fellis: Harem you mean. Fulaman doesn't want a harem. He said he's going to choose only one and most likely that will be RP and not fulagirl because fulagirl's family will flog him many lashes of the cane before he can marry her

Oh no! The battle has begun!

I think Fulaman can endure for love

Lol thanks for the correction! "Come collect your haram" would be awkward indeed

NA

RoyalPearl: Aww my King. Fulaman is one hot sexy bea and a gentleman too. What more could a girl want

My beautiful Hausa queen

fulanigirl: Oh my I am blushing

My beautiful Fulani queen

bigfrancis21:

Extending it. Heard fulani men are 'audaciously endowed'...even fulaman is my witness.

ROFL

Ishsoph: Oh the two ladies are adorable
See how they dignify Op with sweet endearing words of recognition.

Op where arth thou

I'm still here, a man has to work though to provide for one of his future wife lollllll

dellaziz: NA THUNDER GO FIRE WHO GO SAY MAKE I NO MARRY
NORTHERN CRISS CROSS BREED GIRL..(KANURI.
FULANI. .HAUSA. )
JUS A QUE... uhmmm is Ut possible to find a mixed
nothern girl I.e parents of different northern tribe WHO
IS A TRADITIONALIST
FULAMAN. . PAGAN NJA. or any body wey sabi make e
ans me

Yes, there are lots. Most are Hausanised though

MissMeiya: No, women don't enjoy thugs and disrespect. They adore gentlemen like Fulaman. Please check thyselves.

I don't know Shymexx might be correct about some countries like the U.S. when I schooled there, women seemed to like the guys that partied and drank.

Fulaman198 please don't attract that gutterboy's attention to me.

And please, I'm American too, you know. I certainly don't tolerate disrespect and vulgarity.

Rahmas: @fulaman, re you fulani by any chance? just asking

Nne, bia, is dat you? chai
#NoOffence

MissMeiya: Fulaman198 please don't attract that gutterboy's attention to me.

And please, I'm American too, you know. I certainly don't tolerate disrespect and vulgarity.

Oh my bad, I thought you were a Nigerian living in America.

Fulaman198:

Oh my bad, I thought you were a Nigerian living in America.

LOOOL. I'm both, I suppose. I was born a diasporan. I'm a product of the country that raised me.

MissMeiya:

LOOOL. I'm both, I suppose. I was born a diasporan. I'm a product of the country that raised me.

Oh ok I see, some Nigerian Americans I have met identify more with their Nigerian side, some more so with their American side.

Fulaman198:

Oh ok I see, some Nigerian Americans I have met identify more with their Nigerian side, some more so with their American side.

It depends on the setting. And how they were raised. In a group of Americans, I'm Nigerian-American. In a group of Nigerian-Americans, I'm Nigerian. In a group of Nigerians, my American-ness is too obvious for words.

I don't really have a choice. Denying the influence my country of birth has had on my values, ideals, and beliefs, would be rather foolish. And then, my family is very firmly rooted with our extended family at home. So denying my Nigerian heritage is equally impossible (and for me, distasteful). But as an individual, my mind is very American. It's just a fact.

MissMeiya:

It depends on the setting. And how they were raised. In a group of Americans, I'm Nigerian-American. In a group of Nigerian-Americans, I'm Nigerian. In a group of Nigerians, my American-ness is too obvious for words.

I don't really have a choice. Denying the influence my country of birth has had on my values, ideals, and beliefs, would be rather foolish. And then, my family is very firmly rooted with our extended family at home. So denying my Nigerian heritage is equally impossible (and for me, distasteful). But as an individual, my mind is very American. It's just a fact.

Oh ok understood

MissMeiya:

It depends on the setting. And how they were raised. In a group of Americans, I'm Nigerian-American. In a group of Nigerian-Americans, I'm Nigerian. In a group of Nigerians, my American-ness is too obvious for words.

I don't really have a choice. Denying the influence my country of birth has had on my values, ideals, and beliefs, would be rather foolish. And then, my family is very firmly rooted with our extended family at home. So denying my Nigerian heritage is equally impossible (and for me, distasteful). But as an individual, my mind is very American. It's just a fact.

Awww....

This made me sad

fellis:

Awww....

This made me sad

No, don't be sad! Lol

Which part and why? Let me cheer you up

MissMeiya:

No, don't be sad! Lol

Which part and why? Let me cheer you up

The part I put in bold. I was imagining that you probably feel left out a lot seeing as you always stick out.

fellis:

The part I put in bold. I was imagining that you probably feel left out a lot seeing as you always stick out.

Ohhh yeah

But it wasn't so bad

In this part of my life, I stick out among Nigerians. It's not fun lol. But it's not the end of the world.

