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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by CoachDX: 11:19am On Oct 01, 2014 |
obongproff:ENDorsed! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by whandeykoal(f): 11:21am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Enahi: Sorry girlfriend,dating a broke guy is not worth it most times. Am dating one presently,I won't call him broke because he is working. But He is very stingy or I don't know if its because I don't ask him for anything. Am seriously having a rethink.. Never marry a stingy man my sister |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by gede7744(f): 11:21am On Oct 01, 2014 |
StevePenninho: No one was born to be rich. We all ave d same 24 hrs. Work hard for ur money. Don't belive in alredy planned destiny before birth l don't like arguing on any topic. that is my own opinion/believe. u are entitled to urs |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by fscream(m): 11:22am On Oct 01, 2014 |
It is very impt for all especially ladies to know that there is a very thin line btw ideal love and prostitute;Pay well to service well. U might just be a wh**e in his profile while u r there praising ur bf for bn a caring guy. Also, the chase after not-so-many rich men is a rat race. Dont think u r d only one eyeing dat guy with full pocket. u better be ready to break wateva record break-able like husain bolt to stay up there! Many av ran it on me got their legs or somethg broken *trueconfession* Lastly, any guy u help to overcome his financial drought especially in dis harsh economy will likely not forget u. Even if he cheats on u wen he's ok wit someone like YOU and YoU and yOU looking for rich guy...he'll come back to u coz he sees those YOUs as prostitute, gold diggers or d confused and you are his Angel. Experience talking 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by CoachDX: 11:22am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Ddy: mind u,big guys of dis days dnt settle for pple like u.we need independent ladies that will support us is tinz goes wrong cos change is d only constant tin in life.ENDorsed |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 11:22am On Oct 01, 2014 |
This is a touchy topic on nairaland, huh *tea* |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Lily4star: Now everyone knows your bf is broke , why you dey fall em hand for public nah.. Na very foolish girl now. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by ugwum007(m): 11:25am On Oct 01, 2014 |
MissTeaseMe: mixed with bad girlfriends.... |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by golddeejay(m): 11:26am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Ndababa: Well, love is naturally expensive....who is selling n who is buyin 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by fragillrockzz(m): 11:32am On Oct 01, 2014 |
prettythicksme: dude take it easy on me are you a broke guyI am talking to broke guys okayWhat's your definition of a broke guy? All this fake a** girls on the street with personal interest and no potentials to make money except they get bleeped... |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 11:33am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Wot more can I say...
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by CoachDX: 11:34am On Oct 01, 2014 |
OlamiB:A part of your post says "i can't marry him if he continues being broke." Do you actually know what you want in that young man? |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Ilovenigeria(f): 11:34am On Oct 01, 2014 |
MissMeiya: This is a touchy topic on nairaland, huhOya contribute. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 11:35am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Ilovenigeria: I did. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 11:35am On Oct 01, 2014 |
fscream: It is very impt for all especially ladies to know that there is a very thin line btw ideal love and prostitute;Pay well to service well. Need anyone else say more?? Case closed! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by tareigns(m): 11:39am On Oct 01, 2014 |
QuiverBox:that girl you are trying to prove a point to is just straight out dumb. stop wasting your time |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by CoachDX: 11:41am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Enahi: Sorry girlfriend,dating a broke guy is not worth it most times. Am dating one presently,I won't call him broke because he is working. But He is very stingy or I don't know if its because I don't ask him for anything. Am seriously having a rethink.I think you're seriously trying to save your face. How do you know your guy is stingy if you don't ask him for anything? |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by mztubsy(f): 11:41am On Oct 01, 2014 |
OlamiB:babes! U rock! I love ur bluntness.its a shame most ppl r not reading in between the lines to see ur intent.its not the brokeness that's the issue,u r just stating the obvious.if u love ur man and youu believe in his dreamsnhis financial status wouldn't be that much of a big deal.like y'all heard she saids she bears the financial burden.if a woman can spend hher money on u and you think u bleeping her. Is the worthor equivalence,u simply stupid.nowadays,sex can be gotten anywhere, I seriously ANYWHERE.so thumbs up to every girl who dates a broke guy and still covers him up,makes evryone belive he's the man and still adores him the same. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Arsenate(m): 11:42am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Ilovenigeria:Lol, no be fight na. was just a simple question. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by golddeejay(m): 11:43am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Kennedyiheme: look the dreams most guys is hve is really big, he mite get rich smeday, in america girls dnt realy care abt money, why are africans this dead in tinkin....poverty...plus they r lazy mentally n physically |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by CoachDX: 11:48am On Oct 01, 2014 |
QuiverBox:Autograph please? |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by whytepawn1(m): 11:49am On Oct 01, 2014 |
