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Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by free2ryhme: 8:20am On Sep 11, 2014 |
jennylove7575: jennylove7575: For my first alhaji......money box See your life? Na so una go dey form levels wey u no get . Only u lie expose your foolishness for the entire NL 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by jennylove7575(f): 9:03am On Sep 11, 2014 |
free2ryhme:you woke up this morning and the first thing you did is to throw insult at me....you must be very stupidd and madd. You and your entire family is foolish....if u dont agree with my comment do not throw insults at me...waka pass....don't ever try it again. I have never insulted you before.I have taken note of you now...free2rhyme. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by rhymz(m): 10:18am On Sep 11, 2014 |
pickabeau1:Of course, who does not want a submissive wife. Many of you seem to think that submissiveness means you are going to be a maid or slave to your husband.... little wonder ladies with such mentality stay in constant competition with their husband for authority in the house and still complain about depression and not being happy in their marriage. No woman will be happy in a marriage in which she is in constant power competition with her spouse. He married you to help him build a home, assist him not compete with him. You can never win in such a competition, trust me. You will only end up depressed and unhappy. It is for this reason that ladies with such feminist mindset find marriage too hot and leave it before it even start, only to end up lonely and angry to the point of starting up a feminist movement and even try to convince innocent ladies going through relationship hiccups that they don't need a man to be this and that....yes, that is absolutely true but it does not make it a great idea, YES. What is the whole essence of being all powerful independent, strong and LONELY inside This applies even to the single male folks, let's tell ourselves the truth, human beings are not wired to be stable islands emotionally. That is why we are in constant need to be in circles of friends, family and even strangers. We are all emotional beings after all, no matter wet in u wan claim. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by hotwax: 11:29am On Sep 11, 2014 |
rhymz: Of course, who does not want a submissive wife. Many of you seem to think that submissiveness means you are going to be a maid or slave to your husband.... little wonder ladies with such mentality stay in constant competition with their husband for authority in the house and still complain about depression and not being happy in their marriage. No woman will be happy in a marriage in which she is in constant power competition with her spouse. He married you to help him build a home, assist him not compete with him. You can never win in such a competition, trust me. You will only end up depressed and unhappy. Gbam |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by pickabeau1: 11:58am On Sep 11, 2014 |
rhymz: Of course, who does not want a submissive wife. Many of you seem to think that submissiveness means you are going to be a maid or slave to your husband.... little wonder ladies with such mentality stay in constant competition with their husband for authority in the house and still complain about depression and not being happy in their marriage. No woman will be happy in a marriage in which she is in constant power competition with her spouse. He married you to help him build a home, assist him not compete with him. You can never win in such a competition, trust me. You will only end up depressed and unhappy. Correct.. I would like to hear MzColi's opinion on this your post |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 12:15pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Always on point MizMyColi! The above it is for me. For anyone that think being single is a pitiable status then I pity your line of reasoning which ultimately defines you Like has always been my stance, I intend to remain single until I realize my self set goals(at least the ones within my power to , as long as there is life). I've had to face the pressure of even accepting to be a betroth to someone and go on with pursuing my goal just to make sure I don't turn out to be forever single and unhappy. Lolz Need I say I'd turned down such offer cos I know it won't end there. Truth is I dont want to be distracted neither do I want to feel like I don't own myself cos it has a way of impeding self confidence and freedom. In a nutshell girls, it is entirely yours to determine whether you need men to be happy or not. Advise to ladies: Work at being a force to reckon with by being the best in whatever you do. I tell you your dream man will eventually come crashing on your feet. Even if he didn't come, the society will respect you cos of what you'd turned out to be irrespective of your single status. There is no proven theory that all married ladies lead the most fulfilled life! 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 12:26pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
