O ga o. You go club and you are no longer a "real woman" again. na wa for people

Other than that part I agree with what David said

If I ask for your number instead, it usually means I'm not calling you but it's nice to let dudes feel good about themselves.

dreeldee:

Olodo, it means they keep talking to you like you want to listen!
Men! They ask stupid questions "do you want to talk? you dnt want to talk? why can't I have your number? I like the way you look, and walk". . like that. .

Mesmerize:

Olodo, it means they keep talking to you like you want to listen!
Men! They ask stupid questions "do you want to talk? you dnt want to talk? why can't I have your number? I like the way you look, and walk". . like that. .

u can say that again my dear

jek_kad:

u can say that again my dear

don't start with me o

Just cos a girl gives it up on a platter or eba/doesnt give you the run around doesnt mean she's top class.

Just she's out of batteries for her viberator and decided to give you a chance.

Eldee my man is talking sense here - the mere fact that you are not begging to join the long list of her 'callers' can make you stand out and make HER call you.

All this fawning over a female because you want her attention fails 90% of the time. Sometimes you just need to apply the classical 'cocky + funny' methodology and watch them come running.

Joining the crowd of admirers by simply getting on the list with the rest of the boys rarely works. You need to give yourself some distinction.

dreeldee:

don't start with me o 

start ke ,my dear im not starting anything oooo   ,but its d truth u men wont let them babes rest even wen she does not want to talk to u ,even some married women dey suffer dis one too

cocky + funny will get her to give you the number in teh first place. Not you giving your yeye MTN number.

TOH:

cocky + funny will get her to give you the number in the first place. Not you giving your[b] yeye MTN number.[/b]

;d ;d ;d ;d

debosky:

Eldee my man is talking sense here - the mere fact that you are not begging to join the long list of her 'callers' can make you stand out and make HER call you.

All this fawning over a female because you want her attention fails 90% of the time. Sometimes you just need to apply the classical 'cocky + funny' methodology and watch them come running.

Joining the crowd of admirers by simply getting on the list with the rest of the boys rarely works. You need to give yourself some distinction.

That is like trying to win the lottery with a 1 in 100 trillion chance. 9 out of 10 times she sees you as one of the guys who feels like God's gift to women. A girl who knows she has the looks to attract way better guys than you will just toss your number in the bin.

Try that technique only with average women who dont get that much attention in the first place.

davidylan:

lol this your "top class" chics. One thing you have to quickly realise . . . are you after a woman or a "chic"?
Second thing to consider - every woman has no less than 2 men actively interested in her.
Last thing to consider - giving her your number when other men are calling her night and day is the quickest way to push yourself into the ocean of oblivion.

But you never know with women.   Isnt the world funny?

1) Every woman will risk becoming a chic if she sees you as a different guy, not the random ones stalking her
2) And you won't be different if you act like them, and do you know how many of 'em are dying for you that you never notice?
3) As I said, random men are calling her, if you present yourself as different, she'll be the one doing the chasing

Mesmerize:

Issues like?
Eldee, you are not serious!
You and this your men are important movement

Fimile na, I'm just giving women  the chance to choose

Fact is there's no single rule on how to approach a woman.

u guys make it sound as if a grl is one great asset to behold. . . . . . . . and yet we treat em as

I cant and have never gone out my way to get a grl.

if i ask a grl out or even asks for her number, and she refuses. na who loose, me or she?

na she loose.

@ post

with confidence, originality and have a sense of humour about it. Be a gentleman.

debosky:

Eldee my man is talking sense here - the mere fact that you are not begging to join the long list of her 'callers' can make you stand out and make HER call you.

All this fawning over a female because you want her attention fails 90% of the time. Sometimes you just need to apply the classical 'cocky + funny' methodology and watch them come running.

Joining the crowd of admirers by simply getting on the list with the rest of the boys rarely works. You need to give yourself some distinction.

Exactly, that's what I'm trying to explain to them
This same ol' style since years ago

davidylan:

That is like trying to win the lottery with a 1 in 100 trillion chance. 9 out of 10 times she sees you as one of the guys who feels like God's gift to women. A girl who knows she has the looks to attract way better guys than you will just toss your number in the bin.

Try that technique only with average women who don't get that much attention in the first place.

You see, it's an inferiority-complex that's affecting you

@Davidylan
u mirror my sentiments exactly

@Eldee
Dude, u can only get away wt dat kinda disposition if u are both rich,handsome and famous. Or else 4gerrit! Even then, u might end up wt a groupie. Serious women look out for men wt an impossible combo of cockiness, wit and sensitivity to spark the attractn. Other thangs come second.

I am certain if you play your cards well, She'll be the one asking for your number.

Its happend to me on so many occasions that i actually told one that i dont give out my number to strangers. [s]A joke that did not go too well and i almost did not get her number which was actually the aim of approaching her in the first place.[/s]

The lastest one was last week wednesday @ shell test.

So my advice for the guys is keep your game tight

noetic:

u guys make it sound as if a girl is one great asset to behold. . . . . .  . . and yet we treat em as 

I can't and have never gone out my way to get a girl.

if i ask a girl out or even asks for her number, and she refuses. na who loose, me or she?

na she loose.

if only d guys will be truthful to themselves for once ,we all know that when a girl refuses a guy ,it hurts his ego no doubt

noetic:

I can't and have never gone out my way to get a girl.

you'll soon wake up.   I was like you several yrs ago.

eldee:

You see, it's an inferiority-complex that's affecting you

haha small boy . . . continue pursuing those "chics".

