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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Konjour(m): 2:19am On Aug 30, 2014
priscaoge:
Go back n read my post VERY well,understand it PERFECTLY before u quote me. Thanks

'If you tell me that its medically wrong...then I will agree'.

What that sentence means is that you believe its medically wrong to masturbate.

I believe you expressed what you thought cuz the sentence is clear enough to understand.

So I understand it perfectly and I'm asking you to please explain to us why you'd agree that 'it is

medically wrong to masturbate'. Cheers.
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by chiedu7: 2:19am On Aug 30, 2014
[quote author=2tex][/quote]

No vex una dey go christ embassy?

Na for christ embassy I dey hear say Self Service na root to enlightenment oh!
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by kulkris(m): 2:27am On Aug 30, 2014
Reading the previous posts,made me feel lyk crying......jst wonderin how God wil feel in heaven seeing His creation(whom He made 2 give him glory) utter dis kind of tins.......jst have two points: For those hu feel its nt a sin,let me ask....after masturbating,how do u feel? Can u stil walk up to God in prayas dat moment,dnt u feel depressed or heavy inside of u,does ur conscience(dats if it stil alive) not prick u?.....i bet u stay sumtym witout dis act,and u wil spot d difference....secondly,For those hu r aware of its sinful nature,its easy to stop..dey are 2 processes THE PHYSICAL PROCESS AND D SPIRITUAL ASPECT

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 2:29am On Aug 30, 2014
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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 2:35am On Aug 30, 2014
Jnrbayerno: Op,
Thank God for you... if you have conscience you dont need someone to tell you that something is right or wrong before God. For those of you saying that it is nature something is missing in you
I don't belief something is missing in them !

The metabolism in each human differs and some certain chemical reactions in your body are uncontrollable by you but you can only try ........

An impotent man is an impotent man despite his inner burning desire to have e:re:ction , lailai .... While a Nymph is a Nymph even despite the inner desire to stay normal .....


My own belief is whether we like it or not , S:ex:ual Hormones in human body could be as acute as the urge to urinate, excreate s:hit or eat food and you will rush to do this thing But you can't rush to have sex if you aint marry cuz it woulda been fornication/adultery

Then, what other best measure to release yourself of sex tension as an Unmarried man/woman if not Mastu:rbation abi we wanna pretend that sexu:al tension doesn't occur in umarried youths ?


What best measure to release urea tension in your body if not urination

what best measure to release yourself of excreta (sh:it) if not excreation ........


And when you feeling hungry/thirsty how do you quench such tension if not eating/drinking ....


Wanking is just addictive and that is the abnormalcy but within normal scope of releasing sexual tension from HumanBody, I would personally recommend Mastur:bation for unmarried man/woman over Adultery/Fornication

we should all stop pretending as if sexual hormone only occurs in married people !

Sex is not a mere feeling , it is a request by the body to release a chemical substance either through intercourse or mastu:rbation ...... You just have to choose one or else you shall even weakened your soul before GOD !!

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 2:36am On Aug 30, 2014
BadBoy25: masturbation not a sin. I see nothing wrong with relieving yourself when you feel Hot and your partner is not around . it's only human nature.
who are your favorite porn stars ? you are not going to know my favorite pornstars because it's underground, I like rough sex and B D S M videos ,tickle torture ,3somes . I also have a few clips of me on my laptop banging and humiliating some girls.

I've had like 6 girlfriends in the past 2 years alone due to the fact that i get bored easily. Luckily i haven't impregnated any girl .I hope to stop flirting and settle down when i'm around 30 . my sexual appetite is insatiable. i am a piece of shit , the worst human being in the world . please i beg you In the name of the lord ,just don't bring your girlfriend or fiance around me .
i'm praying for you. smiley

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 2:38am On Aug 30, 2014
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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by priscaoge(f): 2:39am On Aug 30, 2014
Konjour:

'If you tell me that its medically wrong...then I will agree'.

What that sentence means is that you believe its medically wrong to masturbate.