rhymz: Of course, who does not want a submissive wife. Many of you seem to think that submissiveness means you are going to be a maid or slave to your husband.... little wonder ladies with such mentality stay in constant competition with their husband for authority in the house and still complain about depression and not being happy in their marriage. No woman will be happy in a marriage in which she is in constant power competition with her spouse. He married you to help him build a home, assist him not compete with him. You can never win in such a competition, trust me. You will only end up depressed and unhappy. I agree with all you wrote cos am a believer in the sanctity of marriage My argument is in the area of feeling incomplete just because you are not married as a lady Much respect sir! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by anonimi: 12:28pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
I think living with anyone is a matter of compromise for which a conscious effort must be made. Not many can do that hence the resulting single status that may endure. At some point it may be better for the single male or female to seriously consider adopting a child that s/he can cater for as his/her own to improve on the capacity for compromise, which is a necessary pre-requisite for any lasting relationship. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 12:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
@rhymz: it is so annoying,his first statement was i should go and get married, i disappointed him by saying i am married,then he wants to know if I'm happy in it. I wonder what joy it gives to them when they hear about failed marriages....i really do wonder. Then you will hear shiii like,i rather remain single than be in a loveless marriage, are all marriages loveless why don't they ever look at the bright side,that's what i am yet to understand... 2 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by hotwax: 12:38pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: @rhymz: it is so annoying,his first statement was i should go and get married, i disappointed him by saying i am married,then he wants to know if I'm happy in it. I wonder what joy it gives to them when they hear about failed marriages....i really do wonder. Let me go dirty. Their case is like. One wey hin own don spoil, we pray others should fail. They are hopeless and will always want others to be like them. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 12:43pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
IrishKez: 100000+ likes 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by mukhcech(m): 12:46pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: @rhymz: it is so annoying,his first statement was i should go and get married, i disappointed him by saying i am married,then he wants to know if I'm happy in it. I wonder what joy it gives to them when they hear about failed marriages....i really do wonder. I am with you on this. If only the positives are our set goals and objectives. There wont be need to stress the topic of Marriage. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by okudah(m): 2:11pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
To me why a beautiful lady is still single is probably she has not seen her choice as i believe that its better for every one to leave with his/her choice in other to make a happy home 2 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by free2ryhme: 3:01pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
jennylove7575: you woke up this morning and the first thing you did is to throw insult at me....you must be very stupidd and madd. You and your entire family is foolish....if u dont agree with my comment do not throw insults at me...waka pass....don't ever try it again. I have never insulted you before.I have taken note of you now...free2rhyme. Naija girls sha! So dis one dey look for God fearing man even with all dis lines I dey sure say God sef dey fear you |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by rhymz(m): 3:08pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
And my argument is that it is a human thing to feel left behind and should not be viewed any other way. That some other person choose to feign it and act like they are not bothered does not necessarily mean that the emotionally expressive woman should do the same. And trust me, this also goes for the male folks as well. Any man that is able and capable but is not able to keep a woman is not seen any differently his female counter part, except that he has the luxury of age which a woman does not. It is very normal for one to feel pressured if all you do every saturday is attend friends' and family members' wedding alone with no prospects of inviting people to your own. IrishKez: |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by DrGill(m): 3:51pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: He married your sister wat a pity... u re just being blindfolded by religious Ignorance...mtchweee |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by onoshenry(m): 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
