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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 4:07am On Oct 18, 2014 |
HARDDON:I think the first step is to talk to her about it. she might not even know op is feeling bad about it. Some people find it hard expressing their love verbally. 1 Like |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by SpcAgtOko: 4:13am On Oct 18, 2014 |
It is better if the man says it first - for the first time.. After that, either one 3 Likes |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by HARDDON: 4:20am On Oct 18, 2014 |
sparkymummy: Sure say, but hmmmmm, could u help us with d how he should lay d question across? "Y don't u tell me u love me first?" Dock! Simply yuck! U see, there r some things that comes naturally, if for 7 years she hasn't been able to express her self, aint no need. Which should make a lady really shy : stripping n having a guy explore her nu8e body or looking @ her own guy n telling him how she feels? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by HARDDON: 4:23am On Oct 18, 2014 |
sparkymummy: Now that ish cracked me out! 1 Like |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Paulv(m): 4:29am On Oct 18, 2014 |
guente02:i think i agree with u my broda |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by lonelydora: 4:30am On Oct 18, 2014 |
It is a two-way thing. In my own case, my wife always initiates it.l and I always respond. It looks as if we are competing on who says it first. 1 Like |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Missy89(f): 4:51am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Say it first to a Naija guy and you are screwed. (most cases) |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Jarus(m): 5:13am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Frankly, I'm not a fan of that cliché. From the time I was a single, young guy to now. I don't say it. I can count on my fingertips the number of times I have ever said it to anyone. My wife used to complain at the early stage, but she later got to know i'm not a fan of all those talks, I hardly believe in saying "I love you" by mouth, it is by action. I told her I don't believe in it even if everyone other person in the world says it. I also never believed nor engaged in all those "romantic" texts people send during courtship. "You're this, you're that...I had a dream about you...you're the mountain, you're the moon, the sun etc in my life". all those things don't make sense to me. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by msmon(m): 5:21am On Oct 18, 2014 |
'I love You' is a statement that has been abused so I don't care if she say that to me or not, I care about the action. There are more than one thousand ways a woman will tell you 'I love you' without uttering a word. And it's not a sole responsibility of man to say such. ************ Check Out this thread: www.nairaland.com/1954021/why- celebrity-marriages-fail-experts 1 Like |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by ad84ada(m): 5:43am On Oct 18, 2014 |
my girl says it very often and it makes me love her more. |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by plumule(m): 5:47am On Oct 18, 2014 |
since she is ur fiance i dont see it as a duty. It is necessary to tell her " i love u" every now and then dat way she will try hard some other day to first u mention it |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Paulv(m): 5:50am On Oct 18, 2014 |
HARDDON: |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by nodullin(m): 5:58am On Oct 18, 2014 |
GamaG:Just get that Nigerian fiancee an expensive gift/treat... She go just begin to sing "I luv u " for your ear... |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Paulv(m): 5:58am On Oct 18, 2014 |
HARDDON:HARDDON, pls advic me...lik my gel she display dat no 3.but it's a long r/ship now but befor she traveld we wher both inlov nd i alwas tel her howmuch i lv her.shuld i be acting lik i dnt care too,pls help |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by chocmanne(m): 5:59am On Oct 18, 2014 |
HARDDON:kai! bt i hear say William Shakespeare don die now.. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:59am On Oct 18, 2014 |
GamaG: It doesn't matter who says it first (although man is the initiator of love). If you both love each other well, this will be the least issue, all you need is a mature relationship. I initiated the "I love you" in my relationship because my babe was uptight at inception. But now I get it everyday, with a sincerity tone too 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Chuks16(m): 6:04am On Oct 18, 2014 |
I no longer understand love,. love be like boy: I love you girl: thank you......... is i love you a compliment, I thought is reciprocal. I am going back to bed 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by eduxerxes: 6:18am On Oct 18, 2014 |
I've said it time without number, the girl I'm gonna marry MUST be the one to love me first. I ain't ready to go chasing girls...dem go think say u dey force them. Trust me, it makes the union stronger and lasting (nowadays). 2 Likes |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by adepiero: 6:26am On Oct 18, 2014 |
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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by OBA1986: 6:27am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Really this shouldn't a duty but rather a normal normal talk from the both side. The person first feel it can see it and the other will respond but ladies like guys to say it first, but to me it does not mean anytin whether ladies say it first or guys first |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by STENON(f): 6:27am On Oct 18, 2014 |
I think that is the FIRST WARNING sign in a Relationship. If someone is forcing/Initiating you before saying " I love you / I miss you" to the person you truly Love, Re-Love and cherish. Which means there is someone outside, that she enjoys telling the word "I Love you / I miss you" not minding of whether the person replies back or not. @Op, your ability to decode the code that has been sent to you from her, requires wisdom. Goodmorning to all Nairalanders 2 Likes |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Edusouls(m): 6:31am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Hahahaha, chei, african woman and luv ke, african women re not that luving oriented beings, they re stiff and very closed, hmm for her to first tell u she loves you, she see's it as a wrong move, by the way i luv u is the typical way of western communication, not here in africa, women have their ways of saying it here..but u men dont expect our women to be so sweet,outspoken, luving and faithful like the white girls, someone cant just give u what he/she dosent have, so let's manage them the way they are, and try to brush them up, but the problem is that some re so crude that refining them is impossible, and some takes years of hardwork... 2 Likes |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by chucky234(m): 6:35am On Oct 18, 2014 |
CuteAnnabelle:why are your cheeks so swollen? 1 Like |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by csbrown(m): 6:39am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Erm erm love kwa? A minute
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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by khukhi(f): 6:45am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Not its not the duty of men. |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by phransix147(m): 6:46am On Oct 18, 2014 |
CuteAnnabelle: This one would be there forming gangster... That's how Aunty Jane turned 50 and single... 3 Likes |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by phransix147(m): 6:48am On Oct 18, 2014 |
khukhi: Better gurl... May u find husband real soon! |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Cabsso(m): 6:49am On Oct 18, 2014 |
I dunno wats wrong wit me, mayb am nt alone in dis bt I find it difficult 2fall inluv, tho I mak d females fall 4me. Wit dis am sure many guys dnt even bend in luv talk more of fallin dey only pretend 2b |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 6:50am On Oct 18, 2014 |
It can be anyone- m ale or female, depending on the situation or growth of emotions I guess. The fear here should be hoping it is a mutual thing and not a one sided feeling. 1 Like |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by sekzy99(m): 6:54am On Oct 18, 2014 |
CuteAnnabelle:hehehehee |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Tymax(m): 6:57am On Oct 18, 2014 |
Ladies first. |
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 6:57am On Oct 18, 2014 |
amunekeuto: Women and marriage, hian. |
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