kajole: @op



you a big fat smelling liar.

You are flashy and you cant support it even with a photoshopped picture of your kpomo lips

i say once again

gerrout of here

Waspy: Attention Monger......

tellwisdom: Dey deceive yourself. Mugu

peachez'n'cream:






I refuse to exchange words with u guys. . .

peachez'n'cream:






I won't belittle myself by exchanging words with u guys. . .

Fayrouzz: What exactly do u mean by "a touch of class"?

Kelechi2020:






I have beenmonitoring you for quite some time.......
My observations are......
You are single and badly searching for a man....
2 you always make noise about guys that you know nothing about their psychology...
3 the worst part which most gullible nlanders won't notice is that you are deceptive(deceiver) and I pity those that swallow your advice hook line and sinker...
The op is seeking advice on how to appear less flashy a and you are suggesting she stick to her status....What is that suppose to mean..
#criticise objectively

Ohwhy: I dunno why we girls overdress or over makeup even if na to go nearby chemist go buy something or to see a nearby friend.
@Op
If you use heels, pls stop! Use only on occasions.

Follow me to yaba so we can buy bend down select(some guys know d estimate of clothes dey see on a woman)

Reduce d makeup if u can.

Try as much as possible not to hold your handbag on ur wrists like most girls do.

Only bring out your phone if u have a call. Dont flash it anyhow.(Costly phones)

Try as much as possible to go out with ur natural hair once in a while.. Not Brazilian hair every time, dem go run.

Avoid using loud colours all over every time except if u are going out out.

seangy4konji: You make sense...she is not a happy lady..i v been monitoring her also.

2buff: OP looks normal to me
I think she's just surrounded by swagless boys who are used to dating ugly girls

peachez'n'cream:


I won't belittle myself by exchanging words with u guys. . .

kajole:

and who wants to exchange words with?

You are just an irritating liar

Kelechi2020: You guys are derailing from the topic at hand......while the op it's making matters worse by ignoring my call to tell us that she is the one in question and not a friend
just tell us it's you,I think it well calm fray nerves like mine

FrancisTony: u wan chop pix?

alutacontinua:

Lol @ monitor.
How about CPU?

Youngsage: @peaches, I hardly comment in here but just had to...

Seriously I have to say this post was kinda funny to me after reading it over because u are just freting over nothing! There's nothing for you to worry about here, u are very okayy to me. From your post, If you were really flashy, you wouldn't be liked by everybody talkless even considered humble. Rather you would be seen as supercillious and arrogant probably, but this isn't the case here since you were also considered as being down to earth. There is a differnce btwn being flashy, and classy!

The issue here is with the peeps you hang out with. Out of your friends, 5 are married and 4 in serious relationships. So none of your friends is single So how will single guys ask you out? You need to start going out more often, meet new peeps, and hang out with married pple less...
Most importantly be yourself. Any single guy out there who thinks you're 'flashy' is scared because he has low self esteem and is afraid he may not meet up to your standards. Go out more often and you'll meet other guys who'll appreciate you for who you are!

Youngsage: @peaches, I hardly comment in here but just had to...

Seriously I have to say this post was kinda funny to me after reading it over because u are just freting over nothing! There's nothing for you to worry about here, u are very okayy to me. From your post, If you were really flashy, you wouldn't be liked by everybody talkless even considered humble. Rather you would be seen as supercillious and arrogant probably, but this isn't the case here since you were also considered as being down to earth. There is a differnce btwn being flashy, and classy!

The issue here is with the peeps you hang out with. Out of your friends, 5 are married and 4 in serious relationships. So none of your friends is single So how will single guys ask you out? You need to start going out more often, meet new peeps, and hang out with married pple less...
Most importantly be yourself. Any single guy out there who thinks you're 'flashy' is scared because he has low self esteem and is afraid he may not meet up to your standards. Go out more often and you'll meet other guys who'll appreciate you for who you are!

FrancisTony: you had been quoting gibberish.

ruthy28:
Very true if a guy really like u no matter how flashy u are he will approach u so don't dress down 4 anybody just be urself dear

Nonso23:
Your post was totally on point until the bolded.
You should know that nowadays flashy is synonimous with high-maintenance, high-maintenance synonimous with runz-girlism, runz-girlism synonimous with No Future Ambition (NFA) and even serious, well meaning, RICH GUYS, would be scared of asking flashy ladies out judging from the above deductions. NO sensible guy would want anything serious with an NFA. It's a judgemental generalization but that's how a lot of serious guys think.

@O.p it's not a problem dressing good but moderation is key. It's okay not to be a perfect barbie all the time, it's okay to have your hair out of place once in a while and also unless you are headed to a function tone done on your casuals. Men overestimate the price of clothing on women and once their meter goes into the red zone it's going to be admiration from a distance and nothing more. Only married men and play boys who have nothing to lose will want to take take such up.
It's got nothing to do with esteem, it's all about opportunity cost and time value placed on targeted goals. Say no to time wasting

cj1080:
This coming from a lad who likes to keep it simple.
As a working class Bruv, if you look to flashy my shyness kicks in and I just look and don't talk

Because the first thing that comes to mind, what gift will I get here under 3k that she will appreciate or which bar of fat food can I take her to under 5k that will be Ok for her.

My mind will be like she is fine but flashy, [b]meaning buffet at Sheraton or shopping at woolworths and men that's gonna be expensive. [/b]Then my mind will decide, I think I will mind my business and concentrate on this lovely looking pure water nylon on the ground(me being shy). Even thinking, I can just be friendly with her drifts away like smoke from my mind.

Nonso23:
Your post was totally on point until the bolded.
You should know that nowadays flashy is synonimous with high-maintenance, high-maintenance synonimous with runz-girlism, runz-girlism synonimous with No Future Ambition (NFA) and even serious, well meaning, RICH GUYS, would be scared of asking flashy ladies out judging from the above deductions. NO sensible guy would want anything serious with an NFA. It's a judgemental generalization but that's how a lot of serious guys think.

@O.p it's not a problem dressing good but moderation is key. It's okay not to be a perfect barbie all the time, it's okay to have your hair out of place once in a while and also unless you are headed to a function tone done on your casuals. Men overestimate the price of clothing on women and once their meter goes into the red zone it's going to be admiration from a distance and nothing more. Only married men and play boys who have nothing to lose will want to take take such up.
It's got nothing to do with esteem, it's all about opportunity cost and time value placed on targeted goals. Say no to time wasting