If things are allowed to work out fine from this stage, Pastor Chris and his wife might just be back in each other's embrace. It is possible, keep your fingers crossed and pray for them. Indications have emerged that reconciliation moves are on course between the Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his wife Rev. Anita, who have been in the news in the past week over the divorce proceedings the latter filed in a court in the UK. - See more at: http://naija-gist..com/2014/09/pastor-chris-oyakhilome-gets-6-weeks-to.html#sthash.1K2LXE0N.dpuf |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Misogynist2014(m): 11:00pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
DrGill:What is most captivating about you write up is the tone of pity.You tag me as being ignorant because I reject being a randomly made being.That I am not as free as you are e.g. If you are about calling a pastor a dog,something in your mind tells you it's wrong but since you are free to do as you like once you don't break the constitution of the land,you laugh and boldly write what you wish.That is what you tag pity and blindfolded. In order to show you I'm not the type that quotes bible to tell prove God's existence,answer every question I ask now: Chris Angels has always made mockery of science,not that those scientific laws are not valid but it's not valid beyond physical realm.Isn't it?But it is true that magicians were known to be good physicists,with good knowledge of natural laws and science in general and were known to be physicians in the early days,before they were wiped out by Catholic church due to their evil ways.Isn't it?Do you know about the story of Moses' snake which swallowed the snakes of the magicians and the Quran(which differs with Bible majorly on Jesus and Isaac) further said the magicians confessed that truely,truely this is God. With this I tell you that science(physical)cannot define the spiritual but only Spiritual(God) can define physical.And there are many gods but 1 God. Just answer this question:Is science safe enough to tell us how our world came into existence without involving spiritual realm(given the certainty that science does not always tally with e.g. Magic(spiritual) and Magicians(spiritual) are always good at natural laws and science,proving that science can be brought out of spiritual realm and not the other way round ) and why? Don't ask me any question until you've answered this.If you may like to have one more question,how can a random world(big bang) produce Magicians and people like Ilan Smith,who saw the future and told us who won the world cup,the man who scored and the time he scored.I HOPE YOU'LL ANSWER THIS QUESTIONS,IT IS UNTIL WHEN YOU ANSWER THAT I WILL KNOW WHO IS TRUELY IGNORANT. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Misogynist2014(m): 11:16pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
DrGill:pardon my errors |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by DrGill(m): 6:06am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: What is most captivating about you write up is the tone of pity.You tag me as being ignorant because I reject being a randomly made being.That I am not as free as you are e.g. If you are about calling a pastor a dog,something in your mind tells you it's wrong but since you are free to do as you like once you don't break the constitution of the land,you laugh and boldly write what you wish.That is what you tag pity and blindfolded. U re askin questions DAT ain't related to my comment....I only said u re being blindfolded by religious ignorance... datz all hw does d questions u pasted relate? |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Misogynist2014(m): 9:37am On Sep 12, 2014 |
DrGill:Religion stems from the belief in a spiritual being.Isn't it?Big bang and science stems from natural laws and theory.Isn't it?Then my question to you as an atheist is:If magic can defy natural laws e.g. Chris Angels has defied a lot of natural laws.Is it still right to use science when we are explaining how our world came into existence ? If so,could you please explain with the aid of science,how magicians and future seers came into existence?Scientists say they no only 4% of our universe(though I know it's much smaller),yet many want us to discard the remainder,just to support a 'make up' theory(not yet proven to satisfaction) which I know is a patched work. You said Jesus had a wife.Didn't you?Prove it to me.Tell me how a man could have a wife and children,and all this details get hidden,even from the general public that saw them everyday :O ,only for a scrap(which has been proved to be forged)to come out to say he had a wife. Like I said in my former post, atheists use their ideas to justify whatever they do,since they belief they are accountable to no one. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by LORETA: 1:12pm On Sep 12, 2014 |
@ jenneylove...you talking about someone insulting you..just look at your language............................you woke up this morning and the first thing you did is to throw insult at me....you must be very stupidd and madd. You and your entire family is foolish. common babe..its not a good attitude from a woman.remember you a lady..it send wrong messages toabout you..you might not need to care.......but the resonable ones would think wrong of you..ok..ok dont use that word..if you care you should apologize to him.......this world is small ok |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 11:36am On Sep 13, 2014 |
prettyamanda: D beautiful ones are not yet bornchai as I see ur profile pic I just dey release.hey na wa o,are a nigerian? |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by rattlesnake(m): 11:44am On Sep 13, 2014 |