I believe you expressed what you thought cuz the sentence is clear enough to understand.

So I understand it perfectly and I'm asking you to please explain to us why you'd agree that 'it is

medically wrong to masturbate'. Cheers.
Y do u find it difficult to understand a simple english? That word "IF" isn't silent or is it? I didn't say "It's medically wrong" mind u. I used that medical statement as an example for those that are saying that it's against biblical believe. Maybe I need to spell it out 4 u. If someone is telling u that its medically wrong,he/she should have points to convince u without saying things that might bring a curse upon him/her,when issues about God n Bible is raised,do not be fast to say things that are not written in d bible or say that God said when He didn't say anything...

If u still don't understand my point then goodnight n stop quoting me.

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 2:40am On Aug 30, 2014
BadBoy25: Lol, you really believe my story?
It sounds most unlikely but not impossible.
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Konjour(m): 2:44am On Aug 30, 2014
kulkris: Reading the previous posts,made me feel lyk crying......jst wonderin how God wil feel in heaven seeing His creation(whom He made 2 give him glory) utter dis kind of tins.......jst have two points: For those hu feel its nt a sin,let me ask....after masturbating,how do u feel? Can u stil walk up to God in prayas dat moment,dnt u feel depressed or heavy inside of u,does ur conscience(dats if it stil alive) not prick u?.....i bet u stay sumtym witout dis act,and u wil spot d difference....secondly,For those hu r aware of its sinful nature,its easy to stop..dey are 2 processes THE PHYSICAL PROCESS AND D SPIRITUAL ASPECT

Your conscience is partly a derivative of your upbringing and your culture. If you've been brought

up in a society where its termed an immoral act to remain uncircumcised, you'll feel guilty

everytime you see your foreskin. If you grow up in a society where idol worship is the norm, you'll

feel normal when you bow down to a piece of wood and your conscience won't prick you a bit.

If you grew up in a society where its illegal to engage in any form of public display of affection,

you'll experience a culture shock when you settle in a country where its allowed, and you'd feel

'guilty' or morally wayward if your girlfriend or wife kisses you in public.

Your conscience is flexible, that's why a man can slaughter his fellow man on TV just to send a

message and still be able to sleep at night.

That you feel guilty about it has more to do with the kind of teachings you've been brought up

with. In Nigeria, some people still feel guilty to tell their husbands or wives 'I love you' cuz their

warped sense of judgement, and 'conscience' tells them its immoral.

Your conscience can indeed be modified or reconfigured to suit whatever purpose you want it

to serve. It can be trained to serve as a leash, and it can be trained towards making you a killing

machine.

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Konjour(m): 2:53am On Aug 30, 2014
priscaoge:
Y do u find it difficult to understand a simple english? That word "IF" isn't silent or is it? I didn't say "It's medically wrong" mind u. I used that medical statement as an example for those that are saying that it's against biblical believe. Maybe I need to spell it out 4 u. If someone is telling u that its medically wrong,he/she should have points to convince u without saying things that might bring a curse upon him/her,when issues about God n Bible is raised,do not be fast to say things that are not written in d bible or say that God said when He didn't say anything...

If u still don't understand my point then goodnight n stop quoting me.

You obviously have a limited grasp of the language you're typing in.

If you know that you're not nailed on and extremely sure of what is being said, you would have

probably used the word 'might'. 'I will agree' is different from 'I might agree'. Got it?

When I read the sentence, 'IF you tell me its medically wrong, then I WILL agree' I believed you had

come across something definitive that can buttress your point and I wanted to hear what you had

to say but its obvious you are not sure which is fair enough. On a public forum, people will

respond to your quotes accordingly and if you don't want to be quoted, its best you stop posting

what you can't explain comprehensively. Kapiche?

