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Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by beeevan: 11:32am On Aug 17, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Do I have be a militant not to lend mine to any as a BBM chat pal? |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by bukatyne(f): 11:35am On Aug 17, 2014 |
freshdude2: What is a man without ego? You think only men have egos? Or what has ego got to do with the issue? Even if a child realises he or she was named after a dead sibling, he will feel like a aecond fiddle |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by aljharem(m): 11:37am On Aug 17, 2014 |
beeevan: Regard for marriage ? I am shocked. Divorce is the next obvious option because the said wife disregarded the husband, marriage and even the child. It is not only emotional cheating but a sign of things to come. It speaks a lot of her mentality. Smh |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 11:43am On Aug 17, 2014 |
bukatyne:Made in response to some other post. Of course, all humans have egos but it's generally believed men are highly egoistic. A dead sibling is quite different to a less close relative. For example, naming a child after a dead grandfather, uncle, etc, hope you get my drift? I agree naming a child after a deceased sibling would be weird but then, there are those who have done that with their children. But we digress. 3 Likes |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by aljharem(m): 11:43am On Aug 17, 2014 |
F117A: I can't imagine such happening to me. My thoughts exactly . To be honest I will do the same and impregnate the other woman on our bed, chase the first wife to other room. I will frustrate her out of the marriage. If all fails, I will take it a step further by beating the lady to pulp every other night till she leaves. If that fails, I will name all our other kids after my exs and also make sure the kids know what their monkey mother did. Lol In case she no one gree leave me alone, then I go give up |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by beeevan: 11:45am On Aug 17, 2014 |
aljharem: Divorce doesn't make any sense here, she did something stupid, agreed but not enough for divorce. If divorce comes so easy, then he probably never loved the woman. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 11:50am On Aug 17, 2014 |
bukatyne: Noooooo this is my personal twist oo.. For cococandy stating that the middle name should be used, i now said what if the middle name of the child was also the middle name of the ex GOBE! beeevan: Do I have be a militant not to lend mine to any as a BBM chat pal? LOL.. No... but i believe relationships with exes or external parties should be one of mutual respect if it has to be maintained No nonsense chats etc.. freshdude2: Hmm, what an unfortunate situation. I'm sure the guy would be de-balled if he had done same. And these women love to scream 'double standards'. Massive emasculation... New Tip to emasculate ur man - Name your kids after your exes |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by aljharem(m): 11:52am On Aug 17, 2014 |
beeevan: Love ? He loves her yes but does she love him ? Love is different from respect. Her respecting her husband is her wife role. This has nothing to do with love because she does not love him Also I think he will be thinking of divorce . If I know how we men think. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by maclatunji: 11:57am On Aug 17, 2014 |
Idowuogbo: But...but, you are a woman too. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by F117A: 12:00pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
beeevan:You have no right to dictate on what grounds people should divorce. I've seen people get divorced over less significant issues in Nigeria. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by bukatyne(f): 12:00pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
pickabeau1: O Ok I still maintain that the boy's name is changed. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by bukatyne(f): 12:05pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
freshdude2: Made in response to some other post. Of course, all humans have egos but it's generally believed men are highly egoistic. Well that belief is wrong I get your drift. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 12:12pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
seems reasonable The issue is the wife feels its not an issue bukatyne: |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 12:12pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
bukatyne:You're trolling. Get thee behind me, woman |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by bukatyne(f): 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
pickabeau1: seems reasonable Since it is an issue to the husband, it has automatically become an issue to her. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by bukatyne(f): 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
freshdude2: You're trolling. Get thee behind me, woman LOL! |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 12:35pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
GBAM!!! bukatyne: |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Tvegas(m): 1:02pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Ex issues are just bad news for married people. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Abiagirl777(f): 1:06pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
sexybash: It's just. A name he should get over himself jor me too,though he's still living but he was extra good. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by shegxi(m): 1:22pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Abiagirl777:are u serious? so some ladies do dis for real!!! omo mhen, na to refuse any name wey wifey want be dat o 2 Likes |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by beeevan: 1:36pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
F117A: You have no right to dictate on what grounds people should divorce. Where did you see this dictation you mentioned and how those anyone 's marital status affect my sleep? |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by beeevan: 1:37pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
aljharem: All men can never think alike. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by beeevan: 1:39pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Thanks |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 1:48pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
beeevan: Cool 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:50pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
bukatyne:GBAMMEST! !!!!! Ori e pe mehn! U are highly mouthed I swear! Omo iya mi toh ni common sense |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by bukatyne(f): 1:54pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Idowuogbo: LOL! The wife nor try |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Feraz(m): 2:04pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Surprising seeing two ladies admitting to doing this here. If that's the case, then why cry victim should the husband change all of a sudden? pickabeau1: ...new twistCLASSIC!!! Don't you agree with Itachi about my signature? The husband has been living with the wrong assumption about how their first son's name came about. aljharem: Na wa oh Women of this generation and their fish brainIn as much as I read sarcasm, it hasn't gotten to the point of divorce. My main issue here is seeing how the wife doesn't see it as an issue. I mean, who won't (with the exception of some Nairaland ladies)? Nashville:Hehehe. Na so oh. But it's 'just' an ex so the husband should 'just' grow up! So Pickabeau1 is biolabee? I've always had my suspicions. On a side note, the boy will grow up wondering why his parents get temperamental whenever he is around thereby suffering for what he doesn't have a hand in. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 2:07pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Interesting some ladies here named their kid after ex.. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by baralatie(m): 2:12pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
hushmail: if na u nko? Na d woman suppose beg d hubby. Imagine naming a first son after a lover even a dead one. 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by baralatie(m): 2:19pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Hmmm...who is the grudger? the dead lover or the woman who is still in love with the dead! 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by merieam16(f): 2:38pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
flyingdutchman: WHEN A WOMAN WANTS TO TAKE HER FILTH, SHE WOULD ASK YOU TO BE 'MATURE' OR "BE A REAL MAN". I HAVE NEVER CUSSED ANYONE ON NL- ITS JUST A NAME RIGHT? HOW WOULD U FEEL IF UR HUSBAND NAMES YOUR DAUGHTER AFTER HIS EX? YOU ARE REALLY IGNORANT AND A DONKEY!lol...guess u nw a star 4 callin me "donkey" ape? |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Ngokafor(f): 3:10pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
...This story does not add up.. ...I honestly doubt the fact that a woman who lost a love to death would not disclose the name of the deceased ex to the new man in her life(at least once),even when the relationship has gotten serious enough for them to have gotten married...only for her 'poor husband' to magically discover the origin of the name of their child,long after the naming ceremony is over. ..sounds like a made-up story to me..@TV what an imagination you have got |
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