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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 4:44pm On Oct 20, 2014
loswhite:
woman wrappering grin
Wat do u mean
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 4:46pm On Oct 20, 2014
loswhite:
the matter tire me o...all this woman wrappering got to stop o


...agreed ..nairaland is not a g@y website so man muss quit written love poems to other men.. We all hear for women and we hate that s**** (no oofemse) angry

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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 4:53pm On Oct 20, 2014
MrCork:



...agreed ..nairaland is not a g@y website so man muss quit written love poems to other men.. We all hear for women and we hate that s**** (no oofemse) angry
stupid
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by umohmfonobong: 4:56pm On Oct 20, 2014
But what if the reverse is the case? in mean the woman is the problem here, how what will a man do, some men are serious to marry but some women are waiting for ready made husband.
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 5:10pm On Oct 20, 2014
kentozybee:
stupid

^^^ i think she is upset undecided

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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 5:15pm On Oct 20, 2014
MrCork:


^^^ i think she is upset undecided
I shouldn't have quoted u, I am a she fr ur info
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 5:36pm On Oct 20, 2014
kentozybee:
I shouldn't have quoted u, I am a she fr ur info

^^^sounds like we upset the g@y comunity undecided

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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 5:40pm On Oct 20, 2014
...why the hell shud man be writin love poem to single men on nairaland?

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i don't want that..we don't want that..nobory want that.....all men are hear to chase women...PIRIOD!!
angry

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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Oxygenmayo(m): 8:39pm On Oct 20, 2014
Good post @op

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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by mcemma(m): 8:50pm On Oct 20, 2014
Great words for great men
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Elbisco(m): 1:06am On Oct 21, 2014
Tallesty1:
Wow............ This is good............

Well it takes a crazy woman to push a man to the wall.

So if he turns around and hits her.

It means they are compatible and meant for each othergrin.

lol...u cracked me up
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by SenatorJames(m): 9:41pm On Oct 22, 2014
kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.
God bless you for this balance write-up.
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Olasco93: 6:24am On Aug 20, 2015
I have learnt alot from this write-up, not as one who is into those acts, but one who was just at a seconds to start the act.
After i read this, i bowed my knees in prayer ''Lord, please help me to live a worthy life desired of you, not of that which men pleases, but You.'' And those words here can stop ringing in my ears ever since. Thanks for those good post... Don't think they are not helping even if 90% of people here mock it. They are making impact and am a testimony of it.
Thanks @kentozybee!!!

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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 2:09pm On Aug 20, 2015
Olasco93:
I have learnt alot from this write-up, not as one who is into those acts, but one who was just at a seconds to start the act.
After i read this, i bowed my knees in prayer ''Lord, please help me to live a worthy life desired of you, not of that which men pleases, but You.'' And those words here can stop ringing in my ears ever since. Thanks for those good post... Don't think they are not helping even if 90% of people here mock it. They are making impact and am a testimony of it.
Thanks @kentozybee!!!
Thank U Very Much, I Am So Encouraged By Ur Words

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