goodgood2:
The guy did the right thing; he delivered his message in the right section of Nairaland. Romance section is made up of mostly fornicators and adulterous people. Do you take evangelism to churches? No! You take it to places with high rate of sinners, like brothels, night clubs...

esere826: ehmm OP
just in case u go back
console urself with this:

2 Corinthians 12: 7 or because of these surpassingly great revelations. Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. 8 Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. 9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong

Tundeiab: guy! Some places are no go areas o... I heard of a brother who went to preach to sex workers in a brothel. You want hear wetin happen? They seduced him and he had canal knowledge of them.

duni04:
I can imagine you saying this as a testimony in church

Dux01: it is because he was not BROKEN nor was filled with the the Holy Spirit.

Dolemite: I've been masterbating for ages and I am happy happy happy, life has been so good to me.

Dolemite:

If you know the history of this 'God' you speak of, you'll know it's just man made nonsense...

Konjour:

Your conscience is partly a derivative of your upbringing and your culture. If you've been brought

up in a society where its termed an immoral act to remain uncircumcised, you'll feel guilty

everytime you see your foreskin. If you grow up in a society where idol worship is the norm, you'll

feel normal when you bow down to a piece of wood and your conscience won't prick you a bit.

If you grew up in a society where its illegal to engage in any form of public display of affection,

you'll experience a culture shock when you settle in a country where its allowed, and you'd feel

'guilty' or morally wayward if your girlfriend or wife kisses you in public.

Your conscience is flexible, that's why a man can slaughter his fellow man on TV just to send a

message and still be able to sleep at night.

That you feel guilty about it has more to do with the kind of teachings you've been brought up

with. In Nigeria, some people still feel guilty to tell their husbands or wives 'I love you' cuz their

warped sense of judgement, and 'conscience' tells them its immoral.

Your conscience can indeed be modified or reconfigured to suit whatever purpose you want it

to serve. It can be trained to serve as a leash, and it can be trained towards making you a killing

machine.

Revrnd: Bother Daniel, thank God you are now delivered. for those who say u have to satisfy urself cos it's nature I pity u, read Romans 6v9. pls repent from ur evil ways all ye abusers of (themselves) mankind. get yourself a legitimate spouse and escape from the impending danger that is about to come on humanity. God is about to take His people home and those remaining here will have to face the Islamic state's torture and hell fire.

Toks2008: I have been a believer since i was 13 so no one should come here to write trash without biblical backings.

This is my view

Self servicing is a rather complex matter.

The Bible is totally silent about this matter but then I always ask; when you masturbate, what do you think about? This is where the complexity sets in.

I really don’t think a single man or woman wil be thinking about a football game or a tractor when self servicing but probably about someone who he or she is not really married to which makes it lusting which translates to sin..

Married people who self service thinking about their hubby or wives may really be practicing a sinless act but I believe it will be unwholesome to self service thinking about an illicit sexual act.

Nevertheless, this subject remains one with strong debate where some believe that as long as actual sexual intercourse is not involved, it is sinless and harmless but this is my take on the matter.

donroxy: Your mouth must be like that of Tortoise even early morning a girl throw first insult ? ....

your conclusion regarding oyakhilome's alleged statement !

Now, you don't know what the bible said regarding self service but could conclude Oyakhilome's alleged statement is ''misleading some people'' ...

Your statement regarding the medical aspect is not even well tailored the reason why the dude, kojour, picked it up !!

Stop fighting for who mentioned /quote your name , nothing special about it Nairalander , fight for well tailored english and effective communication

If you can't succintly addressed yourself any Nairalander can pick it up and give you more insight !

badpeople: Hmmm Nigerians with pretence, well firstly, this ia wrong thread for this post, u shld have post Christian or religion related thread, but Daniel, u ve not discovered urself, u have talent, all u need is a relationship wit a lady dat doesnt pretend so both of u can enjoy urself to d fullest, dis is a nature and u can't cheat nature, and d ladies dat respond to dis issue on dis thread are not helping issue, instead of arranging how to bleep dis guy to d core so dat he can feel relief, they kip giving fake advice, all of u shld remember this is romance section, if u ar here, then u ar here

Mintayo:
Thats the devil's trap to lure people into sin,same way he tells some people that smoking is not in d Bible hence there is nothing wrong with smoking. But we have forgoting that mastur.bation is the lust of the flesh,its sexual immorality and an impure act and i am sure people know the stand of God against this three.
Again,the Bible says our body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which we must not be defiled,masturbation like any other sin and negative habit defiles the temple of God which is our body. People who masturbate think abt sex,watch porn or imagine lust while doing it,nobody can deny that. That alone is a sin!
May God help us.

arthurflex: It can only stop when there is no more urge for Sex

Danrizzle: Abeg let him recover fully joor. Whats in this sex thing sef, can't lie though, but op you weren't the only that suffered. Op If the urge comes back again, do cut your peenis and be done with it.

Dux01: my contribution to the fight is to stop watching movies especially Hollywood and bollywood.and if you are watching television and you see a beautiful woman please remove your eyes immediately until the woman is removed.or even in the street you are walking.sounds strict but know that you are co operating with God when u do this.and again.if we really want victory we would stop listening to or watching videos of worldly songs.let us be seperated from the world first and God will no longer see us as enemies. anymore

virginboy1: At 25,I have never bleeped. I have kissed only once , i dont masturbate...
But, as it is, am in a konlomental stage...the urge is way too much for my flesh to handle...
My spiritual bros prescribed prayers,fasting,drinking of pap etc. For where!!! The stubborn libido is still coming.
May God help me

Mintayo:
Thats the devil's trap to lure people into sin,same way he tells some people that smoking is not in d Bible hence there is nothing wrong with smoking. But we have forgoting that mastur.bation is the lust of the flesh,its sexual immorality and an impure act and i am sure people know the stand of God against this three.
Again,the Bible says our body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which we must not be defiled,masturbation like any other sin and negative habit defiles the temple of God which is our body. People who masturbate think abt sex,watch porn or imagine lust while doing it,nobody can deny that. That alone is a sin!
May God help us.

Tundeiab: I attended MFM for 6 years so I know all about brokenness. A spirit filled pastor in MFM fell from grace back then when a satanic agent came to his office asking the pastor to pray for her. She pretended to have fallen under the anointing and she opened her lap. Lo and behold she was pantless.
[size=18pt]She shot evil arrows through her vj[/size] and the pastor committed sin with her.
The only sin the bible says we should flee from is sexual sin bro! No dey form saint in front of seductive lady o. I take God beg you...Biko!

MissMeiya: Something is wrong with Nigeria. This is not normal.

badpeople: Hmmm Nigerians with pretence, well firstly, this ia wrong thread for this post, u shld have post Christian or religion related thread, but Daniel, u ve not discovered urself, u have talent, all u need is a relationship wit a lady dat doesnt pretend so both of u can enjoy urself to d fullest, dis is a nature and u can't cheat nature, and d ladies dat respond to dis issue on dis thread are not helping issue, instead of arranging how to bleep dis guy to d core so dat he can feel relief, they kip giving fake advice, all of u shld remember this is romance section, if u ar here, then u ar here

jideomowunmi: I believe God just ministered to me thru u dis very minute...He speaks to us in ways we cannot even imagine....God will bless you..