sexkillz: You should trust your partner, not your best friend. . . No matter what a best friend does or says to your partner, if he or she is not swayed, nothing happens. The fault always comes from the partner. The final choice rests on them.

So, do you trust your partner? If no, why on earth are you still with someone you cannot bring yourself to trust? Don't you think something is wrong with you, if you fall in this category?

emiye: It is foolishness to put ALL trust in any man, even the bible warns against that.

You can't even trust yourself completely, "he who thinks he is strong, let him take heed, lest he falls".

In a relationship, if i suspect my girl is "skidding", i can help her from falling in to doing the wrong things, if i deem her as still reasonable.

Maybe Adam trusted Eve so much that he decided to eat the Apple from the tree of life when he shouldn't have.

TRUST is simply not white or black, there are shades of grey. It is not a binary of just 0 or 1

sage_: Yes! As long as he is an unrepentant gay(just being gay is not even enough here).

Mynd_44:
I walk with a cool and trustworthy circle of friends who can die for someone else. Plus why be with a girl I can't trust? It is silly and a waste of time

Truckpusher: Trust is a subjective probability and people like me wouldn't venture into one unless there is a common interest to protect which can be attacked or some kind of equal payback if there is any level of backstabbing from any of the two people involved.

k2039:

shymexx: "Don't leave ya girl around me, true player for real" - that was what an OG once said.

Only naivety and stupidity would make any sane person "trust" their gf/bf with their best friend. It also depends on the "with" the OP is talking about. If it's "with" just to go somewhere together - that's understandable. However "with" - to go stay in his/her house, or leave them "with" each other all the time - then that's scary. Our imperfection(s) is what makes us all human - hence why you should NEVER trust anyone fully at all times.

This is more reason why people should be allowed to mature mentally and psychologically, with vast experience in realism and real life, before getting involved in relationships. It definitely helps in decision-making and enables people to play their cards right at all times. When you overly trust someone in situations where anyone can be susceptible, because of our imperfections as humans, then you're setting yourself up for a painful heartbreak.

Anyway, protect yourself at all times and snakes will always come as partners - that's what my pops used to say.

cunle_kkk: Only if He is her brother.

Truckpusher: If i trust a friend and he messes around with my woman i'll simply pretend not to be angry abt that but i'll wait for him to fall in love madly and bingo ......it's payback time ,

mikelreal: na so so Mods full this thread. @sexkillz u banned me yesterday,d day i wil catch u in my area.

@op in as much as i trust my gf, leavin her with my bestfriend is so impossible.cos I know my bestfriend very much.cos he "might"attempt to do to my gf,what i"might" ve done to his own gf.

mikelreal: lol twas so easy typin that abi? most people commit murder. dunno seems most of us dont know the gravity of ur bf/gf sleepin with ur bestfrnd.mehn its the highest form of backstabbin. that is why it is highly adviceable you prevent such from happening. just play safe.

"thou shall not tempt your partner"

Ms_Steph: Can you leave ur gf/bf with your best friend?? Can you trust your best friend with ur partner?

naturalwaves:

I have been following your posts and I see that you have a very very myopic view of the word "TRUST". TRUST, just like Love and respect is not something you just say you do.It has to be earned by the person you wanna trust. If the person has shown certain capabilities with respect to the subject at hand in the past, you can then say you trust your partner which shows that the word Trust is even relative. You may trust that your partner will call you if he/ she doesn't hear from you for 1 hour. Why? Because the person must have demonstrated that in the past but you may not trust your partner's fidelity reasons being the same as above.


Therefore, without a test/situation scenerio, you cannot say that you trust someone and if you do, it is just a risk which may turn out positive or negative. Don't make those that won't trust their partners in such scenerio look stewpid just because you decided to take a risk. Ok?

Rooneyboy: @ Poster , Can u keep a goat and a yam together and expect the goat not to eat the yam