Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,889 members, 7,956,351 topics. Date: Monday, 23 September 2024 at 10:28 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society (31542 Views)
Ten (10) Ways That Helps To Uphold Dignity In The Society / Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. / Signs Of An Irresponsible Man (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Anthrophile(m): 2:36pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
And to you all sinister women who take pleasure in jazzing and seducing well-to-do married men ignoring the welfare of their wives and children; Karma will catch up with you. 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
OkikiOluwa1: Dear mods of this section, I ll appreciate it if this thread is moved to the frontpage to gain more viewers & contributors who may benefit from it. It's a thread that tries to analyze how fathers neglect their wife & kids & possible solution to it. ye you right, i think Nigeria govt should provide funds for mothers who cannot take of their children in absence of their fathers, Also take 20% of the mans salary and give to the mums, then you will see Nigerians won't be giving birth anyhow. Esp the North..with their "almajiries". We should also have a foster care system where the state care for the children in the absence of their parents. So they don't become tools for gangsters or Boko. This is why am supporting the legislation that allow state to take care of the affairs, and income of their state without the interference of federal govt. Anyway not all kids turn out bad without their fathers, i was lucky my mom was educated to masters degree even she did her very best and i can boast that am a good person. Other kids might not be so lucky.. The state just have to be independent if we want this country to move forward. 3 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m): 2:40pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2:sis Amen!!! And you too. 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by tevinsolt: 2:41pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
it is cuz the law doesn't require men to provide child support, trust me this is one solution to men that sleep around without caring how many babies they end up having. 4 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
The "baddest boy" bUlls... pop culture will help increase the number of irresponsible men. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by delishpot: 2:51pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
bigheart2013: So on point. The trend is worrisome dear. But everyone has a hand in the mess not just irresponsible fathers. no be small thing my bros. but not all irresponsible men are rich na. most if not 80% of them are struggling men who married women that belive in struggling with her man. true true there is God and gods o. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by NUGAWHITE(m): 3:01pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Yes! they add nothin to the society but produces vagarbon and later becom Boko-Haram members - fellis: I support the move to take it to front page. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Revolva(m): 3:01pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Look as there is irresponsible fathers so there are irresponsible mothers ok but the papa own nai plenty for naija....see it boils down in how many children you wanna bring into this world....for naija dem just dey born anyhow...and yet livin in a one room...apartment in a slum...with no welfare..kai 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Eleganza33(f): 3:11pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
hensben: Bro you just described my home but fortunately, my mother was very strong to give us everything we wantedchai if i start writing wat my own fada did it wil ful lyk abt 10 or mur dictionary, my fada waz jus lyk dat evn as am stil writing .he waz rich bt he wud rada threw d money to goats dan to spend on d kids who did nt offend im,d kids who wer sharpest of al children in d whole extended family whom his brodas evn envy him 4.my mum is jus d head of d family as she did evry single tin 4 us while he spend time buying hauxes 4 wumen.nd he is evn.... Oh gosh i cnt continue, al i cn say is GOD wil alwaz b dia 4 us,evn afta al his brutal wickednes we stil feel 4 im so let God judge ur dad as wel,he is evn lucky he marid my gentle mum if 4 say na my mama sis he mari dat 1 wud av teach im a lesson cox she is a lioness she is evn begging my mum to permit her to deal wit my dad. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
tevinsolt: it is cuz the law doesn't require men to provide child support, trust me this one solution to men that sleep around without caring how many babies they end up having. That's the truth, the law should make provisions for women to sue such men for child support. I assure you Nigeria's population won't keep growing like this without control when people know that for every child you have you must take care of him/her. 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by coogar: 3:21pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
tatiana009: how has making men pay child support stop unwanted babies in the developed countries? it will even increase the frequency especially in a country like nigeria where cash is king! what stops a groundnut seller to get impregnated by a well-to-do man so she can be collecting monthly stipend from him? people value money than kids in naija. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m): 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Eleganza33: chai if i start writing wat my own fada did it wil ful lyk abt 10 or mur dictionary, my fada waz jus lyk dat evn as am stil writing .he waz rich bt he wud rada threw d money to goats dan to spend on d kids who did nt offend im,d kids who wer sharpest of al children in d whole extended family whom his brodas evn envy him 4.my mum is jus d head of d family as she did evry single tin 4 us while he spend time buying hauxes 4 wumen.nd he is evn.... Oh gosh i cnt continue, al i cn say is GOD wil alwaz b dia 4 us,evn afta al his brutal wickednes we stil feel 4 im so let God judge ur dad as wel,he is evn lucky he marid my gentle mum if 4 say na my mama sis he mari dat 1 wud av teach im a lesson cox she is a lioness she is evn begging my mum to permit her to deal wit my dad.exactly my ex- father, he is very worst, I do challenge him now n he is very afraid to speak with me whenever we see cos he knows I will ignore him. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by ayobase(m): 3:35pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Y'know, reading this post has caused me to pause and reflect for a bit. yes, our fathers rock. it aint easy to have a responsible and God fearing father. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Champele(m): 3:35pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