Now be happy again!

La jachere est reelle

MissMeiya:

Ohhh yeah

But it wasn't so bad

In this part of my life, I stick out among Nigerians. It's not fun lol. But it's not the end of the world.

Now be happy again!

Good to know you're coping

Fulaman198:

Yes, there are lots. Most are Hausanised though

hmmmm... I once saw a site for hausas .. buh can't remember now... do u know any so at least I can have a clue if what the lifestyle and orientation entails I.e while making friends with them

thanks in advance

MissMeiya:

It depends on the setting. And how they were raised. In a group of Americans, I'm Nigerian-American. In a group of Nigerian-Americans, I'm Nigerian. In a group of Nigerians, my American-ness is too obvious for words

I don't feel "other" in a group of Americans, but you've summed it up beautifully. Swap the ethnicity, and it's similar to how I feel.

MissMeiya: No, women don't enjoy thugs and disrespect. They adore gentlemen like Fulaman. Please check thyselves.

Gentlemen are the best, but disrespect aside I don't think "bad guys" are all bad. They're a product of their environment and experiences. It's no excuse, but a cause nonetheless.

The allure? I's that they tend to be above average in intellect and looks, and on top of that they seem to possess a raw form of self-confidence. They're intense, intriguing, cocky, capable, dominant. You can tell they've been through more than most people, but after a while you realize it's all/mostly a facade, that they're merely hiding all their insecurities and troubling issues under a persona that developed as part of a coping mechanism.

Some woman are attracted to that "hard" protective exterior and want to "fix" the rest (not realizing the futility of the effort). They make for terrible partners, but surprisingly tend to be the most loyal of friends.

Now this is cute

EnlightenedSoul:

I don't feel "other" in a group of Americans, but you've summed it up beautifully. Swap the ethnicity, and it's similar to how I feel.

Hiii!! Lol

I thought you were Nigerian?

Yeah the group of Americans part only comes into play in certain situations, but I've always been able to relate more with other children of immigrants than generational Americans, and even other Nigerian-Americans. My friends in college were all other Africans (Eritrean, Ghanaian, Mauritius) and Asians (Korean, Chinese, Taiwanese, Vietnamese, and Indian) lol.

EnlightenedSoul: Now this is cute

Lolll I would add you to the list but you are taken

MissMeiya:

Hiii!! Lol

I thought you were Nigerian?

Yeah the group of Americans part only comes into play in certain situations, but I've always been able to relate more with other children of immigrants than generational Americans, and even other Nigerian-Americans. My friends in college were all other Africans (Eritrean, Ghanaian, Mauritius) and Asians (Korean, Chinese, Taiwanese, Vietnamese, and Indian) lol.

Hey

I also gravitated towards immigrant children in a sense, but seeing as I grew up in a state with with an extremely thick White population lol, I must've adapted to that as well. In fact, the only other minority on my block growing up was one of my best friends' family (Indian). Besides a few Horner families and some other family friends, I would see pretty much zero variety until I hit the main city for University. Anywho, I guess related to your piece a bit. Despite being more-or-less in touch [with my "culture"], every time I visited Djibouti I would feel way too American, and more than a little out of place at times. Still, I always enjoyed the visits.

I'm a minority here too lol. I'm Somali and a "diasporan" although whether 1st or 2nd generation I can't say (My mother was born in France same as I, whilst my father was born in Djibouti).

*Sorry to derail

Fulaman198:

Lolll I would add you to the list but you are taken

Fula, you're already off on the wrong foot by calling out 2 women at the same time. Tsk!
He's coming home soon

EnlightenedSoul:

Hey

I also gravitated towards immigrant children in a sense, but seeing as I grew up in a state with with an extremely thick White population lol, I must've adapted to that as well. In fact, the only other minority on my block growing up was one of my best friends' family (Indians). Besides a few Horner families and some family friends, I would see pretty much zero variety until I hit the main city for University. Anywho, I guess related to your piece a bit. Despite being more-or-less in touch [with my "culture"], every time I visited Djibouti I would feel way too American, and more than a little out of place at times. Still, I've always enjoyed the visits.

I'm a minority here too lol. I'm Somali and a "diasporan" although whether 1st or 2nd generation I can't say (My mother was born in France same as I, whilst my father was born in Djibouti).

*Sorry to derail

Cooooooool


Lol I don't think Fulaman198 minds

EnlightenedSoul: Now this is cute

Oh Really? Well what do I know

Fulanman198, coming late but goodluck anyway Lol..

EnlightenedSoul:

Fula, you're already off on the wrong foot by calling out 2 women at the same time. Tsk!
He's coming home soon

Excellent lol congratulations

Fulaman198:

Excellent lol congratulations

Why, thank you lol