j-girl:

Oh my goodness! Seriously?
We cannot discourage men from cheating if they are bent on increasing their home run scores. I think we need tv shows with less seduction.
TV shows will not help all that much.

What could help?

Oh my goodness! Seriously? Huh Huh
We cannot discourage men from cheating if they are bent on increasing their home run scores. I think we need tv shows with less seduction.
TV shows will not help all that much.

If all these pastors preaching in every channels(except Muhri TV) couldn't help, what else can?

$$Rhino:

What could help?

To tell you the truth, I have absolutely no idea. If Leaders cheat shamelessly, why won't the average man see cheating as a leverage?
I'm tired of it. I promise you that I preach and preach to guys about NOT cheating and it goes in one ear and comes out the other.
It doesn't affect them. It's like they don't care if they're hurting anyone else.

DeepZone:

If all these pastors preaching in every channels(except Muhri TV) couldn't help, what else can?

Abi! Nothing else.
I don't want to give up sha. There might be some men who are morally inclined NOT to cheat.

j-girl:

To tell you the truth, I have absolutely no idea. If Leaders cheat shamelessly, why won't the average man see cheating as a leverage?
I'm tired of it. I promise you that I preach and preach to guys about NOT cheating and it goes in one ear and comes out the other.

keep preaching sis, one day i am sure you will be heard and the right will be done.

$$Rhino:

keep preaching sis, one day i am sure you will be heard and the right will be done.

Lol! I doubt it jare . In fact, i'm beginning to think it is natural for a guy to cheat.

Abi! Nothing else.
I don't want to give up sha. There might be some men who are morally inclined NOT to cheat.

Oooh there are many of them everywhere. The cheating ones just love to perpetrate evil.

DeepZone:

Oooh there are many of them everywhere. The cheating ones just love to perpetrate evil.

I almost agree but ALMOST every guy I know seems to cheat so it's kind of crazy for me to believe there are that many of them.

j-girl:

Lol! I doubt it jare . In fact, i'm beginning to think it is natural for a guy to cheat.

Dont give up. besides, ladies do cheats too.

j-girl:

Lol! I doubt it jare . In fact, i'm beginning to[b] think it is natural for a guy to cheat[/b].

It runs through his blood like his Ego.

j-girl:

I almost agree but ALMOST every guy I know seems to cheat so it's kind of crazy for me to believe there are that many of them.

You just can't find faithful men these days. Better off finding oil in your back yard.

Hannibal: Is that a deliberate error??
That should read. . . . . .In some remote places like Ilesha. Grin Cheesy
Modify before i scream BLUE MURDER.

Hehehe . . . no need to state the obvious fact

@j-girl
You!!!
Let this match end before I think of what to say

Not really, If I was doing that, i should also advocate for the ills dominant in this society besides, I believe that more crimes are commited in America per sq m than Nigeria. Much as i agree that so many problems will come out from the TV show, i still believe that Nigeria is among the fastest society that evolves with little time and monogamy seems to be outsourcing polygamy today. With that notion, it means that in 10 years time, southern Nigeria  will more or less reinstate the efficacy of monogamous relations. Check this out, younger Nigerian couples are not having the usual 6-7-8 kids our parents had, why? They are having 2-3 nowadays, why is that?  Ibos and other south southerners  in the 21st century are predominantly monogamous prolly because of religion or what not  and the Yorubas are taking queue and with time, polygamy will be old fashioned. You have seen recent cases of women challenging their husbands at the divorce court in todays Nigeria, what happened to the old culture of the man telling the woman to pack her belongings and leave? I think it boils down to economic strength, the more women get educated and garner economic strength, the more they can stand before their husband and demand for respect without the fear of being thrown out.

, ; and in the context of that, what is the gender ratio?  

If there are more women of child bearing age than there are men, and even if the men choose to remain monogamous, the ambitious women will force them into adulterous and compromising situations where her immediate interest may likely not be directed at his matrimony but nonetheless to have him father a child for her that she could then raise independently on her own.  To you, this is an educated woman utilizing the advantages of her liberties and independence as an accomplished woman to forge forward within the mainstream society.  The problem is your objective with the topic is already defeated on two principles _ 1. cheating; 2. adultery.  So how do Southerners win in such an arrangement?

