Deefuray:

So cooking for a guy is a criteria to 'graduate' to become a wife

How many times una wan make I explain that?

Deefuray:

So cooking for a guy is a criteria to 'graduate' to become a wife

Not really, but its important that she must know how to cook for me. By the way, nice pic.

My opinion. 1. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach (na african adage babes) and I guess you all are africans. 2. If you don't cook whenever you come visiting, how will I know that the girl I love and intend marrying knows how to cook. 3. A girl/ lady that doesn't cook whenever she comes visiting could be regarded as one who might end up spending money on eating out which is more expensive, ryt? 4. I also feel that guys see ladies who cook as possible wives and mothers. My opinion though. Don't blame me, I am african and my girlfriend cooks for us, and she will be my wife God's grace.

Sapphire86:


So it is by that u determine ur wife material? If u want to eat, go to her house and she would entertain but expecting such in ur house is laughable! It's like u neva jam marriage hungry girls before!

Your last sentence doesn't agree with your entire post.

TahariX:


Neanderthal 101

@pasqal09 It means that you are an ancient ape, tagged with number 101.

nomabeeee:
so dts ur own way of picking a wify..d woman mxt play d role of a wife?lol she wil cook ur meals,do ur laundry,scrub ur house and later she gets dumped..smh some ladies should start having common sense..its called common buh not common..

What of the financial responsibilities that society gives to d man After dutifully caring out my res, make I come see d lady wey no go cook for her master.

TahariX:


sub·mis·sive·ness
səbˈmisivnis/
noun
the quality of being submissive.

sub·mis·sive
səbˈmisiv/
adjective
adjective: submissive
ready to conform to the authority or will of others

See what I'm saying?

Try practicing it, its fun.

Misogynist2014:
Try practicing it, its fun.

Nah but you can keep on wallowing in ignorance ^.^

TahariX:


Nah but you can keep on wallowing in ignorance ^.^

Is there anything wrong if I spend my on money a lady that I haven't paid her bride price ¿

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

dont you treat every other guest u have the same way? if she starts treating u like a husband and not a bf u will shout " gold-digger"

Mondisweets:
dont you treat every other guest u have the same way? if she starts treating u like a husband and not a bf u will shout " gold-digger"

She's supposed to be my gf, not every other guest.

Yeah, I know I am still a girlfriend not his his wife yet. I see no reason why I can't cook for my boyfriend. I ll only make sure its not consistent. How on earth am I gonna prove to him I'm a good cook? They say, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

pasqal09:

She's supposed to be my gf, not every other guest.

neither is she your wife or employee

Funny Enof, I Thot am the only one guilty of this, he has complain tire, instead when I visit and I feel like cooking, it would either be sweet mouth foods like fry egg, fry plantain and indomie, etc, LOLST , .

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

you won't be saying this when you're 30 and still not married

xtervaganza:
you won't be saying this when you're 30 and still not married

Lmao. Is being 30 and unmarried a bad thing? I could be 45, unmarried and still happy. My happiness/ self worth is not reliant on whether or not there is a man in my life.

I agree with you op, a wife is quite different from a girlfriend and friend and all have distinct functions that are clearly defined.

Nomabeeee , gloria3389, mondisweets, tahariX
As much as I hate to admits this, you guys were right and I was wrong. I don gree

TahariX:

Lmao. Is being 30 and unmarried a bad thing? I could be 45, unmarried and still happy. My happiness/ self worth is not reliant on whether or not there is a man in my life.

perhaps you don't need a man




Or you're not into them

75% of those forming I no de cook here are the ones who do their guy's laundry oo lol

pasqal09:
Nomabeeee , gloria3389, mondisweets, tahariX
As much as I hate to admits this, you guys were right and I was wrong. I don gree

kudos bruh..u re a real man

I dont like eating 'uncensored' food either!
Lobatan

I sense someone can't cook here if not kini big deal for a gf to cook?

then whats d point of we dating?.. any girl who can't cook for me isn't worth my tym and stress

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

Confirm question

How many times will she cook food and how many times will she cook punnany during the courtship?

anu obinrin mi semi





some lady go remain single till Jesus come.
little thing dey ruin a whole cow meat.
a little thing can make you lose ur Mr right or future partner.

merit12:
Freedom of weed expression


Baby girls good point


*gather all the babes ,matching along rounabout ringroad (benin)

Singing

No more cooking for boyfriend(2x)
Because they are benfiting what they have not pay for



Hmmmmm


For me it different somehow
Cos if I love him I will take good care of him and show him I can cook ,he is not going waste his money marrying me or teaching me how to cook


Besides na 2 of us go enjoy the food .oh


All the d movement

Nor use ya jamz spoil my blues oh




Op are you black


Sig....never give up if you wanna try

real black girl.

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..[size=8pt]A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you[/size],..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

they there? you dont know those little things you are talking about count in a man's life. if am dating and my gurl refuse to cook for me, no problem.. i will look for another gurl is "willing" and "capable" to cook for me, and if she pass the test. Marriage straight.

The real essence of "DATING" was to study each other before marriage. And if u can't help ur date and cook as a female, of what use are u in his life ?

Well I think a reasonable girlfriend should knw her place. I 4 1 donot stress my self unnessarily 4 guy who is nt my hubby. Likewise I shudn't go gaga when I find anoda hottee. It is just give n take.