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Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by lordizak(m): 4:46pm On May 28, 2013 |
nope. There can never be joy in d heart of the man. It kills. D worst thing a woman can do to trust. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Celestyn8213: 4:46pm On May 28, 2013 |
It's written in the good book that we should forgive those who trespass against us. We are all sinners and God forgives us our transgretions, so why should we do the same? It could be very painful but we should forgive... But the man no get other babes for outside? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by salt1: 4:46pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton: I've edited this post to show our hypocrisy. Men want to live wayward lives yet expect utmost fidelity. Whatsoever you would that men should do unto you, do so even unto others. That is the law and the prophets. Who says once a cheat always a cheat? It is a lie from the pit of hell. People change at any given time and in varying circumstances. Will I forgive a cheating spouse? Difficult as it is Yes and I can rebuild the relationship. How are you sure the next person you meet will not be worse that your present spouse? I've seen those that did it and their homes remained intact. In fact, the shame of being caught kept the woman on the sane track till old age 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by AjanleKoko: 4:47pm On May 28, 2013 |
Wallie: Should a husband forgive his wife caught red handed with a guy on top of her? Yes if the guy can look past it and move on with his wife. +1 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by plaetton: 4:49pm On May 28, 2013 |
Wallie: Should a husband forgive his wife caught red handed with a guy on top of her? Yes if the guy can look past it and move on with his wife. Thank you jare. Don't mind these hypocrites. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by HighChief4(m): 4:49pm On May 28, 2013 |
Why would a good reasoning man take back an adulterous woman. You can forgive and let her go, but never taking her back, because she will do it over and over again but this time in a more concealed way. A woman takes off an average of 5 clothes before s[i]e[/i]x, so if her mind did not remind her that she was married before engaging in s[i]e[/i]x then she is not even worthy to be called a wife. No wonder there are so many diseases flying around. Trying hard to take her back can lead to murder, heart attack, contamination of STDs et al. Just show her the way out and live your live. Nigerians always trying to be in marriage even when there is nothing left 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Toks2008(m): 4:49pm On May 28, 2013 |
alutacontinua: My own problem still lies in the fact that if a man were to be caught cheating, the story changes! I advice you to rid yourself from this funny ideology. A man naturally is polygamous except the one who chose to be decent in that aspect. Ladies are expected to even remain virgins till night of the wedding so the fact that these days,things have changed does not give women the impetus to cheat on their spouse. The physical,psychological and spiritual damage to the man's psyche will never make it easy for him to remain happy with the lady even if he forgives her especially if he caught her in the act. That picture will never ever go no matter how he tries. On the other hand, divorcing her is no guarantee that you will get a better lady because the next lady might even be worse than the divorced wife. My advice is that if your wife cheats on you, save yourself the stress of divorcing her if she is really sorry and repentant because some are never sorry for the shameful act. But If you feel you really need to move on please do and get yourself another bitch but just don't go through the stress of divorce process cos she is not worth it. Let her take the walk by herself if she can't cope with you having another lady in your life. At least you saved her the shame of an adulteress divorcee. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by tmanuelle(m): 4:50pm On May 28, 2013 |
My wife won't dream it, y'all know why? Its simple, its because I will never forgive such. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 4:50pm On May 28, 2013 |
devour129: it might be a cry for help , it also might be she got carried away.its not always premeditated . Yes I know cos I learnt that in marriage courseCRY FOR HELP ? I WILL HATE TO SEE WHAT SHE WILL DO IF SHE IS REALLY IN AN EMERGENCY SITUATION 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by danniekute(m): 4:54pm On May 28, 2013 |
d bible told us dat it is d only reason we shuld put our aduultrous wfe away.God knows d implication of such act,that is why He supports divorce in this matter. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by plaetton: 4:54pm On May 28, 2013 |
salt 1: I respect your sincere opinion on the matter. However, I have problems with people using hypothetical insinuations to somehow justify a wrong doing. The case in question is about a particular man and a particular woman. It's not about what me or other men do or may do. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by InvertedHammer: 4:54pm On May 28, 2013 |
/ An Igbo man once said that his problem was not that he caught his wife in bed with another man; rather he is more concerned with what they discussed about him that gave the man the audacity to climb her. Matthew 5:31-32 "And it was said, 'Whoever sends his wife away, let him give her a certificate of divorce'; but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the cause of adultery, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery" // 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Godside: 4:54pm On May 28, 2013 |
Remorseful afta Sex abi ? Vry funny. Just 4gt it, she is a goner |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Toks2008(m): 4:54pm On May 28, 2013 |
