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Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
Yes, yes, the all-too familiar topic... For the few majority who have no idea what 'Friend-zoning' implies, let me paint you a picture: Boy meets Girl, Boy Likes Girl, Boy Asks Girl Out, Girl says: "I'm sorry, but we can ONLY be friends". Boy whines about being 'Friendzoned'. Typical eh? Here are 5 reasons why men should suck it up and quit whining: 1. She Has a Type And You're Not it. Yes. You may be the most caring person you've ever known-nice, sweet and gentle(good for you!), however the fact remains that the heart wants what the heart wants. I see guys complain about this but have you ever really stopped to wonder what the girl in question is interested in..... 2. She can't control Her Feelings. This goes without saying. Don't trivialize her feelings by claiming you've been friendzoned. Don't expect her to hook up with you because you talk to her on Facebook late at night. Don't expect her to feel the same way you do just because you've been nice to her. That's prossstitution and that makes you a douche. 3. She's Been Hurt too. Only guys sit down and make up a name of something that is actually...pretty normal. I've been hurt as well, i've liked people who didn't feel the same way. So? Would i sit and lick my wounds or move on? The same applies to the so-called 'Nice Guys' out there. Be a man about it and move on. 4. The Friendzone is an Excuse. It's an excuse for when a guy likes a girl but the girl doesn't like him right back. It's a sense of entitlement. It's the idea that just because a guy gives a girl his time or affection, she's in the wrong for not giving him sexual or romantic favors back. It's a defense mechanism, a way for the guy to make the girl seem coldhearted or callous or dumb for simply acting on her feelings, or rather lack of feelings. 5. Because No Girl Just Wants A 'Nice Guy.' You need to be more than an innocent little boy. You need to be a smart, witty, funny, charming and confident man. Girls don't like 'nice guys' or 'douchebags', they like guys who are real, just like guys like girls who are real. If you think a girl owes you something simply because you're a 'nice guy', then you have a warped sense of entitlement with the females, man. The friendzone is the ineffectual tool of an ineffectual male. Stop using it as an excuse. There's a girl out there for you but you can't expect it to be me and blame me when it isn't, Capish? 61 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by valdes00(m): 2:44pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
Ok ma..... We don hear 2 Likes |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Lovexme(m): 2:46pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
Guys, just be yourselves, and what will be will be. 6 Likes |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 3:09pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
this is very true! 1 Like |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by mikeomo11(m): 6:17pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by sexylogan(m): 6:23pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
MzNelly: I agree with you. But then she shouldnt be jealous and complain when the guy she friendzoned finds love elsewhere. "Had I known" shall then be her portion. 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Mprex(f): 6:51pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
This friendzone of a thing is annoying. If a girl doesnt wanna go out with you, why not man up and let her go They will seat around crying foul and screaming friendzoned. Lobbish! 5 Likes |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Oahray: 7:10pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Exactly! If you want a romantic relationship with a girl and she wants just platonic friendship (with full benefits or not), take a walk and be remain acquaintances. I wish I could knock it into the heads of my fellow guys. If you sit pining away for her affection you'd never get, you aren't well upstairs. @op, I think number 4 is very unsound. A girl who knows that a guy's attention and gifts are geared towards starting a relationship, and accepts them without the intention of obliging him, is a greedy con-artist without any self respect. If you aren't prepared to sell your house, would you accept payment from interested parties? Let your No mean No. #ThisThreadOldSha 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 7:22pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
mikeomo11:I replied, but i'm not quite sure it went through. Hm. Confirm this. |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 7:24pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Mprex:LOL, seconded. |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by danielz777(m): 7:28pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by mikeomo11(m): 7:33pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Mynd44: 8:53pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Blood of Zeus. The number 5 is hilariously silly. I hope the OP does not have that mentality oooo. Na from there you go marry cheat, abuser and claim he did not show the signs 12 Likes |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Chiscomax(m): 9:07pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Singing 'friendzone' by Erigga... . Fine girl, gimme tha Bum Bum Pow... No put me for friendzone, sherekoko gimme tha bum bum pow, no put me for friendzone... Me wan chow, me wan Bleep... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 10:07pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Mynd44:Of course. You're a dude. Defend it zealously. |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by IamLEGEND1: 11:16pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
. so diz made front page ? in return guys should return d favour by pushing any ugly who is an acquaintance into the new zone ...limbo zone 1 Like |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by lilmax(m): 11:54pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Guys will continue to treat girls badly until that number 5 mentality is out of their heads 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Mynd44: 3:27am On Dec 01, 2014 |
MzNelly:And your pride is making you blind to my point. 8 Likes |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by paulworld(m): 4:23am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Abeg guy no dey friend zone girls ne |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 5:07am On Dec 01, 2014 |
FP please |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Mynd44: 5:14am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Mondisweets:Go to bed 1 Like |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 5:15am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Mynd44:for what again? |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 5:51am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Mynd44:There's no pride in this. We have different opinions; and that's fine by me. 1 Like |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by walearoy(m): 5:54am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Friendzoned - Bleeping = Complains Friendzoned + Bleeping = No Complains Have a friend who friend zoned me but i fall under category 2, I'm fine being friend zoned. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 5:57am On Dec 01, 2014 |
walearoy:Err....you mean "Friends With Benefits"? That's quite different. 2 Likes |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by walearoy(m): 6:00am On Dec 01, 2014 |
MzNelly: Is dat wat its called? I sha know I'm happy with it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Nobody: 6:02am On Dec 01, 2014 |
walearoy:Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Odunharry(m): 8:14am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Oahray:nice.. |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by UjSizzle(f): 9:04am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Ishilove oo. This is fp material |
Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Lordseyad(m): 6:28pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
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Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Fabdedon(m): 6:28pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
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Re: Five Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friendzoned by Ezyp(m): 6:29pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Just imagine.....did seun sell nairaland? 3 Likes |
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