this is a silly write up. Take a look at your fingers and tell me what you see.. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Fruitful2: 11:53am On Oct 01, 2014 |
It's disheartening to see the male folks bashing the lady for saying the truth. Its only an Irresponsible and a lazy man who will see what she is saying as Stupid. I might not agree with all she said in terms of Compairing and gaining respect from her friends but I do agree with her 100% about been comfortable. Money plays an Important role in every relationship. She is not asking you to be dangote but rather be comfortable enough to be able to take of the basic things. She is a good person that desires the best for her man,home n kids. Some men are just lazy.Mind you she is a working class lady supporting her man. Guys go and work so u can atleast provide the basic things for yourself and family. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by zappyj(m): 11:53am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Bunch of hungry guys defending their poverty! The rich ones would just be smiling cos they know that OlamiB def has a good heart. From her lamentations you would know the guy isn't helping matters. Get some money broke ass niggas and stop castigating this chic. If I knew u personally, I would def love to date ur kind, u av a good heart and you are a selfless person. Love isn't blind again! E get eyes. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by MDelgado(m): 11:57am On Oct 01, 2014 |
MrIknowAll: If go no go, I go do yahoo yahoo.... Like play like play, after 9 years on NL, I made d 1st comment... 9 years?Why haven't you been commenting?I hope is not what am thinking.. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by MhisIjay(f): 12:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Niggurs b catching feelings cos dey r all damn broke #runsoutofthread# |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Tomjazzy2: 12:04pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Angeldemivida:you are missing the point here. where in the post did the OP mention any of her contribution or efforts towards supporting either herself or partner? though she may have been doing so, but to be objective and factual, I can only comment/ base my analysis on the facts she presented by herself. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by 3sha4lyf: 12:04pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
angelo82:guess that was in the 90's. A British former, whinnying at me, told me to tell my friend that, in his own words, "Real men take their girls shopping all the lovely stuffs when they are on vacation"... Nairalanders pleeeeeeeeeeaaaaassssseeee WAKE UP!!! I put it to you (lmao @ Lawyers terms) that you won't marry a broke guy. Throw back if you're dating one AND YOU ARE COMFORTABLY HAPPY WITH IT. Btw Broke is the far other end of Rich BUT there is "Financially OK" in between oh. Worse case scenario, If you are a successful lady and you date a broke guy, 3 things are possible when you both go shopping TOGETHER... 1) If you are paying for your shopping, you'll NOT buy what you want and can afford; for ya mind, you'll be saying "I'll come back tomorrow to buy this one, hope it will still be here". If you shop like you really want to with your money, you'll be seen as a pompous babe, showing off in front of your man, when u know he can't afford it. 2) If he's paying for your shopping, 70% of the things you pick will either be ugly in his eyes (considering the price, etc) or he'll be like "do you really need that?", "We can get that some other time", "I don't eat this", "I'm watching my carbs so we shouldn't buy that", etc 3) it's less likely you'll go shopping together again. If care is not taken, as a successful lady, you'll stick to online shopping in your private times. Please be true to yourself, stop bashing OlamiB except you ARE PRESENTLY dating one (not that you can date one oh). It's not impossible but e go hard oooo. Ain't nobody got time for that please. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by CoachDX: 12:05pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Obinoscopy: If I were lady I won't go after guys because of their riches, no. If you do, you'd lose your respect and love from such rich men.Obino, you surely have your head on your neck. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by MDelgado(m): 12:11pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
OlamiB: If the relationship is not based on money,then your guy is doing his bedroom chores wella..you can't be deprived of both.. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by humblesteve(m): 12:32pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
chlowi: I remember a thread similar to this years back by another Op, where I made a comment about sticking To a guy who has nothing But a hard worker, And we both work hard to earn and make it!!! 10million likes you have spoken well God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by deadie(m): 12:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
@OP, if a rich guy accepts, supports and loves his poor girlfriend/fiancee, why can't the same be applicable to a rich woman? If you are bothered that he doesn't buy things for your girlfriends (which is not his responsibility by the way) the way your friends boyfriends do, why can't you discuss this issue with him and GIVE HIM THE MONEY TO BUY THE THINGS (assuming that he can't afford it)? I by no standard fit into your classification of a 'broke' guy. But one thing that I will teach my daughter is not to reason like you. And by the way, as long as a guy loves my sister or daughter, I will support the relationship and I will HELP HIM. There is a difference between being broke and being lazy. I am what I am today partly because I work hard, but also because I had a family who supported me. It does not mean that I am in any way better than your 'broke guy'. Given the opportunity that I had, maybe he would have done better than me. And what have you done for him? Have you or your family found him a job or opened a business for him and he flopped? Your type disgust me and you should be ashamed of coming here to bash him. 1 Like |
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