tmanuelle: My wife won't dream it, y'all know why? Its simple, its because I will never forgive such. No woman ever dreams of such, it just happens due to carelessness and it starts when a woman starts keeping casual male friends after marriage and allows these males friends get too close for comfort by allowing them address her with her maiden name, discussing her marital issues with them and before she knows it, she is pants down trying to get consolation. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by frankgreat(m): 4:55pm On May 28, 2013 |
They r two different tin...forgiveness, fine I can do that but its not immediately, but to accept her as my wife again? That's sumtin she threw away when she went stack naked in front of another man with her two legs wide open..its not just possible..you can't take the tot out of ur head |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 4:58pm On May 28, 2013 |
Yeah, why not? There is no unforgivable sin, is there? Apart from the one against the holy spirit, which was not expressly stated, but think the issue is with trust, can he trust her again? But the truth is many men are adulterous and still get forgiven! |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Toks2008(m): 4:58pm On May 28, 2013 |
InvertedHammer: / GBAM! |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by plaetton: 4:58pm On May 28, 2013 |
bukatyne: Big laugh. Which adulterous woman? I do not recall ever reading about Jesus forgiving an adulterous woman. Kindly refresh my memory. And by the way, was the woman his wife? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by cyril10(m): 4:58pm On May 28, 2013 |
You can forgive your cheating wife, though it is not easy but with the grace of God you can do it. God commanded that we forgive those that offended us so that we too can be forgiven. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by wendieposh: 4:59pm On May 28, 2013 |
When trust is broken,its difficult to get it back. It is a normal african thing for a man to cheat but women,its just wrong. In cases where things happen in the marriage and the woman is forced to cheat and caught,the couple can talk or go for couple's conseling but if she cheats after all that,then its not worth it,just let her go. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by bukatyne(f): 4:59pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton: This is what gets to me. Whatever opinions you have, leave God, the Bible and Christianity out of it if it doesn't tally with them. Who told you that God doesn't forgive sins? What did Jesus Christ come to do? If he doesn't, will you still be alive? |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 4:59pm On May 28, 2013 |
Toks2008: Waoh! The female gender has suffered in this world. SMH! |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by danniekute(m): 5:01pm On May 28, 2013 |
alutacontinua:just go to d bible and see wot God said about divorce. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:02pm On May 28, 2013 |
danniekute: just go to d bible and see wot God said about divorce. Gimme the reference. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by plaetton: 5:02pm On May 28, 2013 |
devour129: it might be a cry for help , it also might be she got carried away.its not always premeditated . Yes I know cos I learnt that in marriage course You are hilarious. Orgasmic screams and moans are surely the great new ways to cry for help in this modern age. lol |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by danniekute(m): 5:02pm On May 28, 2013 |
jmoore: You can still forgive and divorce.S I M P L E! |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by tunde1200(m): 5:02pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton: My fellow Nigerians, it is no wonder that we live today in the equivalent of a failed state. A failed state is characterized by lawlessness, immorality, anarchy and irrationality. Sensible post |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by InvertedHammer: 5:03pm On May 28, 2013 |
There is no forgiveness here. Being adulterous (an adjective) means that she is given to adultery. So it is not even a one-time deal. I will kungfu her a@s out! 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Toks2008(m): 5:04pm On May 28, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Not at all. That is the way it ought to be. Let a man go into a room with 5 ladies and come out, you will see people praising him for his conquest but let a lady enter a room with 2 men and comes out,i bet she will get the most disdainful look she can ever imagine. Lets stop all these hypochricy and face facts. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Dalby(m): 5:04pm On May 28, 2013 |
armyofone: Yes, forgive. Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by obyrich(m): 5:05pm On May 28, 2013 |
jidegirl12: A married individual is expected to be disciplined and self effaced , if you can't be with one person for LIFE don't dream of marriage Period.Let me put it to you that you have a good moral upbringing. Our people say that you don't need a mirror to see what is worn on the wrist. Your conscience is still alive- keep it up. It takes a lot of mental battle for a married man or woman to cheat unless the person involved lacks sound moral upbringing. It is easier to cheat on your bf/gf than to cheat on your spouse. No true Christian will ever support cheating. Cheating on a spouse is a habit that is as difficult to break as quitting smoking. @ OP If you find yourself in such a situation please divorce her. Christ himself approves divorce under such circumstance. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Husband Forgive An Adulterous Wife? by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 28, 2013 |
plaetton:GUY HAD HIS MUSHROOM TIP IN HER BUSSIN ALL KIND OF NUTS WHILE SHE WAS CRYING FOR HELP LWTMB |
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