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Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 3:21pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Adaeze003(f): 3:56pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
alutacontinua: If u look at my first post, classy is 'when it's within your limits'. A classy girl doesn't need you to be shopping her things for her! She has her money, she works hard for it and she's ready to spend it. The problem most pple have is dt dey associate 'classy nd ill-mannered'! Dt's just poverty mentality. 'Rude' is not a function of whether you're classy or not! Have you seen how rude some street-hawkers can be? Trust me, it all boils down to inferiority complex in the end. There are 'big', sweet and nice ladies. If they're too much for a guy to afford, nd he cannot just let her accept him for who he is (the truth is these ladies mostly don't mind, it's y'all dt over-think things), then, waka pass but don't expect a lady to throw away her iPhone 5 and buy BB curve because she wants you to approach her! Couldn't have said it any better. They just don't gerrit. They don't even believe that they can sustain a relatship without spending heavily. Sheesh... 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by crackhaus: 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Chai, these gals will just keep using words to make themselves feel better. First it was 'weaklings', then 'low self-esteem', now it's 'inferiority complex'. One even said 'poverty mentality', oga ooo...make I dey look una 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Dlionsheart: 6:54pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Stop cat-walking: dey waka like kpako burn all your flashy wears, make ups, etc: be wearing okirika-wake-up stop using flashy phones: Nokia 3310 or Nokia touch light is preferable stop drinking costly or expensive wine: zobbo, kunu and highest Pepsi is preferable (no go drink ogogoro oo) if you have a car, sell it and buy and be using keke, okada/going and your legedis benz sometimes stop speaking like American or Jamaican's ladies: dis our demgo demgo go help you stop using tiger-claws nails in your fingers: people (single guys) will think that you're a witch if u dey smoke (like many western girls), stop it: single guys may think that you're a bad firewood. stop asking guys to take you to Chinese restaurants, transcorp Hilton, Mr. Biggs, etc: mama ekaite, mama comfort's buka no be bad idea. You can also join us and que for KOSE and FURA. don't behave or dress like general distributor or like free electrons (guys, you know what I mean) stop using tilted glass (eye glass or goggle) to cover your eyes make sure you come back here - on NL to give the testimony. May God help you find a good guy AAMI OO!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Adaeze003:as in ehen.i just tire :/ |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
shooze: Odi egwu @ buy a small phone . After working almost 13 hours daily I will now deny myself some luxury because I want amu mba biko. I used to belong to that school of thot until I woke up and smelt the coffee .gbam |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:10pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
peachez'n'cream:my dear,there is nothing wrong with you.you dont have to make any changes just BE YOUR USUAL SELF 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Nonso23:if it is about that,a classy girl will have her own money to spend na.if she like let her buy prada,louis vuitton,khloe etc,when you enter a relationship as a man,a man is supposed to do what DEFINE HIS RELATIONSHIP AND HIS TERMS AND AGREEMENT BEFORE PUTTING LEG SO THAT THERE WILL BE NO PRESSURE TO IMPRESS THE GIRL.you tell the babe straight up,ehhn,my dear come o,we need to talk.i earn 50k as salary,dont expect too much from me o,if i have,i will buy for you,if i dont meet up to your expectation,no problem,you can go o.so the ball is now in the girls court to decide whether she can cope with a stater or she moves to mr millionaire who will spoil her meanwhile remove it from your mind that every girl is materialistic except you want to agree with me that every guys priority in a relationship is s3x.is as simple as that this world is not hard but some human beings just like complicating it for reasons best known to their ego.jeez! 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by MRL1MPoPoTM: 7:34pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
UR'e a big FOOL.how do u expect us to judge witawt showin us a single pictur or do u think this a forum of dumb n inarticulate felllas. Mseeeeew..wat an infantile thread!flashy my balls |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:37pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
crackhaus:no 1. Go and check your dictionary for the meaning of flashy.no.2 flashiness is in the eyes of the beholder for example painting your lips with red lipstick the way rita dominic does her own might be termed flashy by some peoples standard and plaiting your hair all back with chandeline earings might also be flashy to another meaning one mans meat is another mans poison.what we term as flashiness differs 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by shooze: 7:54pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Classy does not always mean expensive . I have seen people wear a pair of jeans and white t shirt and look classy and someone decked in all the designer gear and look like trash . 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by peachezncream(f): 8:42pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
«—M®×L¹MPºPº ™: Your Iq is below room temperature. . |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 8:53pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by crackhaus: 9:11pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
