VickyyB:


Even Lies is bitter.

5minsmadness:


You don't need to defend her. She knows exactly what she was saying.
Don't twist the topic either. This is what she meant.




Have you heard omaotola speak? Her English is superb. Stop trying to look for loopholes in her statement.

Sophyrocks:
Hahahaha. Omotola role model for ladies? I guess we should emulate her in her runs and s*e*xcapades with some producers. Maybe she and her husband have an 'understanding'. How many of the men here praising her can give their wives the freedom to be this successful, to be actresses, allow men to frolick or fantasize about them s*e*xually?

5minsmadness:

Na lie, lies dey sweet die

VickyyB:
Her opinion- Her life.

If I offend my husby, I'll apologise but if he offend me, he's on a long thing.

Only cowards who has no future and think feminity is all about marriage would be scared to divorce.

crackhaus:
Buahahahaha, see uproar by angry ladies over Omotola's opinion.
I know it must hurt having someone as successful, recognized all over Africa and in the US, named by time magazine as one of the most influential women in Africa, and to top it off, a family-oriented woman - saying that she doesn't believe in gender equality.

There's a reason Omotola is one of the few Nigerian actresses who has had a successful and lasting marriage so far, didn't she marry when she was 16 or so? Lol...and y'all are here hating.

How many of you ladies have been able to make a lasting impact in your village?
Sorry o, Omotola's opinion will trump all of yous put together on any stage - local and international. What she believes in has obviously worked for her so far and God-willing, it will continue to.

bukatyne:


You know NL guys na

I bet you, 90% of them cannot marry or cope with her

lightoftruth:


If really u meant what you said, your type of girls is the reason why I don't want to marry and sadly 95% of present day girl are like you. SMH

Sophyrocks:
Hahahaha. Omotola role model for ladies? I guess we should emulate her in her runs and s*e*xcapades with some producers. Maybe she and her husband have an 'understanding'. How many of the men here praising her can give their wives the freedom to be this successful, to be actresses, allow men to frolick or fantasize about them s*e*xually?

crackhaus:
Buahahahaha, see uproar by angry ladies over Omotola's opinion.
I know it must hurt having someone as successful, recognized all over Africa and in the US, named by time magazine as one of the most influential women in Africa, and to top it off, a family-oriented woman - saying that she doesn't believe in gender equality.

There's a reason Omotola is one of the few Nigerian actresses who has had a successful and lasting marriage so far, didn't she marry when she was 16 or so? Lol...and y'all are here hating.

How many of you ladies have been able to make a lasting impact in your village?
Sorry o, Omotola's opinion will trump all of yous put together on any stage - local and international. What she believes in has obviously worked for her so far and God-willing, it will continue to.

VickyyB:


Probably, 95% of the present day girls don't give a fùck about marriage.

iebanehita:


Hmm.. so, when most women are successful, she must have slept with some 'oga at the top?' abi? could that be said for Genevieve Nnaji, Folorunsho Alakija? I thought it was only guys with this preconceived belief.

Stop giving excuses for your misfortune. I don't need to be told you are a lazy as.s, single depressed lady who finds solace in pulling down successful women just to make herself look like the virtuous one.

Any man who gets intimidated or inferior by his wife's success is a weakling and has inferiority complex. Who doesn't want to be associated with success?

lightoftruth:


If really u meant what you said, your type of girls is the reason why I don't want to marry and sadly 95% of present day girl are like you. SMH

crackhaus:
Buahahahaha, see uproar by angry ladies over Omotola's opinion.
I know it must hurt having someone as successful, recognized all over Africa and in the US, named by time magazine as one of the most influential women in Africa, and to top it off, a family-oriented woman - saying that she doesn't believe in gender equality.

There's a reason Omotola is one of the few Nigerian actresses who has had a successful and lasting marriage so far, didn't she marry when she was 16 or so? Lol...and y'all are here hating.

How many of you ladies have been able to make a lasting impact in your village?
Sorry o, Omotola's opinion will trump all of yous put together on any stage - local and international. What she believes in has obviously worked for her so far and God-willing, it will continue to.

crackhaus: Abraham Lincoln said, '...for two different things to be considered completely equal to one another, they must be be equal to the same thing...'

The sexxual, emotional, and physical differences between the sexes make us equal to different things - this is why there is such a thing as 'predominant' gender roles/careers/responsibilities.

However you did misinterpret me, I never said a woman is unequal to a man because of how she reasons - I said a woman is equal to a man on the basis of both being humans, which is just about how equal we can ever get.
The inherent differences between the genders thus make each subject to a different kind of treatment - thinking differently and feeling differently are examples of what make us different.

