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Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by bournvita: 9:15pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
abeautifulchick: He bought you a car and you accepted the car? Why did you accept the gift? You should have returned the car and asked for attention instead. Awon selective collectors 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Fish brain tins, pseudo-relationship expert tins, cluelessness tins, this thread is full of dis tinz. . Men and your older on here are telling you what obtains in the real world but you'd prefer the romance novel and theoretical relationship realm? smh. Iro ni e like, why are you girls so desperate for lies. 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by FynBabe(f): 9:17pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Please, don't kill me with your hilarious posts o! I hear you . coogar: |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by coogar: 9:18pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
abeautifulchick: don't blame yourself na. we are here to help you. bournvita: there's a car shop in nigeria - attention is their currency. just pack attention in a suitcase & fiaaaaaaaam - you can get any car of your choice. do you need their addy? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by pickabeau1: 9:18pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
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Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:20pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Attention is very important to women... @abeautifulchick, he's never going to change. Then again, nobody has it all. If you can't endure it, let him go. Otherwise, go ahead with the wedding. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by FynBabe(f): 9:20pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Don't mind them. When it happens, e go be like film trick. Sophyrocks: 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by bukatyne(f): 9:21pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
abeautifulchick: OP: I was deciding to comment before I read this It is a lie of the devil for anyone to tell you 'I will change after marriage'. There is no magical agent of change that transforms people after they say 'i do'. If your bobo has some attitude you do not like; discuss it with him. If there is no change, decide if you can live with it without complaint. If no, run as fast as your legs can carry you. Once in, na to carry your cross. Even if you divorce, what has spoilt is spoilt. If you decide to stay, you will be carrying the pain. We are here debating what all women/men like as if a worldwide poll was conducted. You and you only know what you want; if that man cannot give it to you, run. No NLer will be with you tomorrow when you are crying o. Once again, 'I will change after marriage' is a lie of the devil A word is enough for the wise 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:21pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
abeautifulchick: Please please please, ignore some comments here that attack your person and do not help your situation. Some are here to mock you and turn the thread to a gender thing reeking of frustration. Just pick the ones relevant to you and discard the rest. 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by damiso(f): 9:21pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
coogar: Japan ko Taiwan ni Abeg make I dey watch my apprentice jare |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by coogar: 9:22pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by BABE3: 9:22pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
coogar: but but coogar, why do I have to be the one to bend to your taste? Why can't you watch telemundo with me? Equality, remember? |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by bournvita: 9:22pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
coogar: Lol coogar leave me. She said he gives her everything she asks for. All that he spoils her with comes from the same business she is bitching about. Since she wants attention she needs to stop asking for and/or collecting handouts and focus squarely on attention. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
@floodgater thanks,i will consider that @pickabeau1 and mizmycoli thanks also.I need advice but some people are just writing off topic except for few.PLS guys,If you dont have any good advice,just view and walk away. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1: A Car ke? free? op , you dey annoy me seriously my first car, I bought after years of trekking ....at age 28, with my own savings ..even 2 drop me at home when I was single, na complain. money for tfare, nko? O.Y.O.....but I still hope for a better tmrw n a better companion. have never had d luxury of whomsoever I date take care of me financially .....even take money for weekend - zero. Although it made me stronger and self sufficient. but I still thank God I went through all dat. cos I can be happy and at peace with any tough situation I see myself in. if the tough situation is a life threathening scenario? then am gone like d wind...with no regrets op, thank your stars for wat u av...theres no complete 100percent man out there....I don talk my own oo 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Thanks alot. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:26pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
BABE3: ^^^So what happens to the really smart & talented ones whose boyfriends/husbands still chase after the money. By your theory, that shouldn't be, right? Its not about the ladies... |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by coogar: 9:27pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
BABE3: telemundo sucks - but if the offer comes with a quickie, most men will stay at home & "give attention" bournvita: 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by BABE3: 9:28pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
theLORDreigns: who ever said it was a theory? Sometimes its about the ladies, other times its not. I was giving one of the reasons why a guy would prefer his friends' company. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:29pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
FynBabe: The worst part be say na the ones wey dey beat chest pass na im women dey cheat on well well. dem no go know. Them go beat chest so tey people wey know their wives' escapade go dey do Yimu for their back. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by bukatyne(f): 9:31pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Lovely as usual If money was so important, Dangote would not be on wife no 3 or 4 If money was all the OP needed, she would not be here now. God will answer your prayers dear 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:31pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
BABE3: Better. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by MizMyColi(f): 9:32pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by damiso(f): 9:33pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
coogar: Hubby too I left him downstairs.I think I am considering going back downstairs just running round like headless chickens but I need to watch the dressing down lord sugar will give them. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by bournvita: 9:33pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Anyways OP goodluck. First year of marriage everyone wants attention...3 years down the line, we start checking for pocket size. Dont worry...your time will come, mbok. My honest advise to you is; if you want attention, return all that he has given you to him and collect no more only then will he take you seriously. But as long as you keep rubbing vaseline on his bald head and he still greases your palm with a bundle of 1000 naira notes, he aint gonna take you seriously cos he is going to think that you love money more than attention. Your relationship is all about the benjamins 1 Like |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by bukatyne(f): 9:34pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
BABE3: Do you get turned on degrading and downplaying women? I honestly do not seem to get it 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by BABE3: 9:38pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
bukatyne: are your feelings hurt? get out of here, before I tear your underskirt... 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
BeautifulChick, I have told you what to do. Leave that guy alone, and his gifts of course, and look for someone who's more inclined to furnishing you with the sort of attention you crave. He'll be hurt and confused but, that's life. Meanwhile, you deserve happiness and if your boyfriend ignoring his pals for you in the same venue is the way to that happiness, then purse it by all means. |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
bukatyne: Thank you for saying the bolded. If the op was all about the money, the same frustrated beings would have lashed at her and call her greedy. This is why its not usually good to go with what is popular! Even stereotypes do not help. Let the Op decide for herself what she wants. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by damiso(f): 9:40pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
OP i asked what do you mean by attention? I know you gave an illustration earlier (his friends and the airport episode) but another post said he was your soulmate you guys discuss a lot and he listens to you about decisions. So I will ask again is it the quantity or quality of time that you spend together that is your problem? |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
bukatyne:Amen.Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Said Yes To The Big Question But I Still Have Doubts. by coogar: 9:43pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
damiso: hehe...... be careful - don't slip on the stairs while gallivanting from lord sugar to skysports bournvita: 1 Like |
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