Its not a given. Sumtyms it works sumtyms it doesnt.

Bt i have learnt dat 'love after marriage' works most tyms for couples who have conservative background and hold tight to traditional values.

What is even love?
U marry for love and in mnths its over
U marry and then fall in love

It works way better than the first
I blv in it if both partners are willing
Might be hard at first bt it mostly ends in a happy ending

englishmart: My mom and dad have been worried for over 25 years. In fact their love grows incessantly.

sometimes I pray I find a wife as good as my mom.

. Worried

It is possible, with God all things are possible, love after marriage is included. Prayer will help a great deal though.

Reinforced the impossible, like this: impossible

Rapsainot: Love after marriage..... Hmm impossible

zeelo2014: our parents did love after marriage and they're still waxing strong unlike our generation that do a whole lot of lovey dovey yet u see marriages fall like pack of cards

you got my ribs cracking on this one, meanwhile your right.

Abeg go ask T billz and Tiwa.

marieolae: This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry. Her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

the probability of loving after marriage is 1/100. it's not that I'm a marriage expert I just don't think so because there are even some people who "courted" for years, yet they can't stay married for months

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Smartsyn: You must have heard the phrase 'the love will come gradually after we get married'. This is always the case when someone is desperate to get married or when a wife is find for you by your parents or guardians..


You know within you that you don't love him/her but believes that the love will come on it's own AFTER you get married.

Does it work that way, is it viable, or is it a lifetime mistake..?

Your opinions are welcomed..

It still work if only u got ur perfect match, draw my wrapper up & continue my sleep...

It actually dies after marriage.

marry your friend and not your 'lover'....

Why will i stop loving my wife after i married her ??
Do you how many guys she refused their proposals just to be with me.

What i owe her is true love & i don't see anything in other females that is not on my wife's body

englishmart: My mom and dad have been worried for over 25 years. In fact their love grows incessantly.

sometimes I pray I find a wife as good as my mom.

worried

It happns sometimes but most times, it's all a crazy dream.

tosinisrael5678: worried

are you ok?

Its better to love the woman u marry than to marry the woman u love. if u marry the woman u love after marriage, there is high possibility that d love declines but if u fall in love with the one u marry , it continues to grow. even if it was an arranged marriage, u parents can't marry u to a wowo spouse or one low life.

Missy89: It actually dies after marriage.

I don't believe you.
Do you talk from experience ??

tosingcfr: . Worried

no

marieolae: This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry. Her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

wen u say regularly. u dey spy on dem ni

Rapsainot: the probability of loving after marriage is 1/100. it's not that I'm a marriage expert I just don't think so because there are even some people who "courted" for years, yet they can't stay married for months

80/100

Fixed

It actually reduces afta marriage

krall: This is why it is not good to marry for love.
Marry for the benefits attached.

what if the benefits were detached

Sixix:

80/100

Fixed

lols, think of those that love themselves so much before marriage, but couldn't continue with the so called love after it bro

Atmmachine:

I don't believe you.
Do you talk from experience ??

Nope! Never married

was just an opinion

Itz a lifetime mistake...d basis for marriage shud be love nt pity or pressure.even wen love fades after marriage,understanding and tolerance remains.

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ednut1: wen u say regularly. u dey spy on dem ni

well..tbh I know it was regularly because my uncle told me.

yes.that was mainly the case in the old days of our fathers.there were little or no cases of divorce.i prefer people playing their roles and respecting each others opinion and place in the family to people claiming they love each other naively just to come back after little while to claim the love vanished into sambisa forest with no one to bring it back.