pm On May 28, 2013 |
armyofone: Yes, forgive. LOL.Next time she will put a knife to your neck while you are sleeping . |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:17pm On May 28, 2013 |
bukatyne:it is the same Bible that allows someone to divorse an adultrous woman |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:18pm On May 28, 2013 |
Toks2008: If you marry another wife, whoa re you punishing? It's like a child saying 'my parents are stingy therefore I will steal'. Who will God punish? If you carry bitterness, how does it affect her? If you don't repent before God comes/ you die, who is the greatest loser? You will end up in hell and your wife will repent and go to heaven! You better pray to God to heal you of bitterness and live your life to the fullest. What happened to you is NOT new! I have heard of women who toiled with their hubby for many years and then the man makes it and marries a second wife and chase the first! What should the first do? commit suicide? The funny thing is that if she doesn't forgive the husband, she is going to hell. Don't let anybody drag you to hell or ruin your life with bitterness. At the end, it's a personal race between you and GOD. He will not listen that it was Iya Sikiru or Basirat or bukatyne that offended me 4 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:19pm On May 28, 2013 |
genesisjohn: it is the same Bible that allows someone to divorse an adultrous woman And stone an adulterous man to death! |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by obyrich(m): 5:19pm On May 28, 2013 |
Toks2008:Young man, can you remember the last time you attended a traditional wedding where a woman took her parents to a man's house to marry him? Many marriages nowadays are sponsored by the woman yet it is expected and acceptable by the human society that the man should be the one taking the woman's hand in marriage and not the other way round. Marriage laws are sacrosanct. Until society approves women going to marry a man from his father's house to her father's house and still be properly integrated in the society, such acts as you mentioned above will remain scorned at. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by tunnababz(m): 5:20pm On May 28, 2013 |
Yeah, he should forgive!! Y not?? But only after doing wat OJ Simpson did. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by livebullet(m): 5:21pm On May 28, 2013 |
alutacontinua: My own problem still lies in the fact that if a man were to be caught cheating, the story changes! becos by nature , a man has more than 1 slot for a wife. God made it so. Women are made just 4 1 man. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by livebullet(m): 5:22pm On May 28, 2013 |
alutacontinua: My own problem still lies in the fact that if a man were to be caught cheating, the story changes! becos by nature , a man has more than 1 slot for a wife. God made it so. Each woman is made just 4 1 man. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Realtym(f): 5:22pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton:That depends... wud u advise ur sista 2 forgive her adulterous husband? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by abujalapdog(m): 5:22pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton: they are potential husband killers for young lovers...i cant even have a rethink not even talking about forgiveness...i dont wish to give a second chance because the second may lead to your death.. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:23pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton: [/b] If you do not understand simple concepts and are unwilling to learn, DO NOT QUOTE ME AGAIN 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:23pm On May 28, 2013 |
livebullet: hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:24pm On May 28, 2013 |
Well, it all depends on the kind of woman you're married to. Some of us have long seen the 'light' as far as women go, so in some way, marriage, if it ever happens, would be a quasi-open arrangement, which makes 'forgiveness' a non-issue. Where the real problem lies is when guys get married to the typical pretentious girl who probably denied him sex for a long time during courtship and 'forms' principled and virtuous lady all over the place. When you marry this sort of character with so much high hopes, it is impossible to overcome the disillusionment that occurs when you find out that she is no better than any random runs girl you'd meet in a club. These are the types that drive a passionate man to murder. In this csse, forgiveness is a fools' game. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by miredia(m): 5:24pm On May 28, 2013 |
Toks2008:bruv u are gonna get killed this way in a twinkle. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Toks2008(m): 5:24pm On May 28, 2013 |
bukatyne: Nothing happened to me,i was simply making my notion known. Nevertheless, where did you get your assertions from. As far as im concerned i have divorced her even without going through the stress of filing for it and getting lawyer that will even make me spend more. I dont want to go into explaining your comments to you cos i can see you are getting it all wrong. Which hell are you talking about? when the only reason for divorce is adultery. Abeg get your facts right. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:25pm On May 28, 2013 |
*Kails*:TIS A GOOD QUESTION. CAN YOU ? |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:25pm On May 28, 2013 |
livebullet: I am sure you are NOT referring to the GOD of Genesis. If I recall correctly, HE made 1 Adam and 1 EVE not 2, not 3. GEN 1:31 ... He looked at everything He made..., everything! 1 Adam, 1 Eve and saw that it was VERY good. Don't spoil the work of God through you selfishness and indiscipline. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by obyrich(m): 5:26pm On May 28, 2013 |
bukatyne:Divorce was given as an acceptable alternative to stoning. If your spouse cheats on you and you decide to cheat back, both of you can either chose to remain in the unfaithful union or part ways. Christ did not approve stoning but he graciously approved divorce as a remedy to adultery. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:27pm On May 28, 2013 |
Toks2008: Lucky you then. Goodluck. You want to know the hell I am talking about? Are you are Christian? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Babaji111(m): 5:28pm On May 28, 2013 |
[b][/b]Forgive who A betrayer? IS she out of her senses to open her "secret hole" fyaamm! for one useless man to enter? Abeg siddon there...passing |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 5:30pm On May 28, 2013 |
obyrich: I hate when people twist the Bible to suit themselves. The Bible did not divorce as option to anything. The two punishments are in different testaments. Christ did not approve stoning but He approved divorce? You are a joker! He was only stating the acceptable reason for divorce not approving it. There is the permissible will of God and there is the Perfect will of God. 2 Likes |
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