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Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Angeldemivida: 4:39pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
TV01: I like your mastery of words here dude. All those explanation of "flipping it up and turning it around" are not necessary to make your point yet you showed a good command of words. @Poster The one thing I also thought of after reading about the problem is for them to simply change the child's name if the husband can't stand his son answering the name of his wife's ex. An ex of mine called me up two months ago asking me to remind him of my middle name and telling me that he is naming his newly born daughter after me. I told him "your wife is not gonna like it" and he was like "My wife does not know your name". I hope this kind of problem does not rear its head one day for them. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by rotsey: 4:42pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
This one nawa oo, they don't do things like that |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by baybiemee: 5:01pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
This woman sabi find trouble sha. The name should be changed, if not the man will never get over it. And she should please get over the dead lover. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Feraz(m): 7:02pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
crackhaus: The hypocrisy by a lot of females on this thread is utterly suffocating. DamnBros, me sef tire for the hypocrisy being displayed here. Should issues arise, you'll hear/read comments like 'He's an immature hothead who isn't ripe to father a home!', 'divorce him!!!' 'What kind of a man is he?! Christ!!!', bla bla bla!!!! 'It is just a name!' |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 7:14pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
He's insecure He's not a 'real' man 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Feraz(m): 7:27pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
pickabeau1: He's insecureHow could I have missed this? Then you'll see lectures of how a real man is from A.... 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Acidosis(m): 7:39pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
The man should simply hire an artist to construct/paint a massive photo of his ex on the living room wall, in memory of the sweet relationship It's just a harmless photo! 5 Likes |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by honeric01(m): 7:40pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Emotional cheat. Who knows if the dead ex is even "sexually" visiting her in the dream sef I fear some women o.. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
honeric01: Emotional cheat.Godforbid! |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Acidosis: The man should simply hire an artist to construct/paint a massive photo of his ex on the living room wall, in memory of the sweet relationshipHuh going to the extreme just cos of a name? |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
They should better change that child's name ASAP. Which kin YEYE love. Except if the child is for the late boyfriend. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by freakcin: 7:51pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
. EfemenaXY: The tone of my message suggest nothing close to all youve been insinuating! Apparently not everyone who can construct an error free sentence knows how to comprehend! Nothing in my response implies violence, kindly look up the meaning of grouse and educate me. EfemenaXY: You ask if it is a crime. I never said it is, I only mentioned it would bring about cause for concern. You also would like to know if its a crime to have memories of an ex, pls go back to my post where I mentioned, I don't have a problem with that but I do have a problem with her naming my first son after her ex. Since you can't quote me without interjections completely unrelated to my post, I would like to say adios. 3 Likes |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Acidosis(m): 7:56pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
3cycle:over-reacting just cos of a portrait? 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by honeric01(m): 8:06pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
3cycle: God forbids wetin? as if this doesn't happen.. There is every possibility |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by kika23(f): 8:17pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
luvablesam:That's why you act like you don't see 'em |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by jabanz(m): 8:24pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
merieam16: Tell d guy 2 b matured its just a nameit is not just a name, it goes beyond that |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by luvablesam(m): 8:29pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
kika23: Some people tru their unhealthy comments corrupt people Knowingly. Its truly annoying though av learnt to ignore 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 8:34pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Very-very-very bad. Coming from a family woman If @all u wanto honour any1 by naming ur 1st son after him, it should be ur husband, not an ex, let alone a late ex. When it's not that the ex was responsible for the pregnancy... If am the guy, thankGod the boy hasn't written Common Entrance or WAEC bc na that day we go change the name. Damn... what was she thinking? |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by pickabeau1: 8:36pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
honeric01: Emotional cheat. ...incubus.... Reminds me of dru hill - sleeping in my bed When the son sleeps on the mums chest, her ex is literally sleeping in her bed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ixip0K2r10 |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by honeric01(m): 8:49pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
pickabeau1: |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
My "ex" died in a car accident we were in. He died, and I was left with a scratch and a bleeding heart (figurative). My s/o knows his name etc. If I tried something like that, he would so know. To those saying it's just a name, that's not necessarily true. At least not in most cases, we often name children for those we love. Still, it's been done. What's there to do now, but move on? I think changing the name now would be overkill, especially if the child is old enough to know his name. It's not that serious. I wondering why she told him all of the sudden? Some things are better left unsaid. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Acidosis(m): 9:09pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: My "ex" died in a car accident we were in. He died, and I was left with a scratch and a bleeding heart (figurative). My s/o knows his name etc. If I tried something like that, he would so know. Some things are better left un-done. 4 Likes |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Acidosis: Lol it's not that serious IMO |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Acidosis(m): 9:23pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul:hehe, |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by EfemenaXY: 9:41pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
freakcin: . Re: the bolded, I will not. Adios too. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by CodeineJunkiee(m): 9:55pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: Very-very-very bad. Sup.. Didn't c the mail o. Kindly resend again: olanrewaju_ameen@yahoo.ca |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Some forget to wear their thinking caps when going into marriage. I do not know right now if that woman is more stupid than insensitive. If I was the husband, I would change the name of that child with immediate effect! |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 9:58pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Tufiakwa! |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 10:17pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
TV01: Classic. This is the post of the year. The husband should not change the name. If the child is anything more than 5 years old, you don't want the child asking too many questions. Changing the name is irrelevant at this point in my opinion but I might be wrong. But seriously, that woman has a lot of explanations to make. How can you do that and expect your husband to be ok with it. Don't some of these women know that men have feelings too. Its like some women just don't get it that men have feelings. They do hurtful things to their husbands and when he reacts, they even call him immature. Things that they can never take. Good thing is that even most of the women here have also condemned her so this case is clear. The wife should just apologize and come up with a good story. 1 Like |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by ChiSun27(m): 10:58pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
merieam16: Tell d guy 2 b matured its just a name R u well? |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Nobody: 11:07pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
She's never going to forget that ex dead or not,every time she calls the child,she'll remember him. |
Re: First Son Named After Wife's First Love. by Kassidy90(m): 11:35pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
shooze: I find it strange that people expect the husband to just accept it. If tables were turned I would be really hurt. I can't imagine my husband naming my child after an ex dead or not. I would take it to mean that a part of him still yearns for what would have been and he is not totally happy in the marriageThe only one reasoning with brain.. |
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