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Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by Oduduwaboy(m): 11:40am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: i dont think i can sight any hatred from dat guys write up....hes only saying truth,and we shldnt hide dat fact...moreover talking about fairness amongst woman an children,where in nigeria or what part of the world are women and children not treatrd fairly apart from arabians countries,andsome parts in the north,and mind u those who maltreat women in d north are mostly uneducated and ignorant people who claim to do that on the basis of religionThanks. This comment makes too much sense. I believe the woman gains more from an environment of universal respect for humanity , be it female or male coupled with a rational concession of certain privileges to women as a result of her biologocal makeup. Feminism, which as the writer pointed out, is ill-understood in all its ramifications by many of its African advocates, is just arrant nonsense in my opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by Bootybuttchic(f): 11:42am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Oduduwaboy:u are welkum |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by kliq(m): 11:42am On Jul 31, 2014 |
1000 likes @ bootybuttchic Very impressive |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by Bootybuttchic(f): 11:43am On Jul 31, 2014 |
kliq: 1000 likes @ bootybuttchicyeah thanks! 2 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1: 11:45am On Jul 31, 2014 |
MrAnony1: Saudi..hmm Not it did not as I believe what you term regular are the offshoots of a modern strain of feminism so as to be perceived as accomodating This thread is not the best place for this Lets open a new thread or continue here https://www.nairaland.com/1254189/feminism-why-women-general-especially |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by brucelkelley: 11:53am On Jul 31, 2014 |
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Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by kayjegs: 12:03pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
The OP nailed it on d head. Nothing more, nothing less. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by ihedinobi2: 12:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Amhappy: Actually, the pursuit of equality for all things is unrealistic both in this world and in the world to come. Things that are not the same should not be treated the same. A woman should not be burdened with a man's responsibilities any more than a man should be burdened with a woman's. They are not equal. If there is a thing to pursue it is equity. That is treating everyone and everything with the respect that is due them in the role they play in life. That means that men should open doors for women, pay bills on dates, take responsibility to provide for them and the kids, be accommodating not irritated and even pamper her when she gets emotional and cries sometimes and when she is in pain as she often is. It means that women should let men lead, protect and provide for them and be the firm hand in raising the kids and take the initiative in economic ventures for the home. That is equity. Everybody except the envious ones gains here. Equality has everybody losing. 2 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by MrAnony1(m): 12:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1:Ok please open a new thread. The other link is already overused in my opinion |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by mbulela: 12:22pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
cococandy: First the wirter says the problem of female suppression doesn't exist in Nigeria. I see your point but likewise I fail to take serious an argument (Ms. Adichie's) that asserts that ‘Nigerians raise girls wrongly and in ways that make them feel guilty for being born girls’. I look around me and I see women who have not been raised with an iota of such guilt and I know the women around me are not exceptional nor are the only one who are being raised right. My problem with Ms. Adichie is the hypocritical extreme she has chosen to adopt and secondly the self-assumed impression that she is an oracle on all topics. In addressing an extreme she has ran to the other extreme and as a critic,nothing could be more hypocritical. She is a good writer,a very good one at that but that does not give her the sole right and authority to make pronounciation on issues in which are experience is neither unique nor exceptional. 1 Like |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by ihedinobi2: 12:23pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
damiso: You have a point here. I very much doubt that women expect another woman to be much help with lifting and carrying though. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by adconline(m): 12:24pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
chukwuma101: Adichie's brand of feminism is exactly what feminism shouldn't be about. Feminism calls for a level playing ground for both genders and not the unwarranted 'upliftment' of females above the male folk. Females are entitled to everything a man is entitled to in nigeria. The apparent disparity in the distribution of genders socially, politically, academically etc that seems to favour males is a function of the innate complexes of the female gender. A female that intends to succeed must beat down these complexes not the male folk as Adichie supposes. Adichie is very eurocentric, she writes not for Africa, but for Europe. She thinks she is a tour guide laden with the responsibility to explain African "(un)civilisation" to Westerners. She appeals to the West to garner international recognition. She tells them everything is wrong with the way we raise our girls because she knows it will please Western civilisation to hear that. But her views are jaundiced and misleading to those who see Africa through her eyesight. She endorses African women not to take on their husband's surname while in the same breath tells them to eschew artificial hairdo. This highlights her confusion. She is a selective feminist. Adopting the side of the coin that advances her pseudo-intellectual ideology and avoiding the other. But there are always two sides to a coin. She wants to westernise Africans, but she is undecided. She is caught in-between...Good writing skills! |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by coogar: 12:28pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
