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Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by nbright: 11:46am On Dec 20, 2013 |
Your username says it all... Just joking |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by EejaNla01(m): 12:01pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
cj1080:what a truism! Give this guy a Medal,he surely reads mind....Ladies and gentlemen it isn't too much to appear moderate and simple |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by nairaman66(m): 12:10pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
If you are not the Brazilian type, then go for the African Queen pose! Then we will be able to judge if you are flashy! |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by duni04(m): 12:16pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
If rili 80% of the guys that ask u out want u as a mistress or second wife, den ur broda was just being civil wit u wen he called u flashy. Wot he meant to say was that u luk like a runs gal. 3 Likes |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Youngsage: 12:21pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Nonso23:Actually what I meant by the bolded was different, you probably saw it differently! This is the definition of flashy according to my dictionary: Adjective: flashy |fla-shee| 1. Tastelessly showy • a flashy ring = brassy, cheap, flash, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry, trashy... From what I understand from the O.P, I'lld say she. isn't 'flashy', but 'classy', because being flashy has a negative connatation, like you rightly implied above and such a person can't be liked by everyone or be seen as a humble person like was pointed out. Her bro should have used a different word instead. Yea, self esteem matters a lot. There are some things you cannot say about a person if you havn't met the person. The o.p doesn't depict a flashy person to me, at least from the little description here, so any guy who is scared or intimidated by her looks/aura/personality is problably scared to approach because he feels he might not match up to what he sees. Admiring someone from a distance and not being able to walk up to the person? This clearly has to do with one's self esteem. Or a low selfworth. Has nothing to do with being 'flashy'. @ o.p Someone your type will definitely come by, just be ready to mingle! |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by samdean(m): 12:28pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
why no picture? will love to see it |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 12:29pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by cj1080(m): 12:37pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Youngsage: Sorry lad, but there is a big difference between flashy and classy in the us or the UK. In Nigeria the BIG DIFFERENCE becomes blurred. Flashy and classic get married and give birth to "that baby too flashy" In an french voice "Sad, but is true, we". |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by akinsadeez(m): 1:05pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
The OP says she is writing for a friend and den replies different posts as if she is d one in question. Na wa oh |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 1:54pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Kelechi2020:only an uneducated brat like you, would make a comment like yours. U dnt av sense of reasoning and it have eaten deep inside you. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Saraha1(f): 2:34pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
FrancisTony: only an uneducated brat like you, would make a comment like yours. U dnt av sense of reasoning and it have eaten deep inside you.hahaha!! Shey na figth? |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
peachez'n'cream:If you are humble and nice, just ignore his comments. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
;DYour category falls in the flashy classy type of girl There's nothing bad been flashy if that's the way you are just like me I like flashy things!. But flashy girls could be expensive! so most single guys out there are still struggling to make it to the top wouldn't want a situation where they can't afford to pay your bills. It's could be intimidating honestly Normally if I see a very flashy girl - gold jeweries, clean, shoes, very expensive fone, I'm like cool pretty but I might not want to approach her due my own pocket because that kind of girls are looking forward to guys that drive porsche mayana or bentley! Also you are just back from yankee so your skin too is kinda different and flashy so normally an economist guy wouldn't want to come near you except you are fortunate you met the rich guys, then what you will do is to mingle or go where you can find the type of classic guys that would fancy your flashy type. Have got female friends that are flashy classy and they are currently dating the bucked up guys! I could date them easily but my budget cannot maintain them so I reverse but I like them So when I work harder and get bucked up I will hunt for the flashy classy girl easy if i want All you need is patience because you cannot settle for less, but if the case persists you are your own! OYO 2 Likes |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by seangy4konji: 3:32pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
U neva see anything in TU BABA voice. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Ohwhy: I thought you were being " tongue in cheek" with your first post....and I read this.. Like, wharris dis? You are not serious/ and I am missing the irony right? Please? Lawd |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
alutacontinua: @ohwhy, I disagree with you!pls take this advice and watch your mates tie the not every saturday while you continue looking porsche. 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by uchrikk(m): 5:37pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
