Lilimax: Says Who?

englishmart: My mom and dad have been worried for over 25 years. In fact their love grows incessantly.
sometimes I pray I find a wife as good as my mom.

marieolae: This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

dhatboy: it seems your uncle is a sucker for that hole in the south region, I don't see how you will even feel like having sex with someone you don't like. So its either you are lying or your uncle needs deliverance.

marieolae: please have you ever heard of a man having sexx with an ashawo? Have u heard of friends with benefits? Have u heard of a one night stand? Please you do not need to have any emotions attached when having sex with a lady. Since its only pleasure that the guy is looking for.

dhatboy: then was your uncles wife an ashawo? We know of ashawo. How was your night though?

marieolae: mtchew. Ur not getting the message. I was just using it as an example. Nonsense

marieolae: This is actually what happened to my uncle. He met this girl which he had no interest in marrying. Just a fling. They were having sexx regularly and eventually she got pregnant. He insisted that she should abort the pregnancy but she refused. So in this situation, he was " forced" to marry her. And now I believe he is madly in love with her, not only because she is the mother of his child, but its something from within. I guess love after marriage is possible, but its not advisable to rush into things. The story doesn't always end in a glorious way. "And they lived happily ever after" may not be the case.

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People prefer to marry who they love.
But I think it is better to love who you marry.

Kunlecelica:

Ur mum and dad have been worried or married.

Tymax:
Dazzall. End of dicussion.

Ordering icre cream for Dytbabe for this comment. Hope say go-slow nor go hold am.

CoCoLav: Love after marriage is actually what I want. When you love someone before marriage, you might be blinded to their flaws in the belief that love covers all. By the time you get married and the love fades then your eyes open. I want to marry someone I don't really love so my eyes will be
open to all flaws and at the end of the day, I will know what I am getting myself into. I just believe that love makes people have poor judgement and reason stupi.dly. It makes you do things you ordinarily wouldnt do and settle for situations you normally will walk away from, it makes you weak and also makes you turn a deaf ear to advice from people who are seeing things you cant see. Love makes you blind!

Sweetlemon: Those of mentioning our fore fathers, don't you know most of them just grew used o each other because they had no other choice? In those days women had little or no say about their marital happiness. So they just stomached it or learnt to dance in the rain.

zeelo2014: our parents did love after marriage and they're still waxing strong unlike our generation that do a whole lot of lovey dovey yet u see marriages fall like pack of cards

phransix147: Meaning? Certainly not with me... How would we sleep @ nyte?

CoCoLav: Love after marriage is actually what I want. When you love someone before marriage, you might be blinded to their flaws in the belief that love covers all. By the time you get married and the love fades then your eyes open. I want to marry someone I don't really love so my eyes will be
open to all flaws and at the end of the day, I will know what I am getting myself into. I just believe that love makes people have poor judgement and reason stupi.dly. It makes you do things you ordinarily wouldnt do and settle for situations you normally will walk away from, it makes you weak and also makes you turn a deaf ear to advice from people who are seeing things you cant see. Love makes you blind!

Lekmokson34: I will say smtin soon.

Oahray: love doesn't make one do all those. You are mixing it up. Infatuation makes one judge poorly. Lust makes one reason stupidly. Nothing makes one deaf as much as desperation to get married. All those make one blind to flaws. Those are what you should be trying to avoid.

Focusing on flaws isn't new. After the excitement of wedding subsides, that's what most couples spend their time doing. They discover one and go: "oh, why didn't I see this earlier? There must be more, lemme look for them." Thus the search for flaws begin and they lose sight of what makes the partner adorable. And another marriage hits the rocks.

If you can love someone after wedding, you simply got a person that is lovable, marriage or no.

englishmart: My mom and dad have been married for over 25 years. In fact their love grows incessantly.

sometimes I pray I find a wife as good as my mom. Your father Married your mum for who she is , so my young man if U want to enjoy what ur dad is enjoying marry a girl for who she is and not what she is( what she studied/ studying, her family status etc)