I went with to a friends home after church last Sunday.
They just recently moved to Canada from Benin in Nigeria and low and behold. . . the husband sat down like a king. Ordering is wife and kids up and down like slaves. He was about to eat and while everyone had rice for lunch, this man was served with a big ol plate of poundy with egusi soup and when I asked her . . . she said only their dad can have pounded yam while the rest of them had rice.

the funniest thing was: His wife kept repeating "My lord" this, My lord that . . i didn't even know she was refering to him until when she said, My lord do u want more food . .  whoaaaaa  
I asked the girl . . does your mum call your dad "My lord" and she answered yes.

What kind of love and authoritarian marriage is that?
beats how the wife and kids practically worships this guy 

waaaaaaaaaaat? now that's just wrong, my lord ke, nonsense

what da hell?my lord say wetin happen ?even if it was during slave trade them never call their masters my lord,its naw one man that im trying to satisfy inside d bedroom, even if its jazz that kain jazz can't touch jenny ,nonsense

@Jenny,

this particular jazz dey work o

I was soooo mad, i felt like smacking the guy's head as he was eating that poundy!!

That is respect given to whom respect is due, Simple

chei women dey suffer ooo , that man go soon hear am when the wife starts interacting with those oyinbo feminist women

whitelexi:

That is respect given to whom respect is due, Simple

so u will be dictating to ur wife and kids and order them to refer to u as "My Lord"?
I no marry u again o

@busta

wen im still here struggling and forcing myself to call someone cupcake or honey,which one is naw mylord ? busta honestly u would have smacked d guys head,wat rubbish

hisssssssss, the word 'my lord' is so irritating, unless i am refering to my one and only God, my Alpha and Omega, anyone other than that, what kind of nonsense is that, ah ahn

jennykadry:

@busta

when im still here struggling and forcing myself to call someone cupcake or honey,which one is naw mylord ? busta honestly u would have smacked d guys head,what rubbish

hehehehe . . . tell me bout it.

I almost did so that he can choke on the stupid food.
i don't blame him anyways . . i really hope this canada will help them shine thier eyes small.

well, after god na man. so nothing wrong in that really

she should beta start calling him alpha and omega,or beta still d begining and d end anyways them just reloacte naw,i trust them exposed women,except d wife no go jam them,the man should be enjoying the mylord naw cos by d time d wife starts mixing up wt some sharp women ,d name go change from mylord to "ol boy" or "papa kokoye"

hissssssssssssssssssssssssss

ibkaye:

hisssssssss, the word 'my lord' is so irritating, unless i am refering to my one and only God, my Alpha and Omega, anyone other than that, what kind of nonsense is that, ah ahn

Na lie , if you dey court , you call the justice YOUR LORD or else !

But honestly that man must be living in the past , or maybe he was brought up during the era of slave trade.

studio43:

well, after god na man. so nothing wrong in that really

I beg to differ

big father:

Na lie , if you dey court , you call the justice YOUR LORD or else !

But honestly that man must be living in the past , or maybe he was brought up during the era of slave trade.

abi o

Wow. That's weird.

Lord ko, messiah ni. Some serious rubbish are going on in this world I tell u.

tope2000:

Lord ko, messiah ni. Some serious rubbish are going on in this world I tell u.

u for tell your justice sey na serious rubbish to call dem my lord. see your head

naija men go crazy when they think they are in control.

its all about stupidity ,nonsense,mylord ko my saviour ni

It's not weird at all. . .if you lived where I've lived. . either "Obami" or "kabiyesi". .

studio43:


u for tell your justice sey na serious rubbish to call them my lord. see your head

That is a different case my dear, how u go refer to ur husband as ur lord. total nonsense if u ask me

ima1:

naija men go crazy when they think they are in control.

who's to be in control then if not the men?

I see, Busta has been unbanned. . lol

studio43:


who's to be in control then if not the men?

I can now see that u are a sexist!!

who's to be in control then if not the men?

control ko ,overall ni,or have u forgotten dat some women r breadwinners of their families,abeg lets not go there

studio43:


who's to be in control then if not the men?

Very Typical

4Her:

I see, Busta has been unbanned. . lol

U know my husband was begining to miss me!

rubbish

I heard from a friend of mine that its a 'biblical' principle - that Sarah called Abraham 'Lord' so a wife should never call her husband by name Thats a misinterpretation if you ask me.

But seriously? the 'Lord' thing in and of itself is not wrong, as long as he calls her 'my queen' as well. It does not necessarily denote being a slave, its just a way of saying "I love you and I'll gladly meet your needs the same way you meet mine'. After all, even the 'Lord' must earn that title mustn't he?

Frankly all my wife should call me is 'King Abunna' and I'll call her my 'Quivering Queen'

King Abunna ko,King Obo ni

If she wants to call him that, let her go ahead! All the same I for kunk the man for head for eating pounded yam like a bush man.

@ Busta
These people go school? because it seems the me the man is one big illiterate while his wife is a village mugu!

Even if them no go school,them no fit get sense?afterall no be evrybody wey no go school be mumu,some of this village champions sef get sense pass people wey go school,except them come out from okirika bush then its understandable,even sef hw did they find themselves in canada? them sabi something jare,na just some of all this mumu women wey no fit say no even if them dey kill them,except d man use jazz sha

tope2000:

I can now see that u are a sexist!!

sexisti ke?   well, the bible made it compulsory that every woman must give her husband every right he deserves.
call him whatever name he wants. as long as u  jesus, GOD, holy spirit are not involved.

what about the men who call the women ANGELS nko?