YourCrush:
Do u tink it wil b easy 4 u 2 undastand y ur wife wil wake up on 1 faithful morning only 2 tel u dat she is no longer interestd in d marriage?

carefreewannabe:


How has nature made him the head?

centjamie:


Well,i cannot answer what you obviously know.i knw u got my point sha

carefreewannabe:


Show me where she said so.

KAYD007:


you need not beat round the bush, it was quite obvious..erm the preekbender implied it in her post

Simplicityike:
cheating is cheating' but believe it or not you have said it all,but remember marring a beautiful women is a depth.......i will tell y next time I see you!!!!!!

carefreewannabe:


And you think a woman won't be hurt?

ugwum007:



Nigeria would ve been much better if u were not born..

drlawizle:


What bebe2 said is a good explanation...cheating is wrong on all fronts agreed but the motives behind it are absolutely different....a man can cheat on his wife and still treat her like d goddess dat she is, love her with allhis heart and take excellent care of his children....wat does dat mean: sex with another woman is just a game to d man...have you ever wondered why a man can still sex a woman he hates so much & still enjoy it (as long as she's sexy)but a woman will find it difficult to even if he's rich & handsome.

On d other hand a woman dat goes out of the 3 reasons I mentioned earlier is capable of murdering his husband and selling off his property and running of with another man...its difficult for it just to be fun for her...you yourself know you were not wired and created dat way... we are all gifted and unique in our own different ways....theres really no point tryin to behave like a man that doesnt attach emotions to sex or thinking men lie when dey say d woman means nothing to him....cos she actually means nothing to him...I understand dat it hurts d woman which is d reason I will never cheat on my wife but what I want you to understand is a man cheating on his wife is absolutely different from a woman cheating on her man.

carefreewannabe:



I thought it was as simple as that and it actually is.

The only reason why some people won't agree is because they want to continue having the privilege of cheating but at the same time a tool to punish people who would do the same to them.

They want to hurt without taking responsibility but they don't want to be hurt.

The discussion takes place for very selfish reasons. It has nothing to do with logic.

carefreewannabe:


Respect for this and may you be true to your promise.

I am not going to discuss gender stereotypes with you. Your post is full of gender stereotypes.

I will just repeat this:

Cheating is cheating and cheating is wrong.

Its full of the truth.

carefreewannabe:


Respect for this and may you be true to your promise.

I am not going to discuss gender stereotypes with you. Your post is full of gender stereotypes.

I will just repeat this:

Cheating is cheating and cheating is wrong.

What I just want to pass across is dat the motive is different in both sexes...d earlier we realized we are different in our makeup the better...God himself made us differently otherwise He would have just created Man alone... no gender stereos here...

okotv:
why should anyone cheat....either male or female...infact hold yourself...it seems to me that thus society is really in need if a tweak

kandiikane:
The thing is, all this is a lie. If you are in a relationship or marriage for a long time and you cheat the man won't just easily walk away. They say it as a deterrent but those who have experience their partner cheating know the truth. I mean he might "hate" you at that moment and say all sorts and maybe say its over and leave but Infact, he will end up being the one begging to get the relationship on the right track.

Tallesty1:
Before I start this, I want to make it clear that I'm not a sexist.

People say it is a man's world, and honestly, it is. I will show you how.

Nature gave us some bonus and women gave their support. Even if a man forgives a cheating wife, the women(society) will not.

Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them)

1: EGO:- It certainly has alot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had "ownership" of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs.

2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own.

3: THEY CAN'T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he make love to her and she moan, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy!

4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you(in most cases)you must win her heart to win her body.

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don't kill me yet, let's analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name(Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own.

I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don't care when they cheat soI believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won't bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..

On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful

drlawizle:


Even a weak man will not behave like d@... check dat "man" he might not be a man afterall...or perhaps he is staying for something else...men can be cunning atimes...e go just do you like Portuguese film.

RuuDie:




I actually just did... its crazy, absurd, difficult, inexplicable... but I did; and I don't regret it!!!

carefreewannabe:


I understand why people cheat but despite the understanding of all the reasons behind cheating, I consider it wrong.

Cheating

- hurts people
- leads to STDs
- destroys lives
- destroys the love someone has for you
- destroys the respect someone has for you
- destroys families
- destroys relationships
- destroys trust
- destroys the feelings of security
- destroys self-confidence

All this can happen no matter if a man or a woman cheats.

carefreewannabe:
drlawizle

Quote me properly.

What you said looks like I have said it.

okotv:
you are really an intellectual....glad I met you.


By the way *it took me about two days to understand your person* I really thought deeply about it before my instincts spoke.

kandiikane:


Come off it! Bunch of pretenders!

drlawizle:


Okay..perhaps I dont get your meaning of stereotypes. ?

MzMariah:
That I can't even explain. I've seen cases where a man will cheat and they will keep saying its normal for a man to cheat but when a woman cheats then they will almost kill her. them no even wan hear at all.

There are things that can never change and this is an example of it. A man will cheat on his wife and if his wife cheats on him then..........

I don't pray for a cheating partner sha o.