kulyie: no 1. Go and check your dictionary for the meaning of flashy.no.2 flashiness is in the eyes of the beholder for example painting your lips with red lipstick the way rita dominic does her own might be termed flashy by some peoples standard and plaiting your hair all back with chandeline earings might also be flashy to another Typical! I see words but nothing being said. I asked a simple question, 'what is your own definition of the term? You're telling me to find out from the dictionary, as if we(I) don't already know what it says there. Smh! You ladies should stop interchanging flashy with classy gaddemit, it's pathetic really...like WTF |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by crackhaus: 9:23pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
shooze: I have seen people wear a pair of jeans and white t shirt and look classy.Bro, next time please type this part of your post in Caps and Bolds so these lasses see it clearly. They say classy is now a better replacement word for flashy...Imagining the concobillity! |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 11:05pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Nonso23:since time immemorial,it has always been the duty of the man to walk up to any girl he likes and express his feelings and not the other way round |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:11am On Dec 23, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by pickabeau1: 7:15am On Dec 23, 2013 |
You have a way with words/// cj1080: This coming from a lad who likes to keep it simple. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:28am On Dec 23, 2013 |
Nonso23:well times have changed so also ways of doing things.some few women out there still have the nerves to ask a man out but it is 2 in every 100 cases and when men stops looking at those kinds of women as dirty tramps,skanks or desperadoes who want to date the guy by fire by force,the changes will improve but for now only few girls are having the boldness to do such a thing |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 7:33am On Dec 23, 2013 |
crackhaus:ill be right back to answer you,let me do some washing |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 8:23am On Dec 23, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Nonso23:ordinary wink wey one woman wink for church give one brother,you need to see the way nairalanders were castigating the girl,calling her all sorts of names.no be naija.infact if a friend told you that a lady wooed me today,no be una go tell your friend make e run say the girl na emere abi na mammy water |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Saraha1(f): 1:56pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
peachez'n'cream:sister pls let me take a glance on your pix.I want to judge from the picture as well. Lol |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by MRL1MPoPoTM: 3:42pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
peachez'n'cream: lamest post ever!!! |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 3:46pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
«—M®×L¹MPºPº ™: |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 12:42am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Kelechi2020(m): 11:23am On Dec 24, 2013 |
thank s to all those that have confirmed a to the fact that alutacintinua is a nuisance alutacontinua: @ohwhy, I disagree with you! Trying to look classy only becomes a crime when you go beyond your abilities. U know d usual borrow-pose that some ladies do or taking money from guys to look the way their status cannot afford. If u have the money, pls, go for things that fit in your status. There are some things I see today and when I ask for the price, i'll waka pass. In the next 4 years, if i'm able to COMFORTABLY afford those things, i'll gladly buy them. You don't expect someone who makes USD3000 yo dress the same way she wld when she was making USD1000, do you? I'm not one to advocate for make-up and brazilian hair but u don't need all those to look classy! When you're classy, you're classy. Your steps are, your voice is, your carriage is, your aura is! Everything about you is! As per the guyz, there are too many hu gry guys out there and their ego won't let them be, don't lower your standards because of dem, if dey can't upgrade or push their ego aside, it's their loss! There are guys who are confortable with women like you, don't let anybody tell you otherwise! my reply was I have beenmonitoring you for quite some time....... My observations are...... You are single and badly searching for a man.... 2 you always make noise about guys that you know nothing about their psychology... 3 the worst part which most gullible nlanders won't notice is that you are deceptive(deceiver) and I pity those that swallow your advice hook line and sinker... The op is seeking advice on how to appear less flashy a and you are suggesting she stick to her status....What is that suppose to mean.. #criticise objectively ( Modify ) ( Quote ) ( Report) 21 Likes |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Kelechi2020: thank s to all those that have confirmed a to the fact that alutacintinua is a nuisancesay you're crushing on her. |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 12:08pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
FrancisTony: say you're crushing on her. Lol As in ehn At least, i've now noticed his user name. He could just have said something since, I would have noticed him 1 Like |
Re: My Big Brother Told Me I'm Too Flashy... by Nobody: 2:18pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Kelechi2020: LMAOOOO Two of una get beef? |
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