peachez'n'cream: What about the remaining 20% of your toasters. I guess they are single and searching seriously. I advise you to choose from amongst them. You can honestly choose only one person at a time. To me, being flashy means to be too artificial. Naturally or just with a little touch, you look beautiful. You don't need most of the over dressing or classy makeup. In the final analysis, all you need at any point in time is your confidence which only comes by being yourself. You are the only one that can truly define yourself. If it takes being too flashy to be your true self, then go ahead and be flashy. I bet there are several men out there who are single and seriously searching for flashy girls. Be consistent, they will find you. 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Adaeze003(f): 5:44pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Reski: pls take this advice and watch your mates tie the not every saturday while you continue looking porsche.^^^ A girl now has to be ugly, broke and dressed like a house girl to date?... Only in 9ja sha.SMH Now I know guys have self esteem issues! And they'll be yabbing girls. Sheesh. All those hiding behind the excuse of 'what if 3k gift will not be enough for her' and 'what if I can't afford her bills' all you're really saying is 'what if I'm not good enough for her' it all boils down to low self esteem no matter how you say it. @All "Until you realise you deserve the best in life, you'll always settle for less" - Adaeze003 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Longfellow: 5:44pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
[size=30pt]Money Bring Bitchez... Bitchez Bring Life[/size] as for Me, I see Flashy Classy Babe's as Ashewo... because Many Of them dn't hv future Plans.... Any single guys that date them wil just fvck them and Run because all what they are after is Material Tinz.... What fit them is Married Men that wil fvck them and dump them..... Though I like neat gal that dress co-operate and Clean.. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 5:49pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Sorry for derailing this thread @OP Please go to this page and like my answer. https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=744087525621177&id=314989598530974 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 6:12pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
@ OP: in your initial post u claimed to bé writing for a friend but subsequent response from u shows u were writing for yourselve. You are just a lying, conniving and silly biatch. Gerrout of hia jor ! 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by DutchesSsS(f): 8:06pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
@Op, I reallyy do understand what you mean....I was once described as such, I searched deep within me and today I'm different...here are some secrets; 1.) Tone down your colours...clothes, shoes, bags etc... 2.) Rock your natuural hair a little 3.) Reduce the 'hEels' (shoes) 4.) I got a smaller phone, you might consider that 5.) Avoid loud make-up You are not changing yourself but rather improving on yourself... To attract the RIGHT MAN, be the RIGHT WOMAN 4 Likes |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Saraha1(f): 10:33pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
DutchesSsS: @Op, I reallyy do understand what you mean....I was once described as such, I searched deep within me and today I'm different...here are some secrets;girl you rock, thanks .op , pls fellow this guidelines and am sure the end result will be favourable to you. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by khaniku(m): 10:54pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
DutchesSsS: @Op, I reallyy do understand what you mean....I was once described as such, I searched deep within me and today I'm different...here are some secrets;TRUE!!! Most of the time wen a guy sees how ur dress,it kinda makes them scared to talk to you,cuz they alrdy feel like u won't give them the time of the day and your too "high class" for them to take care of u.Frankly its scares the crap outta guys,they wld mre likely go after a more simple yet beautiful girl. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by touchplay(m): 11:20pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Hmmmmmm. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by EejaNla01(m): 6:11am On Dec 21, 2013 |
Sensible post from Dutch,we aren't saying you should look rough or like rags,but simple and co operate Dazzal! Well d matured ladies have spoken,kids should learn |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by WackyJ1(m): 1:00pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Adaeze003: What if you deserve the best buy cannot afford the best huh? . Let us be realistic eh? Do you think that the self esteem of many guys that drive jeeps comes from the inside or from the fact that they have the cars? Op os flashy but humble, how many flashy girls out there are flashy but humble instead we have most cases of them being runs girls or very demanding, a guy likes a flashy thing and when he goes for it with all his self esteem, he finds that it is not self esteem that keeps the girl flashy but something more tangible than that and either he just concludes that flashy girls are like that or he tries his luck some more times (high self esteem) and discovers the same thing.. How .any rich guys out there with the self esteems or whatever are good enough to exclusively date this girl without going for other flashy things. My point is that apart from self esteem issues, there are other things consider which were made evident in some posts up there including the one you made reference to. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by WackyJ1(m): 1:01pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
wingman: @ OP: in your initial post u claimed to bé writing for a friend but subsequent response from u shows u were writing for yourselve. You are just a lying, conniving and silly biatch. Gerrout of hia jor !Is she too flashy for you? |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Nonso23:this is just the gospel truth @op. Don't let anybdy deceive you. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by ireneidiva(f): 2:01pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
DutchesSsS: @Op, I reallyy do understand what you mean....I was once described as such, I searched deep within me and today I'm different...here are some secrets;use a small phone to attract a man? Don't wear heels? Crap |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 2:04pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
ireneidiva: LOL guess I have to go and buy nokia 3310 when i'm going home. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by 190theclown: 2:10pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Kelechi2020: true shes single and sooner or later shes gna ask me out just watch aluta's the girl im gna marry everyone 1 Like |
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