didadavid:

Girl, dont mind everyone bashing you. Am a guy and I perfectly understand you. Just keep praying for the guy.

God bless Ɣ☺u bro, help me tell them.

RaphaellaDD:


How are you doing BTW?

I'm super good and can't wait for the day to break. It's independence day. Happy independence and how are you gonna spend it?

destante: Lol nvm

Lol be nice. BTW, why you still awake

OlamiB:
Ɣ☺u think I can intentionally get pregnant for a broke guy just to tie him down? How will he take care of a baby when he hrdly takes care of himself? I see him as my husband cos I cnt afford to date a guy for the fun of it, I have been with him for more than 2years now and still counting. We are dating cos we see ourselves getting married. Tnks

My dear assumption is d lowest form of knowledge. I hav seen people date for 8yrs n dey did not end up getting married. Weda u date 4 fun or not is not d issue, d issue is dat u r seeing d guy as ur husband wen he has not proposed to u. Out of d fullest of d heart d mouth speaks, so my dear if d guy has not proposed to u den he does not see u as his wife. Dere no law against engaging u while he is trying to set himself up.

Vessi:
I'm super good and can't wait for the day to break. It's independence day. Happy independence and how are you gonna spend it?

Ehhhh, at home. HBU?

I wonder when it has become a sin to express your opinion. I admire the OP's courage and my advice to you is that, this your broke bf, by the time he's "financially okay" he will dump you. So be prepared for the worst.

valdes00: What's the similarity btw this type of girls n prostitutes?
.... They all want money after sex....

u r an illogical daft...so daft dat d pix op is trying to paint can't be interpreted by ur imbecilic brain

OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.

I was trying to understand your point of view until i stumbled on the bolded statement. Bullshit.

I dont think anyone has the obligation to buy people who have absolutely no connection with any thing.

Its bad enough that you complain that he doesnt spend on you, then you want him to spend on your friends?

How old are you btw?

RaphaellaDD:

Ehhhh, at home. HBU?

At the park with friends and foes. Yeah foes cause I love my enemies .

You are specially invited.
Okay, I'll make an invitation card for ya.

Vessi:
At the park with friends and foes. Yeah foes cause I love my enemies .

You are specially invited.
Okay, I'll make an invitation card for ya.

And what makes you think that I live in the same city as you?

OlamiB:
I am not saying they should have money because of their gf, but because of themselves. Won't they be happy if they live in expensive area? Ride a good car?

Den we should go and do blood money ni or yahoo yahoo shey? I dont use pple's time to work, I do my tins on my own.. God's time is d best dearie

RaphaellaDD:

And what makes you think that I live in the same city as you?

Okay, if tomorrow is late for journeying then I'll make out time to catch fun next time at the park with us.

OlamiB:
God bless Ɣ☺u bro, help me tell them.

I dont have to tell them, they'll figure it out. You have really tried and I commend you to have stayed with him for this long....

I know how U feel but if U love him & U see qualities in him. STAND SOLIDLY BY HIM...

Vessi:
Okay, if tomorrow is late for journeying then I'll make out time to catch fun next time at the park with us.

Tsk, tsk. What are you going to be doing at the park.

Vessi:
Okay, if tomorrow is late for journeying then I'll make out time to catch fun next time at the park with us.

Tsk, tsk. What are you going to be doing at the park?

This is one of the best thread. I have seen on nl with the best suitable comments

Wonderful and perfect comments I must say

1million likes

Shit another err made to look like swag...First bald, guys, then short,now broke guys Nairaland wants to make them feel confident. OK I have a friend with a really small dee(no ask me how I take know)..any tips on how to make him feel better.

destante: well I would date a not too buoyant man if he wouldn't get intimidated by me. And yes, a lady needs a lot of patience to date such men.

. Interesting!

Why don't you get him a job? @op

RaphaellaDD:

Tsk, tsk. What are you going to be doing at the park?

I don't know yet. But there will be enough money to eat anything and ride whatever cause it's fun day. And I'll sure play snooker and ride roller coaster.

Vessi:
I don't know yet. But there will be enough money to eat anything and ride whatever cause it's fun day. And I'll sure play snooker and ride roller coaster.

Ohhhh good for you

RaphaellaDD:

Ohhhh good for you

I wish you'll be there

DiamonJ: girls are depending on guy, just a little suport and gift ginger d relationship, like me my guy know what am what, but atleast when coming back from outside even if is groundnut buy for me ooooo, if u don't i'll start losting feeling for u, i'm a romantic person, even if u are getting d money from me atleast use 10 or 5 percent of it to make me feel like a women that i am

now u'v gotten 1 like, is dat enough for u?? Romantic lady

What is wrong with this one ? Broke bi**tch forming porch here. ...abeg, park well

prettythicksme: I all I know is that they should try combine the too together everything will works out fine.***team say no to broke guys

that means u re broke.... eyahhh..... SORRYYYYY

valdes00: I no pray mak my babe use mistake b ur friend..... Cos if two of una be fwends, haaa am finished....

Vessi:
I wish you'll be there

Oh I wish I was too. I'd increase the speed of the roller coaster when you're on it.

@op I like ur openness and I can't judge u for anything you say hear on this forum. But neva despite little beginnings. No rich b.f just had it like that, every1 was once broke, except those born with a silver spoon. GEJ didn't just become a president overnight, the guy saw hell. So rather than be discouraged, Y not be his backbone and encourage him.

Onyiibazz: And they keep saying that we're objectising women whereas they are the ones objectising themselves. Now an object is something you acquire, pay for it and use it at will for your own satisfaction, you also maintain it. How is an object different from women?

your mother and sisters are women too. your foolishness knows no bounds..

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Oh I wish I was too. I'd increase the speed of the roller coaster when you're on it. [/quote
Hahaha that's the fun of it, and if you were with me? I'd cling to you as a baby would cling to its mother.

Damn...some Nigerian can turn things around ehn...

I think the op is right,it will be very hard for you to see a girl that is ready to share your #100 with you even though you have a bright future...

Lily4star: Now everyone knows your bf is broke , why you dey fall em hand for public nah.

You weren't forced into the relationship and you sef know he doesn't ve, as long as you both understand eachother, and you sound like a babe that cares about what friends say about your relationshipn infact you listen to advice from friends a lot, stop comparing jor. Since you say he has a bright future e go better, support him, encourage him and pray for him as well too. Stop bringing your relationship in public for people to ve something to talk about. Now get ready for the rest things others ll say, I trust Nl
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This is pure mockery ooo I swear, now Imagine your bf sees this, he ll be like

Lwtmyri...laugh wan tear my yansh reach intestine