Since a man and woman can't be equal in all things, then that makes way for inequality - this in turn does not mean one gender is superior to the other, it means we are different and not equal to the same thing except of course as just humans.

crackhaus:

Your modernity has suddenly be thrown out the window right?
Were you not among those on that dress-sense thread lambasting the OP telling him to mind his business and not worry about the lady who was almost exposing her butt-crack and camel toe?

What is it to you if she engages in runs and sexcapades, or if men fantasize about her? Modern women mind their business oo.

Besides, it's like you have helped her arrange one of her 'runs' before, this one you're so sure.

freecocoa:
Your point being what exactly?

Is it normal to go apologizing to someone who offends you?

Sophyrocks:

I can see u dnt understand english. Her success is because her husband is verrrry understanding and permissive. He wants her to take the limelight compared to some of u men that cnt handle the success of a woman. If her husband wasnt this permissive, their marriage wud have packed up. We here dnt know the ins and out of their marriage. But omotola herself is no saint. Marriages with most actresses are open. So just give it to her husband plus her hardwork.

VickyyB:


Are you minding them.
Role model kor.

When there are women of eloquence and substance to be used as a role model, like Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Emma Watson, Folurunsho Alakija etc

crackhaus:

or Emma Watson (the very impressionable young girl who you're probably older than).

bukatyne:


You don't know typical Naija marriages?

LOL!

Sophyrocks:

I can see u dnt understand english. Her success is because her husband is verrrry understanding and permissive. He wants her to take the limelight compared to some of u men that cnt handle the success of a woman. If her husband wasnt this permissive, their marriage wud have packed up. We here dnt know the ins and out of their marriage. But omotola herself is no saint. Marriages with most actresses are open. So just give it to her husband plus her hardwork.

Sophyrocks:

Hahahahahaha
ladies, nl men are saying we should see omotola as a role model. Therefore, cheating for married women is allowed. It should be coded as omotola does hers, so far we dnt get caught. What say you?

VickyyB:


Are you minding them.
Role model kor.

When there are women of eloquence and substance to be used as a role model, like Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Emma Watson, Folurunsho Alakija etc

Stillfire:


You must really think you are talking to one of the Nigerian girls you used to played ten ten with in primary school where logic was pretty much nonexistent.

Please let's apply logic here. If you don't believe in gender equality, you have opened a host of ammunition to place you at an unequal balance scale, meaning a man is greater than the woman, and the woman lower than he is.

I believe that in every organised institution, there is always a head and an assistant. It doesn’t mean that one should take the other for granted, or disrespect the other

And yes Omotola did not do her research well to know the meaning of gender equality, otherwise she would never ever say such.

Weathering it down with psuedo-conclusions are just dismissive and deceitful acts to shy away from the depth of truth when you conclusively wade off gender equality that the woman is inferior to the man. Only unintelligent women would fall for this deceit.

crackhaus:

I'm not part of those saying you should take her as a role model.

I simply asked what your business is with whatever coded thing she does, and how can you be sure of this coded thing ...are you her pi.mp or sister?

freecocoa:
Seriously it's annoying and depressing to say the least.

These same ones ranting here won't stick with a woman like Omo T, these men sha don't know what they want.

VickyyB:


Wait, till I tell a lie against you.

Stillfire:
See Joke Silva with much more stellar career and much more longer marriage, if not the longest marriage in nollywood

"I'm Not A Cooking Kind Of Woman & My Husband Is Fine With It' - Nollywood Actress, Joke Silva

http://www.naij.com/66593.html

The couple who have been married for 28 years are still very much in love and have remained inseparable.

Veteran actress, Joke Silva in a recent interview with City People magazine talks about why she doesn’t like cooking and how her husband doesn’t mind someone else cooks for him.

“I have never lied about this, I have never been ‘a doing the cooking kind of woman’. When my husband met me, he knew. He was the one who used to do the cooking because he is good at it. I used to do the cooking when I felt like. Sometimes, it comes out to be a huge success and sometimes a failure. Some years ago, I cooked vegetables and it was terrible and my husband is such a gem, he ate it like that. It is not as if my mum didn’t teach me.

For my husband, cooking is a therapy and for me it is a chore and yet he will always tell you that I look after him so much, I do that in other ways. We have somebody who does the cooking. I have taught them to cook the way I like and we have people who do the general cleaning.”
Olu Jacobs obviously doesn’t mind as his love for his wife as remained stronger as he was quoted in an interview saying marrying Joke was the best decision of his life.

VickyyB:


Who recognises Omotola's opinion?
Her opinion is her life and family own.
No one gives a fùck about it.

iebanehita:



I can see you understand English... hmm.
Do you, by chance, know me?
How do you know I can't handle the bolded?


You don't know the in's and out's of her marriage, yet you can read it like a book, bcz according to you, her marriage is OPEN? Abi?
Stop being delusional!