Rapsody:

@Davidylan
u mirror my sentiments exactly

@Eldee
Dude, u can only get away wt that kind of disposition if u are both rich,handsome and famous. Or else 4gerrit! Even then, u might end up wt a groupie. Serious women look out for men wt an impossible combo of cockiness, wit and sensitivity to spark the attractn. Other thangs come second.

Abeg bros dont mind eldee . . . he thinks we're talking about high school "chics" here.

If you seriously want a woman you go aggressively after her. I wonder how these small boys sleep at night waiting for a girl to make contact with them first. A woman who is considering other men wont have time for "boys" dropping their numbers like they are the most important invention since sliced bread.

noetic:

u guys make it sound as if a girl is one great asset to behold. . . . . . . . and yet we treat em as

I can't and have never gone out my way to get a girl.

if i ask a girl out or even asks for her number, and she refuses. na who loose, me or she?

na she loose.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

jek_kad:

if only d guys will be truthful to themselves for once ,we all know that when a girl refuses a guy ,it hurts his ego no doubt

jek_kad:

if only d guys will be truthful to themselves for once ,we all know that when a girl refuses a guy ,it hurts his ego no doubt

Naw . . . he'll easily fix it with some alcohol.

noetic:

if i ask a girl out or even asks for her number, and she refuses. na who loose, me or she?

na she loose.

f she never liked you, how did she lose anything?

You people are sure getting things twisted.

If a chic likes you and you two talk and eveyrthing is fine and cool and you notice she's enjoying your company, ask for the number and I assure you she'll give you the right one and you go from there. Even if the whole world bothers her, you will be the one she remembers.

Going up to someone and giving your number and then leaving like some egotistical jackass might work for teenagers who like bad/play boys, not for people who have better things to do

StephenP:

Naw . . . he'll easily fix it with some alcohol.

d key word here is hurt,y should he soak himself in alcohol if his ego is not hurt,tell me

he should just waka as if nothing happened naw,why d alcohol?

u guys should just be truthful to urselves for once

_{all liars will go to hell}

jek_kad:

d key word here is hurt,y should he soak himself in alcohol if his ego is not hurt,tell me

he should just waka as if nothing happened naw,why d alcohol?

u guys should just be truthful for once

_{all liars will go to hell}

lol

8inchplus:

So my advice for the guys is keep your game tight

Its not a "game". Be original, get to meet her just like you would meet your regular male friend.
Na wa for the guys of nowadays.

jek_kad:

if only d guys will be truthful to themselves for once ,we all know that when a girl refuses a guy ,it hurts his ego no doubt

and in the case the grl was only attemptin to play hard to get, and because of her initial refusal, u decided to back off. is her ego not hurt?

we are all different. I dont c a grl as an asset or as sth so special like we tend to make it seem.
based on who I am, no grl gets to know me n wants to leave.
I m just too much of an asset. this is my subconscious mind. . . . . . and as such I c a grl who turns down my hand of "fellowship" as d looser.

Why should his ego be hurt? Unless he doesn't recognise his own intrinsic value - If she said no, lets just say she didn't recognise the value. . .c'est la vie

Instead of hurting the ego, it strengthens his resolve to pick the right woman.

I still do not believe in the fawning over women crap, it rarely gets anything except 'ooh nice guy' or 'how sweet'.

I have experienced it on numerous occasions, even when the chick is MAD HOT, and every single guy (even guys 'better' than you are fawning over her) the mere fact that you do not get fazed by all the razzmatazz gives you a completely different playing field.

Now don't get it wrong, eldee and I are not saying do not go after the woman, but you do it in the way a Mercedes Benz dealer would do it - they don't come begging you to buy as if they are selling KIA, they know their value and will definitely get as good a buyer if not better if they don't get you.

TOH:

f she never liked you, how did she lose anything?

You people are sure getting things twisted.

If a chic likes you and you two talk and eveyrthing is fine and cool and you notice she's enjoying your company, ask for the number and I assure you she'll give you the right one and you go from there. Even if the whole world bothers her, you will be the one she remembers.

Going up to someone and giving your number and then leaving like some egotistical jackass might work for teenagers who like bad/play boys, not for people who have better things to do

Gbam! From the horses mouth.

StephenP:

Naw . . . he'll easily fix it with some alcohol.

noetic:

and in the case the girl was only attemptin to play hard to get, and because of her initial refusal, u decided to back off. is her ego not hurt?

we are all different. I don't c a girl as an asset or as sth so special like we tend to make it seem.
based on who I am, no girl gets to know me n wants to leave.
I m just too much of an asset. this is my subconscious mind. . . .  . . and as such I c a girl who turns down my hand of "fellowship" as d looser.

what ego man?was she d one that approached u first?


@debosky

u guys should be truthful for once ,we women r not asking for too much r we?no we r not,all we r saying is that u men/bois should drop that pride and admit to the fact that it hurts a mans ego when a woman refuses him,that is d simple truth,there r no two ways about it

davidylan:

Its not a "game". Be original, get to meet her just like you would meet your regular male friend.
Na wa for the guys of nowadays.

LOL . . .can't u see his username