Ezegozie: I am really asking because i think some Boy's are being used to achieve financial needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship that does not involve sex or any romantic activities.
But he spends on her, he takes her out and pay for her private needs.

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?


If you are not into sex, because of religious purpose, then why are you into a relationship?

Why not save the money and give to the orphanage and receive blessings, if you are so
religious?

And for the girls, If you are not ready for sex before marriage, why are you ready for demanding from your boyfriend before marriage?

philantoxx: if sex is what u define by gain in a relationship. den your not really ripe to go into the murky waters of relationship.

tonyx4x44: I perfectly understand where the poster is coming from

MissMalia: na u go knw...c ya mouth lyk feel among.Shuld al relatnshp b based on Sex?

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

F117A: Unserious people.
Instead of them to read their books and develop themselves,they are busy chasing bimbos all over town.
When they eventually graduate with horrible grades,they begin to wonder why they couldn't graduate with a first class.
There is nothing worse than chasing the wrong things at the wrong time.
What a crying shame.

frisby: I CANT BELIEVE WHAT IM READING HERE!
DO LEARNED MEN STILL FOOL THEMSELVES WITH "girlfriends"?

Lemme paint u a quick picture:

Men are mostly sexual beings whereas women are mostly emotional creatures.
Ps: I'm neither saying women do not enjoy sex nor that men are devoid of emotions.
I'm talking of base needs. Major driving forces.
Forget money for now, only broke girls care about ur money.

this bf/gf nonsense is a ploy used by women, to live out their fantasies. Their fill their heads with dreams from movies and books and seek out dumb guys to star in their fantasies. They use u to satisfy their emotional needs while telling u there should be no sex. So even without u spending, u re only serving as a tool to ur so called gf, unless u're also having sex.
U doubt me?
Fine,
Next time ur girl mentions "no sex"... don't argue, instead tell her u totally concur. Infact, that u re also trying to keep urself clean in not just body but mind and soul. Tell her u're also deciding there'll be no hugging, no caressing, no kissing, no inappropriate talk (which includes lies aka flattery) tell her since she's coming from a religious angle, that u would prefer u both take it all d way. Then note her response plus ur observation the next couple of weeks.

I hate to talk about spending money on a woman u're not married to because these girls never fished ur atm cards from ur pocket nor held a 9mm to ur head. Rather u were d one WILLINGLY doling out cash that u don't have in hope that u'll impress her enough to get/keep her in bed. So stop blaming d ladies in dat regard. U presented the opportunity, they used it. Simple. U would too if ur roles were reversed.

Pss: I'm not an advocate of premarital sex.
But neither am I an advocate of blind folly.

Wake up young men!
The truth is thaat U DO NOT NEED A "RELATIONSHIP" IN ORDER TO GET LAID (ie if getting laid is ur only motive)
And no, never pay for sex, unless ur life depends on it.
Rather, focus ur energy on personal development, create success. Become a true man. Have some self worth instead of acting all hopeless before every piece of meat in skirt. Reek of dignity and composure. Become an alpha male And trust me, u'll be d one fending off advances from the fairer gender. Women grow weak in d knees for a true man. And until u are able to forge urself into a true man u'll keep placing the skirt on a pedestal.
It's high time men took a step farther into mental evolution.
Stop tumbling after a girl who passes u on d street just cos she exposed a bit of flesh.
Stop bringing insult to the male folk.
Stop being a slave to the skirt.
Our "hopelessness " is the only thing that empowers all these girls enough to give us "conditions" in a relationship that they are ENJOYING the most part of.
The future needs men, not slaves.
Needs evolved men. Not dogs walking on 2 legs.
There's more to life than 10mins of sweaty shuffle.
Uuse ur time wisely so u don't regret time and resources wasted on another man's wife.

I don talk my own finish

frisby: I CANT BELIEVE WHAT IM READING HERE!
DO LEARNED MEN STILL FOOL THEMSELVES WITH "girlfriends"?