freshdude2: Lol. I, personally, haven't seen it. But I think that nobody's unsavoury experiences should be swept under the carpet. After all, we claim to be modern, moral men. what has feminism achieved other than driving a wedge between men & women? adichie just wanted sensationalism to sell her books. she doesn't want girls to close their legs.....she probably want girls to be bare-chested too. what sort of african woman is she? feminism is all about hypocrisy & lies.... they claim to have been responsible for letting women vote - lies! lies!! lies!!! women voted in sierra leone, our own "sexist" africa before anyone else did. it goes to show african men had respect & regards to women even before the white folks conceived the idea of gender equality ....so what do african women want that they don't already have? 2 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by mbulela: 12:30pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
cococandy: , it'll be very obvious this topic is about chimamanda and nothing else. why the attack? the writer attacked issues that happen to have been raised by Ms. Adichie. I wonder what proves the writer does not have a life? You certainly do not think that anyone who is not a celebrity is living a lesser life? 3 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by ihedinobi2: 12:33pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1:Woman? Are you sure? His name is Oluchukwu Aloysius-Gonzaga. I don't remember his last name well now. It's a Nw-something. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1: 12:36pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Strange.. the writer felt like a woman to me No how.. the article is very exhaustive unfortunately a lot of posters are pleading hate to escape reading it Raised some interesting points |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1: 12:39pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
MrAnony1: Ok please open a new thread. The other link is already overused in my opinion wow.... that thread is a very interesting one tha rehashes a lot of the points...history, cause, angles Creating a new one may be counterproductive, lets use it |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by mbulela: 12:42pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
ihedinobi2:Oluchukwu is often a female name. The Aloysius-Gonzaga could be a surname. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by MrAnony1(m): 12:44pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I understand that you like that thread (and you are free to draw quotes from it if you need) but I would rather discuss with you on a fresh thread. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by coogar: 12:45pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1: the writer couldn't have been a woman. no nigerian woman would go to such an extent to rip down the mask of hypocrisy most nigerian women wear. besides.....take a look at this excerpt.
you still think any nigerian woman would write that about herself? 2 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1: 12:46pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
My bad No wonder they called him a hater.. cos he critiqued chimanda coogar: |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by damiso(f): 12:50pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: I like Adichie too.I bought Half Of a Yellow Sun at a such an exorbitant rate at one bookshop in Falomo back then because like you I like to appreciate Africans who are succesful. As I said the write up had some valid points but the personal attacks and referring to 'class' just kinda spoilt it for me.In otherwords she feels she is 'classless' cos she has opinions that might not necessarily agree with her POV. That said I just watched the full interview(thank you TV01 for the link) as I always just watched excerpts or heard quotes taken from it. And so I might have to agree with you that sometimes our experiences shape our perceptions and her experience on not being made class monitor cannot be farther from mine.I think I was class captain (that's what we called it) about 3 times in primary school.I was lead debater in the Literary and Debating society often times was the lead debater (with a boy sometimes supporting) and never once had anyone tell me I could not be because I was a girl.I led tutorial sessions in University with guys joining if they felt it was a course I was stronger in. That said my experiences should not speak for every Nigerian woman. The only thing is I fail to see how saying 'I am a feminist' is going to be the key to achieving equality for real.Equality is subjective and like you and someone said I don't think there is any society where EVERYONE is truly equal.I touched on disability earlier if we want to say we want everyone to be equal how come we are not campaigning for the disabled?. Even in the north where we say the girl child is marginalised I think its a poverty issue.Most almajiris are males and this is poverty and lack of education at play. She touched on too i though i think it starts from the family, my dad would never say"Go and make indomie for your brother" inshort my brother was the specialist indomie maker in our house ( I miss his indomie).Not saying I never cooked for him but that was cos I was cooking for everyone. I switched on the generator, washed my Dads car went to open the shop etc etc.Parents should try their best to raise children (both genders) who are considerate to others, play to their strengths, not generally feel they are better than others due gender, social status etc.I want my son to know how to cook because no skill is waste and as such he can feed himself if push comes to shove.So lets just try to treat others (a core christian principle) how we would want to be treated and the world might be a better place. 3 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by joomiegirl(f): 12:54pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
