CAMEROONPRIDE: Yes you can. if she loves u , she will stop.

a woman/wife is supposed to dress to please her husband. period , so if u are not comfortable with it, she should drop them.

benchilovsky: The easiest way to get to a girls middle leg is when she puts on skirt...do you want her OGAS AT THE TOP to get there? @op

alexis:

Will he die if he stopped asking her to stop wearing it?

MostHigh:

The must always be a captain on the ship

Not all men can endure a rocking boat for too long

why did she have to marry?

She should have chosen to be his concubine instead and practice her DEMOCRAZY in the guest house AND NOT THE HOME

lefolksy: My sincere pity goes 2 d women folks,jst because u did a man favour by acceptng his porposal 2 marry him,will automatically turn 2 be like a relationship btw a father and child wit a lot of don't do this or dat,wasn't not d trouser dat she wore dat attracted u 2 her,plzzzZz Mr man,dn't listen 2 what pple or family member thinks,u should knw what u wnt.dn't stress dat wman

alexis:

He asked her to marry him; she didn't. He SAW her wearing trouser, why didn't he object then? He should have mentioned it during courting if it was a big deal for him.

MostHigh:

Pity,favour??

You should have remained as a concubine and allow a virtuous woman to occupy the home.

One day na one day monkey go go market e no go return

sexymoma:

If she stops putting on trouser and start fornicating nko
.

What an evil question you are asking...............when has not wearing trouser become the alternative to fornicating? Yours should be a dirty mind
Why cant you Christian women who take delight in wearing trouser stop this act the Bible frowned at..........a good Christian Lady/Woman will only
emulate MARY, the mother of Jesus. Or who else should be the Christian woman role model? Definitely not the likes of Tonto Dike and other So-called Nollywood or Hollywood stars.

MostHigh:

My father asked me IS SHE DEPENDABLE IS SHE ADAPTABLE TO CHANGE?

luckily FOR ME SHE IS.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Yes you can. if she loves u , she will stop.

a woman/wife is supposed to dress to please her husband. period , so if u are not comfortable with it, she should drop them.

MostHigh:

We speak spirituality and follow no religion.

Only a fool will say there is no God.

MostHigh:

My father asked me IS SHE DEPENDABLE IS SHE ADAPTABLE TO CHANGE?

luckily FOR ME SHE IS.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Yes you can. if she loves u , she will stop.

a woman/wife is supposed to dress to please her husband. period , so if u are not comfortable with it, she should drop them.

MostHigh:

^^^

More like Prophet and that was quite a while back I think 2004 or so he called me out of the heathens and said this day have I begotten thee

Also


You Speak like a true PRESUMTIOUS FOUL mouthed HEATHEN

No offence its just as I perceive you.

LWTMB true

InHim4Him: LOL. Nairalanders are very interesting. Trousers and all the other indecent ways of dressing are the only way women can express their freedom! The 21st century is a time of rewriting the books. Homosexuality is a frontburner right now because being married the old way means being weird. History will continue to repeat itself. AUTODESTRUCT on my mind.

alexis:

You mean you married a wife that came with a MANUAL?

MostHigh:

My father asked me IS SHE DEPENDABLE IS SHE ADAPTABLE TO CHANGE?

luckily FOR ME SHE IS.

MostHigh:

LWKM true...

Well luckily for me again she didn't life would have been proper boring

That being said regarding life and its ups and downs she has held her own quite well.

Let me try again...

Can you depend on her in times of.....

Is she the kind to adapt to life changes and still come out strong?

The husband in question is asking his wife to adapt to changes he feels are important and has even given her REASON

ARE COUPLES NOT SUPPOSED TO REASON TOGETHER

What other reason does he have to give

milehigh06:
according to you abi
do you know what she does when you are not busy oppressing her?

filcast: hello nairalanders,.
I need to advise a friend urgently.He has been married to his wife for about 1 year and recenty requested the wife to stop wearing trouser,except for sport activitiess.His reason is that both their families belong to religious faiths that view a female wearing trouser as immoral.This request however has not gone down well with the wife who has become unhappy and bitter.she faulted the husband for not raising the issue during courtship as she is already used to wearing trousers. Pls advise this young man on how to handle this to save the union some stress.Does my friend have the right to demand this of his wife.

alexis:

Couples should always talk and communicate, I agree. My point is simple - why didn't he communicate on this subject when they were courting? Surely, it wouldn't have escalated into a thread on NL.

Why should it be the woman that should ADAPT? Why can't he adapt? Why does he want her to stop wearing trousers? Is it a moral or religious reason? Did he make this known to her before their marriage? Those are honest questions he should answer instead of playing the "ADAPT" game.

MostHigh:

Its just like saying your father is oppressing you when he tells you the right thing to do

My point is if you don't want to be given instructions then pls remain a concubine

That way you can eat your cake and have it

MRbrownJAY:

this man should accept that his wife did it before he met her, did it while he courted her, is doing it now, and would probably do it long after he is gone. trying to stop her from doing something that he fully well know she did is not only wrong but also very damaging to their union. hubby should let her be comfortable and choose what she wants to wear.

Shollypopz:
I weep for the woman that married you

Maybe she was just an ugly chic with very low self esteem. Only that will explain why she agreed to marry a scum.

Collins Le Skillz Madumere:
hey, better leave religion, it wont take you to heaven o, go and get 21st century messages on how to live a happy married life and digest it. Function by revelation, religion has long failed us, it will fail you again.

Larry Sogo:
My wife can put on trousers any time she likes

Princess zoe: And a husband is suppose to dress to please himself or talk to please his people? How about if he loves his wife he will only do things that will please her first and not his people. The two are one flesh so the two owns each other. How about the wife telling him to stop wearing jeans because her family sees such a man as a flirt? The man must be the authority that serves. He must seek to please the wife(his flesh) first before his people. The man must be selfless except [size=18pt]if he wants to drive his wife into the arm of another man who will tolerate her and appreciate her the way she lives. his actions on this paltry matter can sip love away from the home. He should be selfless and allow the wife to be[/size].

MostHigh:


Never said a man should not adapt.

read my post again.

Both should agree. It is a home