Danhumprey: Just say you're a lesbo,and it would suffice.

Just say you're jealous, and it will suffice

I wonder why girls have not flood this thread to air their views.

Harbosede02: Itz right and at d same tym it isn't,me as a person don't like it,hez nt my hubby,hez jst my bf,so taking care of my "needs"isn't hez responsibility..itz nt dat d guy wudn't spend on me,mayb on occasions,lyk my bday and val i wud be expecting gifts 4rm im,and mind u,dose gifts aren't my "needs".

thats my gal, no wonder you said to me that i should get 100 naira suya for you on your betday. Love u always

thoniann: Since most ladies on nairaland now deem it unwise to cook for the BOYFRIENDS, for many flimsy reasons and bla bla bla. Is it good to be financially responsible for their upkeep and other needs? Wouldn't it be too much exposure flaunting wealth and care as well? Besides, to whom much is given, much is expected. What do you think nairalanders?

NO. CAPITAL NO. IF THE GIRL CAN COOK FOR ME FOR HER STUPID REASON, THEN. HER PARENT SHOULD ASSUME THE FULL RESPONSIBILITY. GOD PUNISH HER FATHER. LOL . LOL.

Booked

So long I ve da money, da luv is legit and she Pampers me wella. Yes

Harbosede02: Itz right and at d same tym it isn't,me as a person don't like it,hez nt my hubby,hez jst my bf,so taking care of my "needs"isn't hez responsibility..itz nt dat d guy wudn't spend on me,mayb on occasions,lyk my bday and val i wud be expecting gifts 4rm im,and mind u,dose gifts aren't my "needs".

Good!! You are beginning to make sense, finally criticisms are having the desired effect.

Now how about we work on your writing skills?

Harbosede02: Itz right and at d same tym it isn't,me as a person don't like it,hez nt my hubby,hez jst my bf,so taking care of my "needs"isn't hez responsibility..itz nt dat d guy wudn't spend on me,mayb on occasions,lyk my bday and val i wud be expecting gifts 4rm im,and mind u,dose gifts aren't my "needs".

See this hungry goat

well it depends on d level of d guys stupidity. before u give a lady money, u must check her willingness to give otherwise she will take u as her bank account, anytime she needs money,she will come to u and withdraw. abeg if its nt in our TERMS AND CONDITION, then i will not. my criteria for d choice of a galfriend is that she must come from a wealthy family, nt all dis poor one's dat money move abt

No except in emergency.

Spoil sometimes, yes.

As long as she needs it, Yes.

That's what a man does

castielo: Two tinqz u gotta know pal..

(1) She ain't my wife. even if she's my wife she's gotta av a job to cater for her 'needs'.

(2) Ain't no broke girl from no broke family gon' make me broke wit her broken self n broken needs

me is feeling this broke dude mehn!!

castielo: Two tinqz u gotta know pal..

(1) She ain't my wife. even if she's my wife she's gotta av a job to cater for her 'needs'.

(2) Ain't no broke girl from no broke family gon' make me broke wit her broken self n broken needs

Me is feeling this broke dude mehnnn!!!

NO !!

When she is my wife, i will take care of all her needs

dwittyc0der: Booked

That is a very wrong thing for a guy to do for a gal as a bf,the Nigerian gals we see these days re not worth spending wat we sweat for bcuz they are always on free transfer and can be on loan any time to another guy

i will never date nor wife any lady who will become a liability.

Lol.... I always laugh when i consider the way of many girls and their r/shp. Some are just into what I call modern prostitution(you call him pet names, text him, give him sex and he pay) and we guys are just their client. Only a few knows what r/shp is about. Ask a girl out today, tomorow you will hear that someone from villa flashed(something that person doesn't do before) so she is sure that there is problem and wants to call back but do not have airtime. She'll now beg yhu 4 card. Before yhu knw it you will hear that her phone fell inside water or something like that. Next thing is school fee or house rent. We just have to endure. Do what you think is right and leave the rest.

Wife: Definitely
Fiancee: Definitely
Girlfriend: Hell no (I'm not her father).

iropelebe: Your woman is your responsibility,there's no amount i cannot spend on her,that she doesn't cook for me does not mean i would deny her financial help. She may not cook for me but she may just be good in other aspects.

if so, are you sure you're her responsibility?

50calibre:

Good!! You are beginning to make sense, finally criticisms are having the desired effect.

Now how about we work on your writing skills?

wetin do my writing skills

mencade6: thats my gal, no wonder you said to me that i should get 100 naira suya for you on your betday. Love u always

u no well

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As far as I am concerned it is wrong for a man to become the burden bearer to his gf, except the girl has no support. Have we all forgotten that as fathers we must ensure that we take adequate care of our children, male and female until they are completely independent. Please note that this is why most girls today are not different from prostitutes. How many of you pray that your children become dependent on their boyfriends. That is why by the time they get married the joy of marriage is always absent because they were bought with gifts, once the marriage is consummated the guy changes.

[color=#006600][/color]space booked,let me ask my Girlfriend bt I guess if the guy wishes 2 do xo he wil depending on their mutual aggrement shal thereby d lady assisting d guy with kitty while the guy do d pay

The word "always" to your question has shown that that would be complete fool hardiness on the part of the boyfriend.
Why the hell should a common boyfriend shoulder the financial responsibilities of his girlfriend
Did they born the girl for him? And what if I may ask is the foolish girl doing for herself? Even if she is a student (who for some odd reasons seem to be richer than the working class in Nigeria!) ?
After women would start screaming Feminism and Miss Independent.
My answer would be a big HELL TO THE N-O!

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pasqal09: If I take care of her financial needs, then what's her father's job?

her father takes care of her financial needs- cloth her, sponsor her hair do, changes her wardrobe, buys her make-up, touche her up for you and u boy friend sit down dey reap d benefits abi.

a relationship whether boy n girlfriend, fiance n fiancee or whatever is between two giving persons. she mustnt spread her legs or cook for u b4 u can take care of one financial need & ladies i thinks as a boyfriend he should take care of d hair, clothing n cosmetics if he is working. reason is that u need to look good for him n he can proudly show u off n you d lady should also compliment his giving - buy him something every now n then, take him out to lunch or dinner & pay, give him gift on his birthday nomatter how small. Don't think u must give back in kind.

but then don't over do it especially if there's no future to it.

Most of these guys ranting "never me" here are thesame that spend half of their earnings on girlfriends and concubines.