alexis:

We are getting somewhere and you are changing your tone My point is simple - if it was a deal breaker for him; he should have told her before they got married; all this wahala would have been avoided because it is better to have a failed relationship than to have a failed marriage. From all evidence, it seems the one that is not flexible here is the dude, not the babe.

Why he has the right to ask her to stop (something he should have done when they were courting), she has given a valid and acceptable reason.

milehigh06:
according to you abi
do you know what she does when you are not busy oppressing her?

MostHigh:


Spoken like a true leftover human being

LWKM OOO

Only a left over woman will call other women left over

WHERE IS YOUR PRIDE?

You have none

Feminism has its limitations

Theocracy is the only way

The Rule of the father

no need for Hedonism

alexis:

We are getting somewhere and you are changing your tone My point is simple - if it was a deal breaker for him; he should have told her before they got married; all this wahala would have been avoided because it is better to have a failed relationship than to have a failed marriage. From all evidence, it seems the one that is not flexible here is the dude, not the babe.

Why he has the right to ask her to stop (something he should have done when they were courting), she has given a valid and acceptable reason.

GooseBaba:

Bros.. A whole you talk this kind thing. The guy is not asking his wife not to wear trouser for his sake. He is doing it for religious doctrine and extended family.

You fall my hand..

Hexzy: That is why I don't take girls that wear trousers serious. cos me. my family and my Aunty are strong deeperlife members.

milehigh06:


ARE YOU THIS DUMB,,READ ABOVE WHERE I POINTED OUT THAT I AM A MAN WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED,8YEARS AND COUNTING
YOU NO FIT READ?

CAMEROONPRIDE: i don't get your point eh eh last time i checked the dude was free to tell her how he feels about her wearing trousers. no it is up to her to change , which she will do if she really loves him. you people just love to argue and take position for the sake of it. i hope when your wife starts dressing indecently you won't complain. again a wife dresses to please her husband . nothing more nothing less . she doesn't dress to please admirers outside .

MostHigh:

Could have sworn you were a B1tch, come guy you sound like a man hater

Wao a man that's a feminist

Who would have thought......

Well there is a first time for everything though.

Dolly-Parton:


Thank u. Normal people don't marry deeper life members. So don't bother, u'll marry one of those sisters with floor-length-sack-looking-skirt with scarf covering their ukempt dirty hair.

filcast: hello nairalanders,.
I need to advise a friend urgently.He has been married to his wife for about 1 year and recenty requested the wife to stop wearing trouser,except for sport activitiess.His reason is that both their families belong to religious faiths that view a female wearing trouser as immoral.This request however has not gone down well with the wife who has become unhappy and bitter.she faulted the husband for not raising the issue during courtship as she is already used to wearing trousers. Pls advise this young man on how to handle this to save the union some stress.Does my friend have the right to demand this of his wife.

Dolly-Parton:


Thank u. Normal people don't marry deeper life members. So don't bother, u'll marry one of those sisters with floor-length-sack-looking-skirt with scarf covering their ukempt dirty hair.

bigtt76: Since they are both from a religious family ....I guess they both have someone they call 'Pastor' abi? Let them both meet with their pastor and you the poster STOP poke nose into their affair!

CAMEROONPRIDE: are u blackmailing your husband? oya go in someone else, as if you are the only woman on this earth

CAMEROONPRIDE: are u blackmailing your husband? oya go in someone else, as if you are the only woman on this earth

CAMEROONPRIDE: are u blackmailing your husband? oya go in someone else, as if you are the only woman on this earth

milehigh06:
how long ahve you been married.giving u advice on how to live happily for a long time with your wife,you are busy calling me a feminist......wow!
do you know the definition of being a feminist
and come to think of it,did you not just type somewhere on page 2 that I was heathen with the words i waws using and you were called by God Himself?and you just used a degrading word against women right here
guess hypocrisy runs deep in your blood
No feminist but at least i have a mother,sister and most importantly a daughter and if a deranged village fool like you comes near them,I will F#$K YOU UP

MostHigh:

Blah Blah Blah...

Theocracy means rule of the father

Feminisms counters Theocracy and pushes for democracy

I called you a heathen because you speak like one, (left over women)

knowing now you are a man even makes it worse

How can you call women leftovers and then sit there and blow your horn about your sister, mother, daughter, wife and even the whole matriarchy being precious to you

You are more the a hypocrite you are deluded.

Dolly-Parton:


Thank u. Normal people don't marry deeper life members. So don't bother, u'll marry one of those sisters with floor-length-sack-looking-skirt with scarf covering their ukempt dirty hair.

Shollypopz: The MostHigh dude is just a troll, don't get worked up over his posts

Leave the silly pomo seller alone y'all.

pc guru:

spot on

MostHigh:

Blah Blah Blah...

Theocracy means rule of the father

Feminisms counters Theocracy and pushes for democracy

I called you a heathen because you speak like one, (left over women)

knowing now you are a man even makes it worse

How can you call women leftovers and then sit there and blow your horn about your sister, mother, daughter, wife and even the whole matriarchy being precious to you

You are more the a hypocrite you are deluded.

milehigh06:
where did i call a woman left over?

pc guru:
Oops my apologizes just re-read the comment, and misread the context, apparently i see nothing wrong with the husband stating such as an expression but i find it disturbing that the purpose is because of Religion, this is why i have big issues with Religion, Religion seems to limit and take people's right than let them have one.

Larry Sogo: At least, she have a say in ur home, so sit her down and discuss it with her to adjust and not to stop it.
Can't even emerging my self going after a girl without trousers.

Larry Sogo: At least, she have a say in ur home, so sit her down and discuss it with her to adjust and not to stop it.
Can't even emerging my self going after a girl without trousers.