Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Stephen344(m): 6:50am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Abeg the text too long, I no read am but I get the idea |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by maclatunji: 7:07am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Read, liked and shared. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by jayminJr(m): 7:09am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Cho! First to comment After Almost a Month on Nairaland. #definitely dz z A Thank U to Tamuno# |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by jayminJr(m): 7:14am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Ladycloud: nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place! TRUST ME U GO PORT NAIJA PRAYER HOUSES TIRE #winks# |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by jayminJr(m): 7:15am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Ladycloud: nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place! Trust me, u go port Naija prayer Houses tire #winks# |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by daryoor(m): 7:18am On Oct 18, 2014 |
purpose ? very funny
life has no purpose |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Atmmachine(m): 7:19am On Oct 18, 2014 |
# Trolling. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by sekzy99(m): 7:20am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Ladycloud: nyc one dear! if all guyz were lyk yhu...d world would hv been a better place! Incomplete if gals too dnt tink like dis |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by gbaskiboy: 7:26am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Ladycloud: nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place! same applies to female folks |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Sleekyshuga(f): 7:32am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Wow... What a way to start my day! Guys/Ladies, this calls for a sober reflection .. Nice one, @OP... #Food for thought#.. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by eyeon(m): 7:38am On Oct 18, 2014 |
I read it where you called it a 'letter'... I read and loved the letter *educating* . . . I read where you wrote 'rubber' Anyway, the only 'rubber' I know is 'money' *unique* . . . After reading the letter, one question came to my mind... When do I read the "YOUR'S FAITHFULLY" or "YOUR'S SINCERELY" part of the letter *just wondering and expecting* 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Henrychris(m): 7:42am On Oct 18, 2014 |
wow true talk man.let the countdown begin |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ShakurM(m): 7:46am On Oct 18, 2014 |
barackodam: I love thread.
Thumbs op!!! lmao..very thoughtful signature 'Seun Ose wa' |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Clinton207: 7:48am On Oct 18, 2014 |
God bless u bros!! |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by amas124(m): 7:53am On Oct 18, 2014 |
True talk jare thumbs up man |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by tivta(m): 7:56am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Great. Another woman worshiping thread. I have said it and will say it again. Do unto men as you want men to do unto you. If you push me to the wall don't expect me to stand looking like a fool. Like kanye west said " I won't hit a bi*ch but I will shake the shit out of you" as for going closer to God I rather practice karma than ass kiss men of God who buy private jets in the name of evangelism. We are in a new world where women want equal rights there fore they should be mandated to meet men half way. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. I respect Caucasian women when it comes to sex, if they want a one night stand they let you know. Meanwhile most NIGERIAN girls want to marry a rich man that mistakenly spends some money on them, yet they say money can't buy love. Keep feeling like the best thing God has created while you either end up as a single mother or divorced or remain single at age 40 while looking for the rich man that will marry you. MOST nigerian girls are worthless... 5 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kay29000(m): 7:58am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Some good advise in a couple of places, but I don't like the preaching format of the article. It was like the OP was delivering a sermon. I really thought I was going to read about the good and bad of marriage, an how to handle things. Instead, I read a letter from a person forming a "holier than thou" attitude, and condemning every other person that can't live as "perfect" as he is supposedly living. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ChukwuemekaVal(m): 8:03am On Oct 18, 2014 |
It's a letter indeed, love d whole advise. Pax domini sic simper vobiscum. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ugwum007(m): 8:14am On Oct 18, 2014 |
OP, with ur kind....Nigeria will be better faster |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ugwum007(m): 8:17am On Oct 18, 2014 |
all dis people reading dis post, dont u ve homes to sweep...dis is Saturday morning for Christ sake |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Lordlexyy: 8:18am On Oct 18, 2014 |
HARDDON: Take risks! It is risky not to take risks. We all come face to face with a make or break situations and we must have d balls enough to say like Hannah: if I perish, I perish. David did this when he faced Goliath n a host of others even in our time.
Never settle for less. Only a lion's heart is worthy of a lion's share. Dare for more. Sir, you just gave my day a lift and fuel to my dream and aspiration. God reward you immensely for this inspiring piece. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ugwum007(m): 8:21am On Oct 18, 2014 |
is better i go to south Africa and marry a HIV-liberated, ~whorish~ girl than waste my God given time on dis useless naija girls who thinks I ve a money growing tree in my back yard. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Lordlexyy: 8:23am On Oct 18, 2014 |
HARDDON: 3) be liberal : right @ that very state with what u have , learn to give to promote God's works n Bless humanity either in cash or in services . if God could give his Son for us all, there is something about humans that moves him.
hmmm.... Wow. I will book mark this. Thanks once again. This is deep. 1 Like |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by msmon(m): 8:37am On Oct 18, 2014 |
What a thoughtful contribution, your signature is even fantastic. Bravo! tivta: Great. Another woman worshiping thread. I have said it and will say it again. Do unto men as you want men to do unto you. If you push me to the wall don't expect me to stand looking like a fool. Like kanye west said " I won't hit a bi*ch but I will shake the shit out of you" as for going closer to God I rather practice karma than ass kiss men of God who buy private jets in the name of evangelism. We are in a new world where women want equal rights there fore they should be mandated to meet men half way. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. I respect Caucasian women when it comes to sex, if they want a one night stand they let you know. Meanwhile most NIGERIAN girls want to marry a rich man that mistakenly spends some money on them, yet they say money can't buy love. Keep feeling like the best thing God has created while you either end up as a single mother or divorced or remain single at age 40 while looking for the rich man that will marry you. MOST nigerian girls are worthless... |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Lordlexyy: 8:45am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Op, thanks. This is all i need. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 8:49am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Wat a kool letter, its so true as d GOSPEL... Spot on OP. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by NeduLuiZ(m): 8:51am On Oct 18, 2014 |
someone should share this post in sexuality section ... We are damaged beyond repair in that section myself not excluded ... Mazi ...foxy ... Zubby ... Kay . The sex gods that think,sleep,eat,breath sex. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 8:51am On Oct 18, 2014 |
drkay: This is a vry good advice every young man who has a meaningful plan for his life must heed to. well said bro. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Ikemsque: 8:57am On Oct 18, 2014 |
[color=#990000][/color] kentozybee: A Letter To Single Men Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't an easy job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed. If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future. What are you doing about your life and future? I know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your life or you're still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it's too late. Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil's music, it's better you start learning God's steps. Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a 'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sex but you can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems 'rubber' cannot prevent. It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it's fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It's not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger. Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday. Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don't tread the path now. I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I'm constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in areas where necessary. Nice one. U should also think of writing a letter to the single ladies cos they really need to be told some hard truth. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by poik(m): 9:01am On Oct 18, 2014 |
kentozybee: A Letter To Single Men Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't an easy job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she's not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed. If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you.
It's better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future. What are you doing about your life and future? I know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your life or you're still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it's too late. Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil's music, it's better you start learning God's steps. Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a 'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sex but you can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems 'rubber' cannot prevent. It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it's fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It's not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger. Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront.
My guy, you're going to be a father someday. Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter.
If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don't tread the path now. I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I'm constrained due to space.
Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in areas where necessary. I like this. I like good things. |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Isryl02(m): 9:04am On Oct 18, 2014 |
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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by akpabana: 9:06am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Waoooh! So we still have pple who reason this way, then am not ancient. I pledge to God my creator to be faithful loyal and honest to serve God and humanity wt all my strenght to defend her purity and uphold HIS righeousness and grace so help me GOD. |