maxw726@gmail.c:


Some of the reponses are really unfair to you but don't be dissapointed they are all haters. I think the best thing for you to do is search deep deep into your heart and ask yourself if you really love him. If the answer is yes. Then look into his eyes one day when you are at home and see if you can see real love. If the answer is yes. Tell him in your sweetest softest voice "Darling we have been dating for 4 months now and I think the right time has come for you to F#CK me up the arse. Please put all your energy and F#CK me extra hard up the arse" When he has finished if your arse is paining then its not yet time. Continue to repeat the process until have no pain. Thats when the time is right to ask him for rent money. Hope this helps

good advice

bukatyne:

Babe, give yourself brain abeg! Your relationship is too fresh to become parasitic abeg except if you were looking for a rent payer you will pay with s.ex

how many favours have u rewarded your boyfriend with sex?
He gives pampers, later one you give him the best sex ever!
He buys you flowers and takes you for a nice dinner dat, next day you will go to his house with sexy lingirie and you give him a show?
He tells you you sexy when you dance or when you have that brown weave on... You feel flattered and next thing, you hit it in the bedroom


just because u do it differently, does that mean you should also give yourself a brain?

The truth remains that there are many girls who think like this.



But then again, I guess a girl like this would attract a man that likes her so.

tellwisdom:

You cooked for him--Na your money?
You cooked for him--Didn't you eat out of it?

You had sex with him--Didn't you cumm??
You had sex with him--Didn't you enjoy it??

You dey learn work?

"I cook for you"

She no chop?

tellwisdom:

You cooked for him--Na your money?
You cooked for him--Didn't you eat out of it?

You had sex with him--Didn't you ha ho! yepka??
You had sex with him--Didn't you enjoy it??

You dey learn work?

those are responsibilities of a wife, so if he choose the wifely duties i can do for him before marriage, why cant i choose husband duties that he can do for me before marriage

Just four months? And u'r expecting him to start paying your rent!
Who's paying your rent before u met him, am sure u're d type dat date for upkeep!
Where ur papa? Y him born u?
U want to start putting ur problems on someone who has not even ask for ur hand in marriage not to talk of taking u home!
Sister, work and make ur own money, b dependent, dats wen he'll respect and cherish u, what if he rent and apartment for u, don't u think he'll send u out if u guys break up?
ABEGI

mizzocho.cinco:
how many favours have u rewarded your boyfriend with sex?
He gives pampers, later one you give him the best sex ever!
He buys you flowers and takes you for a nice dinner dat, next day you will go to his house with sexy lingirie and you give him a show?
He tells you you sexy when you dance or when you have that brown weave on... You feel flattered and next thing, you hit it in the bedroom


just because u do it differently, does that mean you should also give yourself a brain?

Ah!

What is relationship to you?

Trade by Barter?

E-Commerce??

Trade fair centre??

Alaba International??

Ebay??




Why don't you temporarily take your fetish mind off these little things.. and think of a way to take the 'relationship' to a greater level ... Marriage or something..


If you want a 24hr gift & flower distributor... why not apply for a job at Jumia or Konga?

Olumeme: Just four months? And u'r expecting him to start paying your rent!
Who's paying your rent before u met him, am sure u're d type dat date for upkeep!
Where ur papa? Y him born u?
U want to start putting ur problems on someone who has not even ask for ur hand in marriage not to talk of taking u home!
Sister, work and make ur own money, b dependent, dats wen he'll respect and cherish u, what if he rent and apartment for u, don't u think he'll send u out if u guys break up?
ABEGI

yet its never too early for you to have your woman to cohabit ( husband and wife kind of relationship) with you are 2months of dating right?

ENDTIMES: You can ask for money but never your rent.

You can't believe it, they are two different things in a man's mind.

Okay.
Please could you expansiate?

mizzocho.cinco:
how many favours have u rewarded your boyfriend with sex?
He gives pampers, later one you give him the best sex ever!
He buys you flowers and takes you for a nice dinner dat, next day you will go to his house with sexy lingirie and you give him a show?
He tells you you sexy when you dance or when you have that brown weave on... You feel flattered and next thing, you hit it in the bedroom


just because u do it differently, does that mean you should also give yourself a brain?

em sweetheart, believe it or not, not everyone can descend to your level

If I want to make love to my man, it's because we love each other and not because I want to get a favour from him!