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by kulkris(m): 2:55am On Aug 30, 2014
NOW THE PHYSICAL ASPECT: Have u eva heard of dat saying that goes "AN IDLE MIND IS THE DEVILS WORKSHOP".......yea, this things are pratical! Have u eva wondered why that urge comes when u are alone and idle?.......the devil knows ur willpower to resist him is low at dat point.,..so i suggest when theres this urge ...LEAVE DAT ENVIRON AND MIX UP,SHOUT,PLAY A LOUD GOSPEL MUSIC,DO SUMTIN AND GET THE MIND BUSY......rememba the holy buk says "resist the devil and he wil flee 4rm u",seconly,d atmosphere u permit also matas i.e ur friends,d places u go,d site u visit....theres what we call ENVIRONMENT OF SIN,avoid anythn dat wil relish d spirit of God in u lyk visitin porn sites,going 4 indecent outings instead fil up wit the things of God and mayb ur academics......, rememba "WHATEVER U USE NEGATIVELY TO COMMIT SIN CAN ALSO B USED 4 THE GLORY OF GOD".....

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by priscaoge(f): 3:00am On Aug 30, 2014
Konjour:

You obviously have a limited grasp of the language you're typing in.

If you know that you're not nailed on and extremely sure of what is being said, you would have

probably used the word 'might'. 'I will agree' is different from 'I might agree'. Got it?

When I read the sentence, 'IF you tell me its medically wrong, then I WILL agree' I believed you had

come across something definitive that can buttress your point and I wanted to hear what you had

to say but its obvious you are not sure which is fair enough. On a public forum, people will

respond to your quotes accordingly and if you don't want to be quoted, its best you stop posting

what you can't explain comprehensively. Kapiche?
U sure do not have any point so goodnight!

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Konjour(m): 3:05am On Aug 30, 2014
priscaoge:
U sure do not have any point so goodnight!

Yea. Have a blissful night with all your elusive 'points' ma'am. cool
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by kulkris(m): 3:11am On Aug 30, 2014
NOW THE SPIRITUAL ASPECT: rememba d holy book says "we can do nothing without d spirit of God" buh pls dnt d 4get, same holy book says "FAITH WITHOUT WORK IS DEAD"(dats y u need d physical aspect of dis write up)....d spiritual aspect of dis cannot be complete witout lettin u knw,dat der r spirits behind dis tin.when u indulge in sexual imm. U pavade way 4 dis spirits into ur life(knwn as spiritual husbands and wives) and when dey cum,ah!dy ruin d life of person(lyk near success syd. and let me put also,they always lyk segregrating dier own ppl,dat is y u see sum ppl jst go 2 a place nd ppl jst hate and isolate them 4 no reason.....(topic 4 anoda day tho),and d op has mentiond d rest).let me conclude by adding"A PRAYERLES CHILD OF GOD IS A POWALESS CHILD OF GOD".....So go to Him in praya(let me add,mid nite praya does d magic),seek His face and ask him to transform u!!!!.....my hand ooo......

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Toks2008(m): 3:11am On Aug 30, 2014
kulkris: Reading the previous posts,made me feel lyk crying......jst wonderin how God wil feel in heaven seeing His creation(whom He made 2 give him glory) utter dis kind of tins.......jst have two points: For those hu feel its nt a sin,let me ask....after masturbating,how do u feel? Can u stil walk up to God in prayas dat moment,dnt u feel depressed or heavy inside of u,dīoes ur conscience(dats if it stil alive) not prick u?.....i bet u stay sumtym witout dis act,and u wil spot d difference....secondly,For those hu r aware of its sinful nature,its easy to stop..dey are 2 processes THE PHYSICAL PROCESS AND D SPIRITUAL ASPECT

My friend please go somewhere else with this hypocritical rethoric

We are all here to learn so please make a solid point or dont bother writing unfounded self sympathetic sermon.

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 3:17am On Aug 30, 2014
dsonofmaan: @op, you think you're delivered abi? I give you a few more months, you'll bow down and weep again...If you have a high libido, you have a libido; you can't pray yourself out of it. (nature can't be cheated).

you better go and marry and spare yourself the trouble.
I think the priscaoge , 2tex and co should strictly abide by this advice !!

How can one pray not to piss abeg ?