rhymz: Of course, who does not want a submissive wife. Many of you seem to think that submissiveness means you are going to be a maid or slave to your husband.... little wonder ladies with such mentality stay in constant competition with their husband for authority in the house and still complain about depression and not being happy in their marriage. No woman will be happy in a marriage in which she is in constant power competition with her spouse. He married you to help him build a home, assist him not compete with him. You can never win in such a competition, trust me. You will only end up depressed and unhappy.1 billion likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by laudate: 12:43am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Going through this thread, it is obvious that a lot of posters have decided that the reason a lot of beautiful girls are still single, is because they are arrogant, snobbish and promiscuous. It is not always true. One should look at all sides of the coin. Promiscuity has little to do with beauty. In my opinion, I have seen a lot of plain girls that are promiscuous. Some of them feel that because they fall short in the 'looks' department, they have to flaunt their other 'God-given' assets around quite liberally, in order to hook a man. Before a man says, "how do you do?" They are quite happy to say 'I do!' I have seen beautiful girls that are quite humble, simple, unassuming and ready to listen to any polite gentle man that seeks to have an audience with them. I have also seen plain girls that are cast in the same mould. It cuts both ways. Let me share a real-life example with you. I had a female classmate in university who was quite pretty. A real stunning chick. She had a huge chunk of admirers, but she fell for this poor ,but hard working young man who often came round to our campus to visit his younger sister. He spotted my classmate, chased her and to cut the long story short, finally caught her. They dated on and off for several years. Everyone assumed they were altar bound. Both of them came from different ethnic groups. He was her very first boyfriend, and she was ever so faithful to this guy. Anyway, by the time she was about to clock 30, she started dropping subtle hints about how it was way past time for the guy to go and see her parents. He kept resisting, using his financial situation as an excuse. He kept saying he didn't have enough money to take on a wife. When she finally got tired, she issued an ultimatum, thinking it would bring him to his senses. For where??! The guy stylishly turned round and dumped her, and less than 3 months later, married another girl from his tribe. We later heard that his parents had threatened to disown him, if he brought home any girl that was not from their own part of the country. My classmate almost had a nervous breakdown. This guy was her 1st and only boyfriend, for so many years. Now she is almost clocking 40, but she is still unmarried as she has found it difficult to pick up the pieces of her life. She keeps wondering if the men really like her for who she is, or if they are just going to use and dump her, like her ex- did. There are so many reasons why beautiful girls remain single, which has nothing to do with pride. It could be due to : a). Rejection from their suitor's parents, who want their sons to marry within their own ethnic group; b). It could be due to genotype incompatibility (e.g. AS vs. AS sub-groups that could give rise to sickle cell children); c); Spiritual issues (e.g. ancestral / generational matters etc); d). Medical problems etc, Abeg, the list dey long! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 9:05am On Sep 18, 2014 |
^^^ You are wise sir. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by raptor123(m): 11:36am On Sep 29, 2014 |
even though my brother here is uncensored i agree with him on number 1 AND 3 hotwax: |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Aitee1: 6:47pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
hotwax: summarizing women with maths? Now this is serious... 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by eckersley: 11:43pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
MizMyColi: From ur write up, I estimate u r nt 18 yet or you are in ds unfortunate category [No worry, in a few yrs body go soon tell u- and u become a desperate single chasing men around, u go understand. Nobody dey tell ogoron/frog to jump] . ENOUGH . JUST DROP UR PHONE NUMBER ON NTA, SO ALL BEAUTIFUL BUT UNMARRIED NIGERIAN LADIES K REACH U. Thereafter, find them husbands and close this thread, Dr.[Mrs.]Phil |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by disloman(m): 11:28pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
jennylove7575:No wonder u remain single.worthless slut |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Sleeksylvia(f): 3:27pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
For those who wanted my profile pic, I've uploaded it. Pls make una no dey take dis issue serious n insult una self |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by davidif: 8:19pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
MizMyColi: Preach. |
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