Lemme paint u a quick picture:

Men are mostly sexual beings whereas women are mostly emotional creatures.
Ps: I'm neither saying women do not enjoy sex nor that men are devoid of emotions.
I'm talking of base needs. Major driving forces.
Forget money for now, only broke girls care about ur money.

this bf/gf nonsense is a ploy used by women, to live out their fantasies. Their fill their heads with dreams from movies and books and seek out dumb guys to star in their fantasies. They use u to satisfy their emotional needs while telling u there should be no sex. So even without u spending, u re only serving as a tool to ur so called gf, unless u're also having sex.
U doubt me?
Fine,
Next time ur girl mentions "no sex"... don't argue, instead tell her u totally concur. Infact, that u re also trying to keep urself clean in not just body but mind and soul. Tell her u're also deciding there'll be no hugging, no caressing, no kissing, no inappropriate talk (which includes lies aka flattery) tell her since she's coming from a religious angle, that u would prefer u both take it all d way. Then note her response plus ur observation the next couple of weeks.

I hate to talk about spending money on a woman u're not married to because these girls never fished ur atm cards from ur pocket nor held a 9mm to ur head. Rather u were d one WILLINGLY doling out cash that u don't have in hope that u'll impress her enough to get/keep her in bed. So stop blaming d ladies in dat regard. U presented the opportunity, they used it. Simple. U would too if ur roles were reversed.

Pss: I'm not an advocate of premarital sex.
But neither am I an advocate of blind folly.

Wake up young men!
The truth is thaat U DO NOT NEED A "RELATIONSHIP" IN ORDER TO GET LAID (ie if getting laid is ur only motive)
And no, never pay for sex, unless ur life depends on it.
Rather, focus ur energy on personal development, create success. Become a true man. Have some self worth instead of acting all hopeless before every piece of meat in skirt. Reek of dignity and composure. Become an alpha male And trust me, u'll be d one fending off advances from the fairer gender. Women grow weak in d knees for a true man. And until u are able to forge urself into a true man u'll keep placing the skirt on a pedestal.
It's high time men took a step farther into mental evolution.
Stop tumbling after a girl who passes u on d street just cos she exposed a bit of flesh.
Stop bringing insult to the male folk.
Stop being a slave to the skirt.
Our "hopelessness " is the only thing that empowers all these girls enough to give us "conditions" in a relationship that they are ENJOYING the most part of.
The future needs men, not slaves.
Needs evolved men. Not dogs walking on 2 legs.
There's more to life than 10mins of sweaty shuffle.
Uuse ur time wisely so u don't regret time and resources wasted on another man's wife.

I don talk my own finish

Ezegozie: I am really asking because i think some Boy's are being used to achieve financial needs.

Take for instance, a student that is probably not going to marry in the next 5yrs.
And he is in a so called relationship that does not involve sex or any romantic activities.
But he spends on her, he takes her out and pay for her private needs.

Let me ask you officially

what do you gain from such a parasitic relationship ?


If you are not into sex, because of religious purpose, then why are you into a relationship?

Why not save the money and give to the orphanage and receive blessings, if you are so
religious?

And for the girls, If you are not ready for sex before marriage, why are you ready for demanding from your boyfriend before marriage?

seunwen2:

I see as you are with your first class

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

Rutheby: It's a wound that will get healed gradually. Be strong and God will see you through.

deboraha:

I gave my opinion, U quoted me. So in other words, I must join u in ur sex b4 marriage campaign. Sorry, there are still many who do not believe in it and will not join U no matter how popular it is.

Unibenstudent: can u be my special adviser

Rutheby: Lol.... I advice and encourage people that needs it. Sure I can be but you know the president pays his special adviser well(just kidding tho).

Unibenstudent: so how much r u charging

Rutheby: Was kidding. Can't charge 4 smthing i'm suppose to do.

Unibenstudent: ok,so what u doing for now ,schooling or working?

Rutheby: Both

Unibenstudent: how u doing that?