80 percent of Nigeria fathers are wicked,irresponsible,foolish,selfish,rude,arrogant,and finally devilish.my father is typical example.unfair 2 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by bettydee(f): 3:39pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Y'all talkin abt fathers that spend on women n all that. There are some fathers also that are naturally stingy n selfish,they don't spend on other women ooo bt stil find it hard to spend on their families but they can wear the best clothes,use the biggest phones,go out n eat xpensive foods, I tink dis category are the most irresponsible of all. They just find it hard to give out to their wives n children and also feel less concerned about wateva happens to them as far as he(father) is ok,dats all. They deserve to be punished by God's almighty hands. 5 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by ayobase(m): 3:39pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
coogar: now that everybody wanna be baby mamas. "I just need a rich man married or not married who can give me a house, a car, and a kid while he comes to visit once in a month" thats what some of my female friends talk o. they plenty for abuja......those estates for abuja.........CITEC. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Anthiga(m): 3:41pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by deavicky(m): 3:46pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
lupey: Modified... |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by deavicky(m): 3:48pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
lupey: Modified...beautiful small girl will you marry my brother? |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Orikinla(m): 3:52pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
They breed demonic and lunatic kidnappers, terrorists and other criminals who should never have been born in the first place. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by OkikiOluwa1(m): 3:57pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Nobleval: As you said. Most fathers rarely stay at home. Imagine a situation where a fathers goes out in the morning and comes back in the night. Surely you don't expect him to monitor his son then. And remember the saying "catch them young..." when a child gets older he takes his own decision himself. Now I believe the moral and religous wellness of a child should be the work of the mother and her main priorty too. Considering the bond that exist btwn mother and child. And talking about parent{s} that support their kids in crime..that's ridiculous. I doubt that.[\b]Look, I know your type. You only believe what you choose to believe. A father that's very busy is different from an irresponsible one. A busy father still make up time for his kids. Busy is not about going out from morning till night without doing something legal. [b]Last Bullet @ the bolded part of your post, it happens very well. I v seen parents that ll tell their daughters to find their way. Through prostitution, fraud etc. I v seen a father that ll not tell his that cybercrime is wrong. The list goes on. 1 Like |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by gabinchi: 3:58pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
bigheart2013: So on point. The trend is worrisome dear. But everyone has a hand in the mess not just irresponsible fathers. U killed it with this wonderful response. Many factors (which u ve correctly highlighted) are responsible for this which sometimes is beyond the man. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by wiringdpt(m): 3:59pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Ha, Ma binu...na that salary important o OkikiOluwa1: |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by lupey: 4:02pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
deavicky: beautiful small girl will you marry my brother? Lol...I'm not small o! Far from it infact |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Eleganza33(f): 4:06pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Bw cn he b ex did ur mum remari.of cox u lus respect 4 such fada,jus lyk me hensben: exactly my ex- father, he is very worst, I do challenge him now n he is very afraid to speak with me whenever we see cos he knows I will ignore him. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by SpcAgtOko: 4:11pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
House wife or not women shouldn't rely on the man alone to care for the kids financial needs. They should have money saved in a secure place and ability to find a job when needed. They shouldnt let themselves become so out of touch with working. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by dasparrow: 4:13pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Dbestmax: Dnt blame fathers..most women force d hands of their husbands and end up termin dem "iresponsible"wen dey are d architect of the family's misfortune How do you know this? Have you considered husbands who married their wives when they were not rich but as soon as they became wealthy, they began to carry girls up and down the place, spending money on mistresses while neglecting the needs of his wife and children. How is this the wife's fault? What of husbands who start off being good but then change the minute their wife starts birthing only female children? What of husbands who are serial cheats regardless of how good their wives are and abandon their responsibilities to their wives only? What of husbands who allowed their mothers wreck havoc in their marriages and they stopped providing for their children? Let's face it, Nigeria is filled with irresponsible fathers and that is why our society is getting messier and messier by the day. 6 Likes |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
:-O :-O :-O really? |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Teespice(f): 4:14pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
whatlyf: If Only Original Poster will Create a Thread Appreciating Fathers. Appreciate the ones who know their roles and play them accordingly. There are also fathers who perform their duties to a fault but are that irresponsible as well. |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
dasparrow: That is due to bad economy, bad leaders, bad pastors and a God who has long lost interest in us |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by Aitee1: 4:28pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Topics like this makes me |
Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by meme001: 4:30pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
hayoakins: Spreads mat to read the post...brb to comment meaningfullythat's not always true shaaaaa!!!! It's abt personality! 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)
The Pleasant And Awful Surprises Of Marriage / Nigeria Woman Delivers Quadruplets After Over 20 Years Of Waiting / 5 Signs Of A Childish Adult
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 82 |