such girls are freaking pale they dont have a true reason.

Lovexme:


You mustn't 'change' yourself just to suit someone's needs. Love is not selfish.

Only change if it's a bad representation of yourself.

So you think being timid,boring & having inferiority complex is a good representation of yourself ko? The problem with Ppl is simply because they are not man enough to face the issues Dy have.

I used to think like you now do about being "myself"& always found myself making enemies...I even backed it up with scriptures that said "mymy praise is from God & not from man"....when I found out I was just reading one side of the scripture that's when I woke up to reality...

Now I'm living a better life...changing for the better is not to please anybody but yourself & when you're pleased with yourself...Ppl will be pleased with you.

Most Ppl can't be in a relationship with another person that has dr type of personality & dy expect someone else to like dem for who dey are...dats plain selfish.

The lesson here is to become a better person...and you'll see Ppl automatically like I.k...and for those who insist on hating you..you will not be pertubed Cos you're not doing it for them but yourself...let your life be beautiful and Ppl will appreciate you

Even the Bible simply puts it ds way in Matt. 5:13 that if you don't know and appreciate your worth...you'll be trampled on..I'm sure you now understand what I mean?

Sit down to have a real discussion & meditation with yourself...you'll see where you're going wrong and when you make those changes internally..even you can't hide the manifestation externally....cheers!

#5,
girls dont like nice guys,
are u nw saying i must be a bat guy for a girl to like me?

dere is God o!

100

Sophyrocks:
The only point i have a problem with in the Op is Number 5. Please please please, ladies should endeavor to stop confusing the preferences of others with that of theirs. Who told you Nice guys are boring, are not self confident and all the other bad qualifications you have given them? This is a way of saying what is bad is good and what is good is bad. You cannot associate a good word as "Nice" with something bad. There are many guys who are nice and confident and not boring as well. If you see a guy who is boring, dnt call him Nice. Just say he is boring. simple. if he doesnt have swag or good dress sense, just say so. dnt call him nice. if he has body/mouth odour, stick to that. If you are not physically attracted to him at all, say it. Even a cheat and an abusive guy can form Nice guy for you in the begining to trap you before he unleashes his inner "demons". Anybody can be Nice. Focus on the issues that dnt seem to attract you at all. Thats all. Its pure fallacy that Nice guys are geeks, boring, have no swag and bla bla bla. Too many guys out there have a mixture of qualities so you cannot paint every Nice guy with the same brush.

And by the way, ladies, you will be making a huge mistake sending the wrong signals/messages to guys out there with the ridiculous fallacious statement "Girls dnt like Nice guys". I pity you all who stand by that statement. If you dnt get a good husband, blame no one but yourself. I'm a lady but i gotta say the truth. Ladies, you have used your mouth to drive nice guys away but you keep talking about getting a God fearing man. You are not encouraging men to be Nice in the actual sense of the word and you are not encouraging them to be responsible with this fallacious statement. You will get what you think you deserve. Stop being confused beings. Its disgusting!! Stick to what doesnt appeal to you in a guy. Leave the word "Nice" out of it.

Wahever....

drlawizle:


So you think being timid,boring & having inferiority complex is a good representation of yourself ko? The problem with Ppl is simply because they are not man enough to face the issues Dy have.

I used to think like you now do about being "myself"& always found myself making enemies...I even backed it up with scriptures that said "mymy praise is from God & not from man"....when I found out I was just reading one side of the scripture that's when I woke up to reality...

Now I'm living a better life...changing for the better is not to please anybody but yourself & when you're pleased with yourself...Ppl will be pleased with you.

Most Ppl can't be in a relationship with another person that has dr type of personality & dy expect someone else to like dem for who dey are...dats plain selfish.

The lesson here is to become a better person...and you'll see Ppl automatically like I.k...and for those who insist on hating you..you will not be pertubed Cos you're not doing it for them but yourself...let your life be beautiful and Ppl will appreciate you

Even the Bible simply puts it ds way in Matt. 5:13 that if you don't know and appreciate your worth...you'll be trampled on..I'm sure you now understand what I mean?

Sit down to have a real discussion & meditation with yourself...you'll see where you're going wrong and when you make those changes internally..even you can't hide the manifestation externally....cheers!

You basically said the same thing I said, just a tad longer lol.

I understand your stand though, and I'd rather people change just so they can be better than they were, than for someone's approval.

Thanks for the 'insight'. Cheers!

Lovexme:


You basically said the same thing I said, just a tad longer lol.

I understand your stand though, and I'd rather people change just so they can be better than they were, than for someone's approval.

Thanks for the 'insight'. Cheers!

I'm happy you've learnt something.

Sophyrocks:
The only point i have a problem with in the Op is Number 5. Please please please, ladies should endeavor to stop confusing the preferences of others with that of theirs. Who told you Nice guys are boring, are not self confident and all the other bad qualifications you have given them? This is a way of saying what is bad is good and what is good is bad. You cannot associate a good word as "Nice" with something bad. There are many guys who are nice and confident and not boring as well. If you see a guy who is boring, dnt call him Nice. Just say he is boring. simple. if he doesnt have swag or good dress sense, just say so. dnt call him nice. if he has body/mouth odour, stick to that. If you are not physically attracted to him at all, say it. Even a cheat and an abusive guy can form Nice guy for you in the begining to trap you before he unleashes his inner "demons". Anybody can be Nice. Focus on the issues that dnt seem to attract you at all. Thats all. Its pure fallacy that Nice guys are geeks, boring, have no swag and bla bla bla. Too many guys out there have a mixture of qualities so you cannot paint every Nice guy with the same brush.

And by the way, ladies, you will be making a huge mistake sending the wrong signals/messages to guys out there with the ridiculous fallacious statement "Girls dnt like Nice guys". I pity you all who stand by that statement. If you dnt get a good husband, blame no one but yourself. I'm a lady but i gotta say the truth. Ladies, you have used your mouth to drive nice guys away but you keep talking about getting a God fearing man. You are not encouraging men to be Nice in the actual sense of the word and you are not encouraging them to be responsible with this fallacious statement. You will get what you think you deserve. Stop being confused beings. Its disgusting!! Stick to what doesnt appeal to you in a guy. Leave the word "Nice" out of it.

I would french-kiss you if I could....your words just said it all....and you are really beautiful that I wouldn't mind being in your "friendzone" like they say..#winks......#peace

AriDsexy:
I stand by the being hurt point,when a girl has been hurt once or twice,its difficult for her to embrace every guy dt comes her way.

And some guys will really never learn,if u don't like being friendzoned,then don't remain in such friendship,its very easy.

only a foooolish,nonsense,worthless,weak,dumb guys can be friendzoned,as for me?dem never born that kind of girl....YET.

Slaya:
am currently in a friendzone nd i mist confess it feels great
u all shud try somedae am sure u gonna love it

smh

Youngpo413:
only a foooolish,nonsense,worthless,weak,dumb guys can be friendzoned,as for me?dem never born that kind of girl....YET.

Dude,relax please.Do as u have said and nobody will raise an eye brow.

AriDsexy:


Dude,relax please.Do as u have said and nobody will raise an eye brow.

Alright

@Op, its very true dat all women ve a right of choice 2 any man de so chose 2 be wit just as d men folks do.. But d question is: ''why wud a woman Friendzone a man & afterwards need him in a committe/marital relationship afta she must ve finished messing up herself wit oda men?

Tink guys re fools?