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Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 12, 2014 |
No mind him. Something changed alright, like I said, "its all for my kids ooo." d excuse of life!!! So na the kid say make she no do hair abi? And isn't it fun to even take the kids with her to get the hair done? Kids find It fun and drag oga too sef, pamper him with a pedi while you get your hair done. Good mothers doesn't mean being bad wives oo. E supposed balance. lynpetra: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 7:46am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Correct!! Me sef go tap fa, if he tap na. People go just dey ogle. Lame a$$ excuses dem dey give. lynpetra: |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by lwise(m): 7:49am On Jul 12, 2014 |
@OP please I'm begging you, don't conclude like that please. Marriage is the best thing that can happen to a man or woman. My marriage is so so enjoyable with a lot of fun,I really mean fun not only seex. I got married to my best friend, my girl friend, my love n my all in all. Let me tell you something, what makes most marriages boring is because the partners don't get to know each other very well before marriage. Knowing each other means spending a lot of time together at least 40hrs a week not necessarily having sex. You love the guy you want to get married to,fine but is he your friend. Is he the type you can tap his head while chatting like a friend. Is he the type you can engage in rough plays for hours when there is no light and both of you are not feeling like having sex. When we talk about compatibility its not only being able to raise kid and having a bright future. Is he or she your friend, we all know how friends behave. Before I was married, there was a day I went to my neighbours house just to see them about something. After few minutes of discussions which was so boring next thing was that everyone was just watching the TV as if it was the most important thing in the house.The husband and wife were sitting very far apart.I can see how bored the woman was,I feel how unhappy she is.I was just praying that the football match should end so that I can leave. I now see the reason why the woman prefers spending most time with us anytime her husband is not around. Golden advise Marry your best friend and you will never regret it. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 12, 2014 |
shoefreak: No mind him. Something changed alright, like I said, "its all for my kids ooo." d excuse of life!!! So na the kid say make she no do hair abi? And isn't it fun to even take the kids with her to get the hair done? Kids find It fun and drag oga too sef, pamper him with a pedi while you get your hair done. Abi the kids no dey go school? The problem is this,Some Nigerian women relax after marriage.They become lazy and carefree.They adore very bad time management.They don't have good knowledge of budgeting!I remembered those days when my mom goes to market once a month!There is always food at home to eat.We had Time-table for who does chores and what chores to do placed in the kitchen.Everybody knows their chores and so there is enough time to play ludo with her,or she Jist of stories during war times .I remember it was so much fun cos dad will tell us about several experiences.We go dey pray make the story no finish. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 7:52am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Shebi you see your life? Solo Makinde gbeborun oshi ni é! That's why it is never a good idea to admit people into one's home for any length of time. All they will do is spend time "noticing" what they think is 'wrong' with your life and broadcasting their yeye 'noticement' to the outside world. Na from there 'see finish' dey start. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by unmask: 7:52am On Jul 12, 2014 |
before getting married, confim that your spouse is not aversed to the following 1. pranking people 2. having s.e.xx at the car lot of the mall on a busy saturday evening 3. dancing 4. video games 5. football 6. lying 7. exercising 8. wearing skimpy dresses in the house (wrapper is a no no) 9. skipping religious gathering to catch fun 10. laughing 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by unmask: 7:54am On Jul 12, 2014 |
pro01:mr know all, pray tell us the names of the couples he is broadcasting? 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by mindworx: 7:56am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Yoney007: Couples gets too familiar with themselves to reinvent, respice and redecorate themselves. They unknowingly stop doing the things that trips their partner thinking they have "arrived" Very good points in bold, but its both parties, not 'especially women'. When was the last time he woke her up with a kiss or carried her from the living room to the bed. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 7:57am On Jul 12, 2014 |
unmask: mr know all, pray tell us the names of the couples he is broadcasting?Mr. Man face front. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by kabba7(m): 7:58am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Bottom line marry your friend only him/her can give you that kick that exited you that daily dose of kicks .that can last for ever .sex ,money will not . |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 8:02am On Jul 12, 2014 |
The idea of couples sleeping together only in their matrimonial bed baffles me.It's so boring!Couples shud also learn to eat their dinner in restaurants sometimes.I don't see my sef doing that for the rest of my life when I am married.Every new hotel in town,na me and my husband go be the first guest .Make I hear say I no give am Mouth Action for the hotel pool as he downs his liquor,with a coded face. . 9 Likes
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Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by emmabest2000(m): 8:05am On Jul 12, 2014 |
obongproff: Yes!op face your work ooo .. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Mmaria: 8:10am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Mine is not boring. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by yemfash: 8:13am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Hum what u said is rigth am tried of my marriage. because is so boring |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Safari29: 8:19am On Jul 12, 2014 |
hmmmmm. All of you saying marry your best friend. Some guys like me don't have platonic girl friends? ere kinni aja mbekun se? ? |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Pque(m): 8:22am On Jul 12, 2014 |
sauer: The best reason I can imagine is that people often marry not because they want to spend forever time with a woman they are complete friends with, but because they want kids. You'll observe the monotony sets in when kids arrive. If no kids are forthcoming, they'd probably be going crazy anyways. where will one see such companion. Wel, have a lady friend who is very close to me but my feelings for her is just on real friendship level and never sexual. I never for 1 second think of dating her but she is a real close friend |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by JimloveTM(m): 8:24am On Jul 12, 2014 |
No real Love or compatibility. If there is real love, you cannot stay without looking for ways to keep the other happy and create fun. Marry your friend not a stranger nor because of beauty. If you marry your friend, there will always be a reason to play |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by mployer(m): 8:30am On Jul 12, 2014 |