I almost agree but ALMOST every guy I know seems to cheat so it's kind of crazy for me to believe there are that many of them.

Trust me, there are many of them out there. The likes of Hannibal, Eldee and Sly are going into extinction anyway. They are pagans masking as christians because there is nothing about them that is Christlike.

$$Rhino:

Dont give up. besides, ladies do cheats too.

Clearly not as much as men.

, ; and in the context of that, what is the gender ratio?

If there are more women of child bearing age than there are men, and even if the men choose to remain monogamous, the ambitious women will force them into adulterous and compromising situations where her immediate interest may likely not be directed at his matrimony but nonetheless to have him father a child for her that she could then raise independently on her own. To you, this is an educated woman utilizing the advantages of her liberties and independence as an accomplished woman to forge forward within the mainstream society. The problem is your objective with the topic is already defeated on two principles _ 1. cheating; 2. adultery. So how do Southerners win in such an arrangement?

Did i hear you say force? So you men are still using the same lame excuse Adam gave God for disobeying Him?

Are you saying that because of these problems above, we should continue with our serial cheating method and hope for the best? Gender ratio? I've challenged Hannibal before to prove to me beyond reasonable doubt that there are more women in Nigeria than men.
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"Statistics is like the bikini, what it shows is revealing, but what fails to show is the thing that is quite intriguing"______Chuba Okadigbo

Negro, no one can make you do anything. For you to claim that women drive a man to do sinful acts, then you my friend are clearly in denial.

$$Rhino:

Dont give up. besides, ladies do cheats too.

Please let's not get into that one. You know how many girls come to NL crying daily about being cheated on? It's increasing daily. What happens when you give your all in a relationship just to find out your partner's been sleeping around. I gather girls don't cheat if they are in a serious relationship unless they are really in a bad state. But guys love adventure and cheating is a game to them as long as they can get away with it, it gives them serious bragging rights.

onyinye2:

It runs through his blood like his Ego.
You just can't find faithful men these days. Better off finding oil in your back yard.

Lol. I agree with you. Don't mind the yeye men of nowadays. You know the excuse I hear these days? Guys say that our forefathers had numerous wives and they too should follow suit.

eldee:

@j-girl
You!!!
Let this match end before I think of what to say

You!!!!!!!!!! Let this match go on. We all know you're busy cheating right now. Don't let guilty conscience kill you!!!!

DeepZone:

Trust me, there are many of them out there. The likes of Hannibal, Eldee and Sly are going into extinction anyway. They are pagans masking as christians because there is nothing about them that is Christlike.

lol! Christ-like these days is not really used anymore.

j-girl:

Please let's not get into that one. You know how many girls come to Nairaland crying daily about being cheated on? It's increasing daily. What happens when you give your all in a relationship just to find out your partner's been sleeping around. I gather girls don't cheat if they are in a serious relationship unless they are really in a bad state. But guys love adventure and cheating is a game to them as long as they can get away with it, it gives them serious bragging rights.

doesnt matter how many lady cheats, all i am saying is that ladies do cheat as well, we are not talking about the numbers here.

$$Rhino:

doesnt matter how many lady cheats, all i am saying is that ladies do cheat as well, we are not talking about the numbers here.

I'm saying they cheat for different reasons. Not that I'm supporting ladies that cheat. I just feel sorry for them because guys do it for the fun of it.

$$Rhino:

doesnt matter how many lady cheats, all i am saying is that ladies do cheat as well, we are not talking about the numbers here.

Of course, women are the greatest cheats. . . .
They are so good and discreet about it they rarely get caught.

How many times have u heard of women pushing someone else's pregnancy on their oblivious husbands.
How many of Abiola's 150 children were really his?? After the DNA tests were carried out, only 60 belonged to him.
Others were bastards.

j-girl:

I'm saying they cheat for different reasons. Not that I'm supporting ladies that cheat. I just feel sorry for them because guys do it for the fun of it.

so give me some of the reasons why a lady will cheat and i will give you reasons why men do cheats.