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by priscaoge(f): 3:20am On Aug 30, 2014
donroxy: I think the priscaoge , 2tex and co should strictly abide by this advice !!

How can one pray not to piss abeg ?
What advice and y mention my name?
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by iamord(m): 3:20am On Aug 30, 2014
Reading this post. I must say we have a failed Educational system, and a lot of us are being brought up wrongly, the System is even wrong and one sided, and parents are not even helping matters, a lot just know how to born and not raise a child,, exposing children to get advice and mentor ship from external influences, there is need for Serious sex education amongst youths, boys in particular, am not talking about the Dead type we received in Our school days but an interactive and fun one, am Even particular about the guys now cos we are getting a lot of Deformed men in the society, whereby they are always nervous when ever a lady is around, they are scared and lost of words whenever they around opposite sex , they develop this kind of kindergarten shyness, they have a feeling in them but due to indoctrination and poor and negative Exposure, they take it to be devilish , (am not saying all feelings are normal tho) and after been scared off with stories of People that engaged in sexual sins and paid dearly. , it there by increases their fear, a lot of them now turn into efiko or book worm as their only friend and an advent to escape this 'lust`... their own no pass from school to church, tru and fro.. That's the Order Of their life, nothing further, this influences their lifestyle, dress sense, sense of humor. Etc so when many of Them see that they don't Actually fit Into a particular society contrary to their Behavior they are consoled by the thought that they are not Of This world.. Etc , there are a. Whole lot of scenarios. Its so pathetic.. We need serious reforms!! And REAl education!!!

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 3:23am On Aug 30, 2014
nonxo007: the devil is really fighting hard to see that he drag billions to hell with him...look at all these comment of people in full support of sin...don't let the blood of Jesus be put to waste...it'l be really bad on the last day.
The blood of jesus is gonna be put to waste cuz people self-service ?

Holy and only God , damn , is Nigeria the only country you people think like this ? .... This is absurd statement now !!

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 3:24am On Aug 30, 2014
priscaoge:
What advice and y mention my name?
U saw the advice I quoted and I mentioned your name cuz it seems you are the one leading the crusade against masturbation here !
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by priscaoge(f): 3:27am On Aug 30, 2014
donroxy: U saw the advice I quoted and I mentioned your name cuz it seems you are the one leading the crusade against masturbation here !
Have u lost ur sight or u can't read properly? Be sure of what u say before inking my name pls. Quote d comment I posted here regarding ur claims!

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by BrainnewsNg(f): 3:28am On Aug 30, 2014
It is well. Repent for God's 2nd coming is near..
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Toks2008(m): 3:29am On Aug 30, 2014
kulkris: NOW THE SPIRITUAL ASPECT: rememba d holy book says "we can do nothing without d spirit of God" buh pls dnt d 4get, same holy book says "FAITH WITHOUT WORK IS DEAD"(dats y u need d physical aspect of dis write up)....d spiritual aspect of dis cannot be complete witout lettin u knw,dat der r spirits behind dis tin.when u indulge in sexual imm. U pavade way 4 dis spirits into ur life(knwn as spiritual husbands and wives) and when dey cum,ah!dy ruin d life of person(lyk near success syd. and let me put also,they always lyk segregrating dier own ppl,dat is y u see sum ppl jst go 2 a place nd ppl jst hate and isolate them 4 no reason.....(topic 4 anoda day tho),and d op has mentiond d rest).let me conclude by adding"A PRAYERLES CHILD OF GOD IS A POWALESS CHILD OF GOD".....So go to Him in praya(let me add,mid nite praya does d magic),seek His face and ask him to transform u!!!!.....my hand ooo......

You are still not making any intelligent point.

First you need to clearthe fact thats its a sin based on the scriptures before writing any historical,rethorical and ecclessiastical mumbo jumbo

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Toks2008(m): 3:38am On Aug 30, 2014
I have been a believer since i was 13 so no one should come here to write trash without biblical backings.

This is my view

Self servicing is a rather complex matter.