An EXCELLENT article. BRAVO! Yes, apparently she's not Adichie's biggest fan, but the article was in NO WAY hate-filled, contrary to what the self-proclaimed (abi na self acclaimed) feminists think!! AND the writer is a woman, and is in a fantastic position to write such, given her reality, as she put it. Sometimes I wish people would read stuff with an open mind. Adichie should "park well" abeg. She's a talented writer and we are proud of her, but you cannot eat your cake and have it...you want to be a die-hard feminist and u dey whine say dem no help you carry ya bag...are you kidding me. A femimist expecting/demanding chivalry? She clearly does not understand the full implications of the ideals and tenets of feminism..which is why this A.Gonzago lady took time out to (hopefully) educate her. Feminism...taaahh!! princefunmi: I'm usually at a loss when this feminism talks rears head. A lot of women advocate feminism without actually understanding its full implication - an implication that is a total contradiction of what the woman actually is and what she really wants. GBAM!! God bless you for this post...absolutely spot on! My sentiments exactly. 2 Likes |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by coogar: 12:58pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
joomiegirl: and this is exactly the reason i called her a hypocrite in the first page. 1 Like |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by ihedinobi2: 1:02pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
damiso:Considering this reality about doing business, do you consider it cruelty and unfairness for businesses to prefer hiring men? |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1: 1:06pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sorry.. the writer is male.. i was corrected I believe some of our feminists dont really understand what the issues are and its funny an erudite woman like adichie too is guilty of this I did not see the hate though i expected a logical critique of his points so as to have an enriching discourse.. sadly or as expected none of the sort has occured aside well thought out posts from damiso who studied feminism and has been making balanced comments A lot of the online army just got wind of these ideology and are now more indoctrinated than the whites themselves. Your points on chivalry are very funny joomiegirl: An EXCELLENT article. BRAVO! 1 Like |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by coogar: 1:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: if the preference to hire men is cruelty then biology/nature is very very cruel. pickabeau1: the writer could well be a woman who is tired of the global hypocrisy known as feminism. 1 Like |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by ihedinobi2: 1:07pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Beautiful!The more interesting question is how many businesses can AFFORD to do that? You pay women to stay away from work and pay another person to do the work they should ordinarily have been doing. If business should produce profits, how do you manage that in difficult terrains like Nigeria and any other place where funds are not readily available for business? 1 Like |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by damiso(f): 1:10pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Ihedinobi why only my post naa I no too understand English o To be honest I actually can get the sentiment of (not sentiment actually logic) preferring to hire men from a business angle BUT from the angle of someone who might be well suited to do a job despite being a woman I think doing that is a sort of punishment for motherhood which unfortunately falls on the woman as men dont give birth. Yeah its a hassle but in that talent pool (mothers) are some very experienced well qualified people and immediately disqualifying them is a tad bit unfair.I extolled the virtues of my mums shop assistant who is actually very good at her job and if my mum had actually denied her employment in favour of a man based on the fact that 'she might get pregnant' she might have not been able to get such a hard working loyal employee that she has till date. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1: 1:11pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
ihedinobi2:those climes, the cost is subsidised by the govt YOur q goes back to the issue:Its not a woman problem but rather a human one Can a woman who has no source of income aside her hubby afford to leave an abusive marriage or tell him to use contraception to avoid more kids Can a woman who has no state support (benefits etc) afford to leave her job which pays the bills.. the kids are abandoned to do whatever |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by ihedinobi2: 1:13pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
MrAnony1:I see. Then the demarcation between regular feminism and radical feminism is sensible. It's gotten harder to tell with the war of words. |
Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
coogar:Coogar, do you remember me saying that feminism in Nigeria is really about female dominance? There is no benefit/privilege I enjoy that a woman is deprived of just because she's female. This whole feminism noise is irritating. They claim they want equal rights but flee with gusto when it's time to take the responsibilities of the crown they so desperately want to wear. 1 Like |
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