I have seen lots of interesting marriages,don't know what the op is saying. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Sarcasm01: 8:33am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Eidosky: Bro it's alarming, am also scared of it...... Stupid says |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Maximus17(m): 8:36am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Understand these things, Variety is the spice of life, when you guys stop doing new things, re invent interesting activities,and allow financial problem overshadow your love/commitment, boredom may set in...if you continuously do what you've being doing for the past 10yrs u've been married, how would it be fun?...Shy couples surprise me and our so called over 'religious' men and women, the sound of romance or latest styles of having mindblowing sex sounds 'sinful' to them forgetting that one of the purposes of marriage involves satisfying your partner..To be Frank and saying without any form of sentimentality,its hard to see a christian marriage that is fortified with fun,its just there, and do not misconstrue me, being romantic to your partner does not make you less of a religious person buh strenghtens the love and bond subsisting between you two and this consequently leads to a nourished spiritual life! May God help us catch the right fishes! Divorce rate has been on the increase lately 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by volihove: 8:40am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Bunch of single talking shit they knw nothing about. Floating tots |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by whitedove1: 8:40am On Jul 12, 2014 |
yemfash: Hum what u said is rigth am tried of my marriage. because is so boring take a trip together . Your body needs adventurous sex. Plus it helps you bond more. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 12, 2014 |
hmmm.its true sha..and all i know is that's if there is no money no job or good job for them or using of charm to get the girl.there won't be real peace |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Abi. It's just easy to blame the widening space on the kids. Thts just wrong. lynpetra: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by JoeCutie(m): 8:42am On Jul 12, 2014 |
It depends on what foundation they built their 'love' on in the first place. The best relationship/marriage is one that's built on the foundation of friendship. If someone is attracted to you merely for their physical looks, you'd have only one thing in mind...FUN. When you finally get caged & get married to them, you'd have fun, have fun & have fun again. But you know what? You'd eventually get tired of having fun, and when this happens, the fun of the marriage fades away, just cos you built the so called 'love' on fun (because your partner is attractive - sexy, hot, bangable etc), and not on friendship. Once a friend (real friend), is always a friend. Love built on the foundation of 'friendship' never dies, no matter what happens; even if you guys seperate. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Karleb(m): 8:45am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Why won't it be boring when all the ladies care about is 'owo obe'. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 8:46am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Um? Nigerian marriages are hell chai!!! Most couples are just together because they dont want the stigma of divorce in society. Reasons why Nigerian marriages are boring.. 1... Nigerians make having children a priority in marriages, when they date it's all about them but when they get married they dont take time to adjust to their new lives as a married couple and they just start shooting out babies. Soon they neglect each other to look after the babies. In 5 yrs time they'll start ranting of how "fed up" they are and how they're just gonna stay for the sake of the kids. 2....Nigerians don't know how to mind their own business, Marriage is not for everyone, some ppl just dont have it in them to cut all ties and settle down but society ensures that they pressure these kind of ppl just well enough to get them to marry just so they can say they fu.ck1ng did it and this is how they'll find a sacrificial lamb who will never be able to keep them happy and over time, they'll both be stuck in an extremely unhappy marriage. 3....SEXI5M in Nigeria: THIS IS THE BEDROCK OF ALL BEDROCKS THAT RUIN NIGERIAN MARRIAGES AND WE'RE STILL PRETENDING IN THIS 2014 IT'S NOT EVEN AN ISSUE. Whether you believe it or not, "nna anyi syndrome" is ruining the hell out of us. most nigerian women are married to someone who perceives them as beneath them. most nigerian men are domestically very lazy. They cant help with any house work cos they"re "THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE" so what exactly does the head of the house do? sit around and fart? The average nigerian woman works and earns and contributes to the family and still comes home to clean up and feed a grown man who was home hours before she came back but couldn't do anything to help out cos that's the way he was raised, to sit back, be a liability and do absolutely nothing and wait for food to be served. Marriage in Nigeria is like glorified slavery. If you hear nigerian men describing their dream wives, she must be fine, can cook, iron, clean and wash. If you want to establish your self as "LORD and MASTER" get a maid not a wife. A happy home can NEVER have an unhappy wife, most nigerian wives are miserable, stressed and overworked, how can i keep you happy if i'm unhappy myself? 15 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by LaRoyalHighness(f): 8:47am On Jul 12, 2014 |
OP.. and who are you to complain about somebody's marriage ?... Like seriously! What do you mean by 'their marriage is boring'? Park well! It's not your place to discuss whose marriage is boring. (Unless one of the couples complained of boredom to you) Imagine that you visited a couple for two days and they are quiet people that enjoy chilling at home.. because they ain't partying, spanking eachother's ass, laughing out very loud and running around the house like kids... you picked up your phone to create a thread. *This why I don't like single people 'visiting' me. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by brask(m): 8:47am On Jul 12, 2014 |
I thank God for my marriage. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Nobody: 8:49am On Jul 12, 2014 |
may you live in interesting times ancient chinese curse thats all that needs to be said on 'boring' marriages |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by Karleb(m): 8:50am On Jul 12, 2014 |
lynpetra: The idea of couples sleeping together only in their matrimonial bed baffles me.It's so boring!Couples shud also learn to eat their dinner in restaurants sometimes.I don't see my sef doing that for the rest of my life when I am married.Every new hotel in town,na me and my husband go be the first guest .Make I hear say I no give am Mouth Action for the hotel pool as he downs his liquor,with a coded face. . Hope you're this perverted in real life. 'cos me think I'm liking you already. So so adventurous. |
Re: Why Are Some Marriages So Boring? by volihove: 8:51am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Sombdy once said your bestfriend is your. Worst enemy, Another said there is no friend And another said trust no one, now. My question is Where the friend I want marry wen we are all backstabing ourselfs 1 Like |
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