Negro, no one can make you do anything. For you to claim that women drive a man to do sinful acts, then you my friend are clearly in denial

Onyinye, I like that!  Along the line of that argument, no woman should ever again cry here about husbands having forceful sex with their wives; 'cus guess what, ;  according to Onyinye, "no one can make you do anything".

I think the excuses guys come up with because they cheat is just plain stupid. If you are going to cheat, don't blame it on temptation, blame it on you not being able to control yourself. Faithful men are so rare these days.oi dey.

j-girl:

I'm saying they cheat for different reasons. Not that I'm supporting ladies that cheat. I just feel sorry for them because guys do it for the fun of it.

It is like they don't care. They know they are going to get caught but they do it anyways.

Hannibal:

Of course, women are the greatest cheats. . . .
They are so good and discreet about it they rarely get caught.

How many times have u heard of women pushing someone else's pregnancy on their oblivious husbands.
How many of Abiola's 150 children were really his?? After the DNA tests were carried out, only 60 belonged to him.
Others were bastards.

Numbers wise, men are the greatest cheats. Skill wise. . . goes to the ladies. A cheating man is easier detected then finding a red feather mixed with a bunch of white ones.

so give me some of the reasons why a lady will cheat and i will give you reasons why men do cheats

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Men cheat b/c their winnie has no control but women cheat because they seek emotional companionship

I am glad to hear that we have an understanding that men do cheat lousily, but ladies cheats with style and perfection.

Negro_Ntns:

Onyinye, I like that!  Along the line of that argument, no woman should ever again cry here about husbands having forceful sex with their wives; 'cus guess what, ;  according to Onyinye, "no one can make you do anything".

Spoken like a true man. A round of applause goes to Negro. Typical of you to twist my words to your own meaning. That is the same code a man does when he cheats. Tries to put the blame on the woman so that he can justify himself. Utter nonsense.

DeepZone:

.Men cheat b/c their winnie has no control but women cheat because they seek emotional companionship

hahahahahaha, that is the funniest thing since nigeria, emotional championship ke, african league ni, they cheat, cos they wanna cheat and cos they wanna get busy and get down with another man, and they will come and pretend like nothing happenes, catch a woman with a d**K in her a$$, and she will tell you that it is a corn comb, they cheat withs tyle

$$Rhino:

so give me some of the reasons why a lady will cheat and i will give you reasons why men do cheats.

You really want me to start here?
Okay!
1. Women cheat when they feel unloved in their relationship. They find someone who shows them unconditional love and bam! they fall right into it.
2. Women cheat when they wanna inflict revenge on their partners. Some women find out their partners are cheating and instead of leaving straight off, they try and make the guy's life a living hell by cheating with somebody close to him
3. Women cheat because the guy is not satisfactory enough. . . . emotionally, physically, whichever way they come.

So tell me. . . what are some of the reasons why guys cheat?

Hannibal:

Of course, women are the greatest cheats. . . .
They are so good and discreet about it they rarely get caught.

I'm sure in your heart, you know this is wrong.
You're just looking for a way to push this on women again.
You're so biased!

lol Rhino!!

3. Women cheat because the guy is not satisfactory enough. . . . emotionally, physically, whichever way they come.

Stop scaring Hannibal abeg, He's a serious defaulter here.

j-girl lol your signature!

j-girl:

You really want me to start here?
Okay!
1. Women cheat when they feel unloved in their relationship. They find someone who shows them unconditional love and bam! they fall right into it.
2. Women cheat when they want to inflict revenge on their partners. Some women find out their partners are cheating and instead of leaving straight off, they try and make the guy's life a living hell by cheating with somebody close to him
3. Women cheat because the guy is not satisfactory enough. . . . emotionally, physically, whichever way they come.

and you dont think that men do cheat for all the stated reasons as well, pls note that i am not saying cheating is aiight oh, but i think that men do cheat for those reasons as well,  still blov that when a man is getting it really good at home, whenever he wants, chance of him cheating is low, but when u marry a woman and all of a sudden all the good style she use to give you is no more and she doesnt dress as sexy as before and all of a sudden, she cant kneel to give u 'doggy' and she is always tired to give u some, a man will go out there and do what he has to do.