obillyj:

her father takes care of her financial needs- cloth her, sponsor her hair do, changes her wardrobe, buys her make-up, touche her up for you and u boy friend sit down dey reap d benefits abi.

a relationship whether boy n girlfriend, fiance n fiancee or whatever is between two giving persons. she mustnt spread her legs or cook for u b4 u can take care of one financial need & ladies i thinks as a boyfriend he should take care of d hair, clothing n cosmetics if he is working. reason is that u need to look good for him n he can proudly show u off n you d lady should also compliment his giving - buy him something every now n then, take him out to lunch or dinner & pay, give him gift on his birthday nomatter how small. Don't think u must give back in kind.

but then don't over do it especially if there's no future to it.

uj_sizzle:
Just say you're jealous, and it will suffice

obillyj:

her father takes care of her financial needs- cloth her, sponsor her hair do, changes her wardrobe, buys her make-up, touche her up for you and u boy friend sit down dey reap d benefits abi.

a relationship whether boy n girlfriend, fiance n fiancee or whatever is between two giving persons. she mustnt spread her legs or cook for u b4 u can take care of one financial need & ladies i thinks as a boyfriend he should take care of d hair, clothing n cosmetics if he is working. reason is that u need to look good for him n he can proudly show u off n you d lady should also compliment his giving - buy him something every now n then, take him out to lunch or dinner & pay, give him gift on his birthday nomatter how small. Don't think u must give back in kind.
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thoniann: Since most ladies on nairaland now deem it unwise to cook for the BOYFRIENDS, for many flimsy reasons and bla bla bla. Is it good to be financially responsible for their upkeep and other needs? Wouldn't it be too much exposure flaunting wealth and care as well? Besides, to whom much is given, much is expected. What do you think nairalanders?

Danhumprey: Just say you're a lesbo,and it would suffice.

Harbosede02: nw i wish Nl has a dislike button!

gal10: like seriously?? Don't get it twisted :-

deejay_harry1:

... glad to have you back..

izzbaby22: there is no big deal if a guy spends on his lady it should be done willingly and nt with a condition or by force. U do it 4 love.

Danhumprey: Was she banned?

lol..nope oo... had to attend to some stuffs in the real world..

pasqal09: If I take care of her financial needs, then what's her father's job?

Mynd_44: How can you take care of her needs? Do you look like her fada? Na so una go dey do money miss road about town.

tchigofigo: should a gf always take care of a bf's sexual and BEdial needs?

deejay_harry1:

... glad to have you back..

Danhumprey: Was she banned?

jay bee: How many times are we going to address this redundant issue for crying out loud

Harbosede02: close ur mouth jare,na u ban me abi??

deejay_harry1:

negative... girls have made it seem more like a business engagement....

Nomski0: If you behave, there'll be no qualms at all.

Harbosede02: shaaarap!

Harbosede02: Itz right and at d same tym it isn't,me as a person don't like it,hez nt my hubby,hez jst my bf,so taking care of my "needs"isn't hez responsibility..itz nt dat d guy wudn't spend on me,mayb on occasions,lyk my bday and val i wud be expecting gifts 4rm im,and mind u,dose gifts aren't my "needs".

Ibigo:

if the gifts ain't your needs are they your wants?