Come to think of it, a man really does more to pleasure his woman during s.ex... is it the caresses, sucking or whatever?

Can you imagine paying a man because he ate the food you cooked?

Do you think you are doing your bf a favor when you make love sleep with him?

Babe, if you are talking about prostitution, then I will understand you because it is only prostitutes that pay men with se.x or exchange s.ex for favors.

If you are NOT a prostitute, get your lazy fat ass up and ask your parents/guardian for house rent

NL sha, this is the worst place to meet real and honest people, see how all the girls are now behaving as if they've never asked their bfs for money when they even go as far as asking for money to buy 'meatpie'.

Fake a$$ people.

If this is what "dating" is all about, please count me out! I'd rather remain single; forever.

Rent ko! Dowry ni

All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!
I mean, STFU!!!!!!!!!!
A guy comes here complaining his gf is denying him sex (as if it is his birthright) and these are the responses you get:
The female posters: talk to her,and you two shld reach a compromise.
The male posters: some other guy is shinning her congo jor! Dump her sorry arze!!
Now a lady talks abt getting financial assistance from her man and all them old and lonely single ladies hoping to score cheap points and the broke azz brothers descend on her like vultures.
Now tell me all ye so-called independent women.
You said no sex b4 marriage, how many of you are in a chaste relationship or were in one b4 marriage?
See how they are all hurling self-righteous nonsense and ingredients here!
@op,do what you want,it is your relationship anyway...I just got pissed reading the load of crap that was posted as response to you.

Phder: If this is what "dating" is all about, please count me out! I'd rather remain single; forever.

Rent ko! Dowry ni

Look for the right qualities and you will get someone you are compatible with

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

Why dont you pay your own bills? Are you his wife? Get a job, lady.

Not even ur fiance bt b/frnd.
A babe tried dat wit me sometimes ago,all I cud do was to let go because of d punny.

mizzocho.cinco:
No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people

Ok.


GET. A. JOB.

sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!
I mean, STFU!!!!!!!!!!
A guy comes here complaining his gf is denying him sex (as if it is his birthright) and these are the responses you get:
The female posters: talk to her,and you two shld reach a compromise.
The male posters: some other guy is shinning her congo jor! Dump her sorry arze!!
Now a lady talks abt getting financial assistance from her man and all them old and lonely single ladies hoping to score cheap points and the broke azz brothers descend on her like vultures.
Now tell me all ye so-called independent women.
You said no sex b4 marriage, how many of you are in a chaste realtionship or were in one b4 marriage?
See how they are all hurling self-righteous nonsense and ingredients here!
@op,do what you want,it is your relationship anyway...I just got pissed reading the load of crap that was posted as response to you.

Where have you been? I missed you and want to give you a hug right now.

Like seriously, these replies piss the feck outta me especially that of the so called women\ladies, true the OP didn't present her case the right way but then, these ones acting as if its a crime against humanity to ask your partner for money if he can afford to spare it makes me wonder who they are forming for, mscheew.

mizzocho.cinco:
If there is a right time to have sex with him and cook for him before marriage, why is there not a right time to ask for money for rent before marriage?

Where you forced to open your legs or cook for him? And why will you do all these when you're not yet married or even engaged to him?

Young lady, go and get a job.

Just 4 months and u are already asking for house rent. 1 year and u will ask for what? A mansion? U girls are all the same

yomalex: Get a job and pay your own bills. Dare to be different, don't be a leech

Beautiful!


@ OP,pls strive to be independent.If the guy suggests payment of rent,well.....but if not,u've got no right to ask him.He has put NO ring on ur finger! Tomorrow u will come and tell us the guy left u and we shld suggest ways u can punish him.Pls earn some self-respect!

