pickabeau1:

Na the hubby I dey imagine
All these our militant females will never tolerate their hubby even keeping exes on BBM not to find out their daughter is named after one ex like that

Osanobua!!!

No food and sex for one month

freshdude2: What is a man without ego?

What's she wearing?

beeevan:



If you have regards for marriage by any stretch of the imagination, you won't advise divorce just because of a dead ex, you simply change the name and wify serves her penance for being so dim.


Will you suggest divorce if a man was the offender?

bukatyne:

You think only men have egos?

Or what has ego got to do with the issue?

Even if a child realises he or she was named after a dead sibling, he will feel like a aecond fiddle

F117A: I can't imagine such happening to me.
I would just start making arrangement to get a second wife the moment i am through with carrying out a detailed DNA analysis of the child in question.
She can leave if she dosen't want a polygamous home.

aljharem:

Regard for marriage ? I am shocked. Divorce is the next obvious option because the said wife disregarded the husband, marriage and even the child. It is not only emotional cheating but a sign of things to come.

It speaks a lot of her mentality. Smh

bukatyne:

Are you serious?

Did the wife name the son alone or is the second name just a coincidence?

The son should be rededicated and renamed

beeevan: Do I have be a militant not to lend mine to any as a BBM chat pal?

freshdude2: Hmm, what an unfortunate situation. I'm sure the guy would be de-balled if he had done same. And these women love to scream 'double standards'.

beeevan:



Divorce doesn't make any sense here, she did something stupid, agreed but not enough for divorce. If divorce comes so easy, then he probably never loved the woman.

Idowuogbo:
The same fuckery women create. You turn them into monsters, then y'all sit there and claim victim.Worrapirri

beeevan:



Divorce doesn't make any sense here, she did something stupid, agreed but not enough for divorce. If divorce comes so easy, then he probably never loved the woman.

pickabeau1:

Noooooo this is my personal twist oo..
For cococandy stating that the middle name should be used, i now said what if the middle name of the child was also the middle name of the ex
GOBE!

freshdude2: Made in response to some other post. Of course, all humans have egos but it's generally believed men are highly egoistic.

A dead sibling is quite different to a less close relative. For example, naming a child after a dead grandfather, uncle, etc, hope you get my drift? I agree naming a child after a deceased sibling would be weird but then, there are those who have done that with their children. But we digress.

bukatyne:

O Ok

I still maintain that the boy's name is changed.

bukatyne:

Well that belief is wrong

pickabeau1: seems reasonable
The issue is the wife feels its not an issue

freshdude2: You're trolling. Get thee behind me, woman

bukatyne:

Since it is an issue to the husband, it has automatically become an issue to her.

sexybash: It's just. A name he should get over himself jor











Am guilty of dis 2

Abiagirl777:

F117A: You have no right to dictate on what grounds people should divorce.
I've seen people get divorced over less significant issues in Nigeria.

aljharem:

Love ? He loves her yes but does she love him ?

Love is different from respect. Her respecting her husband is her wife role. This has nothing to do with love because she does not love him

Also I think he will be thinking of divorce . If I know how we men think.

pickabeau1:



LOL.. No... but i believe relationships with exes or external parties should be one of mutual respect if it has to be maintained
No nonsense chats etc..

beeevan:



Thanks

bukatyne:

Are you serious?

Did the wife name the son alone or is the second name just a coincidence?

The son should be rededicated and renamed

Idowuogbo:
GBAMMEST! !!!!!

Ori e pe mehn! U are highly mouthed I swear! Omo iya mi toh ni common sense

pickabeau1: ...new twist

His middle name is the ex middle name also

aljharem: Na wa oh Women of this generation and their fish brain

To be honest, if I know how men think 3 things will come to mind

1. Divorce

2. Name the daughter after his own ex and impregnate another woman on their bed

3. Get a second wife.

I will advice the husband not to change the name but do one of the following

Nashville:

First name: Biolabee
Middle name: Pickabeau

Both na one and the same person. Even if you change the child's name to middle name, we are still talking the same ex!

hushmail: if na u nko? Na d woman suppose beg d hubby. Imagine naming a first son after a lover even a dead one.

EfemenaXY: Hmmm...

Holding a grudge against the dead? He'll never win...

flyingdutchman: WHEN A WOMAN WANTS TO TAKE HER FILTH, SHE WOULD ASK YOU TO BE 'MATURE' OR "BE A REAL MAN". I HAVE NEVER CUSSED ANYONE ON NL- ITS JUST A NAME RIGHT? HOW WOULD U FEEL IF UR HUSBAND NAMES YOUR DAUGHTER AFTER HIS EX? YOU ARE REALLY IGNORANT AND A DONKEY!