The Bible is totally silent about this matter but then I always ask; when you masturbate, what do you think about? This is where the complexity sets in.

I really don’t think a single man or woman wil be thinking about a football game or a tractor when self servicing but probably about someone who he or she is not really married to which makes it lusting which translates to sin..

Married people who self service thinking about their hubby or wives may really be practicing a sinless act but I believe it will be unwholesome to self service thinking about an illicit sexual act.

Nevertheless, this subject remains one with strong debate where some believe that as long as actual sexual intercourse is not involved, it is sinless and harmless but this is my take on the matter.

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Nobody: 3:57am On Aug 30, 2014
priscaoge:
Have u lost ur sight or u can't read properly? Be sure of what u say before inking my name pls. Quote d comment I posted here regarding ur claims!
Your mouth must be like that of Tortoise even early morning a girl throw first insult ? ....

priscaoge:
I read somewhere where he said its not a sin/its not a bad thing. Don't know if he actually said it but if its true then he's misleading some people
your conclusion regarding oyakhilome's alleged statement !

priscaoge: If u tell me that it's medically wrong then I will agree..,

about what d bible said about it? I don't know anything about that lest I bring curse upon myself. I see this topic almost every time here but haven't seen anyone with tangible n solid biblical proof to backup his/her claims.
Now, you don't know what the bible said regarding self service but could conclude Oyakhilome's alleged statement is ''misleading some people'' ...

Your statement regarding the medical aspect is not even well tailored the reason why the dude, kojour, picked it up !!

Stop fighting for who mentioned /quote your name , nothing special about it Nairalander , fight for well tailored english and effective communication

If you can't succintly addressed yourself any Nairalander can pick it up and give you more insight !
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by emmabest2000(m): 4:47am On Aug 30, 2014
jideomowunmi: I believe God just ministered to me thru u dis very minute...He speaks to us in ways we cannot even imagine....God will bless you..
You have to start from changing your profile pix lipsrsealed
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Mintayo(m): 4:49am On Aug 30, 2014
Dolemite:

If he truly loved me he would tell me himself, in person or am I not worth it. tongue
he has been telling you, but you are not just listening!
Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by emenezer(m): 5:08am On Aug 30, 2014
May God richly bless u for this.hasn't been easy for me trying to get over this, but i believe in the power of our Lord Jesus Christ.

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by Mintayo(m): 5:11am On Aug 30, 2014
priscaoge: If u tell me that it's medically wrong then I will agree..,about what d bible said about it? I don't know anything about that lest I bring curse upon myself. I see this topic almost every time here but haven't seen anyone with tangible n solid biblical proof to backup his/her claims.
Thats the devil's trap to lure people into sin,same way he tells some people that smoking is not in d Bible hence there is nothing wrong with smoking. But we have forgoting that mastur.bation is the lust of the flesh,its sexual immorality and an impure act and i am sure people know the stand of God against this three.
Again,the Bible says our body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which we must not be defiled,masturbation like any other sin and negative habit defiles the temple of God which is our body. People who masturbate think abt sex,watch porn or imagine lust while doing it,nobody can deny that. That alone is a sin!
May God help us.

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Re: The Fight Against Self-servicing, Lust And Sex.ual Immorality by goodgood2(m): 5:22am On Aug 30, 2014
badpeople: Hmmm Nigerians with pretence, well firstly, this ia wrong thread for this post, u shld have post Christian or religion related thread, but Daniel, u ve not discovered urself, u have talent, all u need is a relationship wit a lady dat doesnt pretend so both of u can enjoy urself to d fullest, dis is a nature and u can't cheat nature, and d ladies dat respond to dis issue on dis thread are not helping issue, instead of arranging how to bleep dis guy to d core so dat he can feel relief, they kip giving fake advice, all of u shld remember this is romance section, if u ar here, then u ar here
The guy did the right thing; he delivered his message in the right section of Nairaland. Romance section is made up of mostly fornicators and adulterous people. Do you take evangelism to churches? No! You take it to places with high rate of sinners, like brothels, night clubs...
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