Viogu: Its priceless when non-virgins talk about another person's dignity and self-respect. You have given the same the OP is giving 2 another man, in exchange 4 nothing. If u can go as far as calling her asewo, remember that you did the same thing only difference is u did it 4 free.

So sex in relationship (not saying it's right) is in exchange for money and other gifts

Who is that blessed male poster that said most Nigerian girls are whores living outside the hotel?

[quote author=lil max]what about the time 4 sex.....mtcheeeew [/y naa d boy is good

@ OP be diplomatic in answering and asking questions.

U dont go into relationships as a slave .... U must have ur personal profits too(Though, house rent is much to ask for).

@ all , she simply asked a question , She never said she was going to do it at a particular time. Lets learn to be helpful to ourselves .

I will Pay only 10% after confirming that your parents are dead. Including your uncles and aunts.. Shameles Bitch. I no dey even Bleep if u re jobless and fine.

bukatyne:
Do you think you are doing your bf a favor when you make love sleep with him?

I understand where u are coming from but in both instances does it not involve a pennnis and a vaginaaaa and an orgasmmm at the end?

sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!
I mean, STFU!!!!!!!!!!
A guy comes here complaining his gf is denying him sex (as if it is his birthright) and these are the responses you get:
The female posters: talk to her,and you two shld reach a compromise.
The male posters: some other guy is shinning her congo jor! Dump her sorry arze!!
Now a lady talks abt getting financial assistance from her man and all them old and lonely single ladies hoping to score cheap points and the broke azz brothers descend on her like vultures.
Now tell me all ye so-called independent women.
You said no sex b4 marriage, how many of you are in a chaste realtionship or were in one b4 marriage?
See how they are all hurling self-righteous nonsense and ingredients here!
@op,do what you want,it is your relationship anyway...I just got pissed reading the load of crap that was posted as response to you.

I dont understand please explain

sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!
I mean, STFU!!!!!!!!!!
A guy comes here complaining his gf is denying him sex (as if it is his birthright) and these are the responses you get:
The female posters: talk to her,and you two shld reach a compromise.
The male posters: some other guy is shinning her congo jor! Dump her sorry arze!!
Now a lady talks abt getting financial assistance from her man and all them old and lonely single ladies hoping to score cheap points and the broke azz brothers descend on her like vultures.
Now tell me all ye so-called independent women.
You said no sex b4 marriage, how many of you are in a chaste realtionship or were in one b4 marriage?
See how they are all hurling self-righteous nonsense and ingredients here!
@op,do what you want,it is your relationship anyway...I just got pissed reading the load of crap that was posted as response to you.

Please don't come here and transfer ur anger on other paeple.She asked a general question online,people are allowed to give their opinions ooooo!Abi u want us to tell her to collect rent money this night? Okay,OP,pls collect rent money the next time u see him cos its ur entitlement!
Where i come frm,we are thaught to stand on our feet *gidigba!* no time for rubbish mehn.If u've got problems,share it wif ur parents/siblings FIRST before u can even consider ur BF.That changes when the BF becomes the Hubby.

mizzocho.cinco:
No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people

And you even foolishly and shamelessly asked if u shld pack in to live with him. So what happens if 2moro he's tired of ur punny and decides to thru u out nko? Anyways, ur type na true naija chick:

sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!
I mean, STFU!!!!!!!!!!
A guy comes here complaining his gf is denying him sex (as if it is his birthright) and these are the responses you get:
The female posters: talk to her,and you two shld reach a compromise.
The male posters: some other guy is shinning her congo jor! Dump her sorry arze!!
Now a lady talks abt getting financial assistance from her man and all them old and lonely single ladies hoping to score cheap points and the broke azz brothers descend on her like vultures.
Now tell me all ye so-called independent women.
You said no sex b4 marriage, how many of you are in a chaste realtionship or were in one b4 marriage?
See how they are all hurling self-righteous nonsense and ingredients here!
@op,do what you want,it is your relationship anyway...I just got pissed reading the load of crap that was posted as response to you.

Have you thought of it tha maybe those women have sex with their partners because they wanted to and not because they are getting paid for it?