bukatyne:


Lucky you

Even Omo T our supposed role model is not in the kitchen

Mondisweets:
That's her opinion, just like everyone else she is entitled to her own. So must the world come to an end because Omotola is not in support of gender equality?

lightoftruth:


If really u meant what you said, your type of girls is the reason why I don't want to marry and sadly 95% of present day girl are like you. SMH

Mondisweets:
well im not really bothered by it because I find it quite redundant that a person who does not believe in gender equality would still promote the equal treatment of all human beings before the law



http://thenationonlineng.net/new/omotola-jalade-ekeinde-on-child-marriage/

how can you call for "justice and equity" when you don't believe in gender equality then? How can one promote justice and still claim that she doesn't believe in equality of all genders. Is justice not treating everyone equally before the law? you can never understand some people carefreewannabe

but the again this is Africa, equality means a whole new different thing. Gender Equality= women oppressing men.

Misogynist2014:
Omotola is a very popular person, who knows you? Her opinion counts a lot. She is rich famous and even submissive. What a woman! She is worth her weight in gold.

God purnish gender equality! Lazy women! This is a woman that can afford marrying 15 men, but lays low before her husband- virtuous woman. When people like Linda Ikeji are making opulence look easy, some sit and type gibberish with the phone purchased by their MAGArin.
I will love to cook and sweep for a women like omotola and mercy johnson- true role models unlike Rihanna and lady gaga that expose their nudes online.

Sophyrocks:


To me, omotola doesnt know the meaning of gender equality. even in a blog where this her view was posted, a lot of comments criticised her and had to help her define what Gender equality is to her. well, to each one his own o.

bukatyne:


Lucky you

Even Omo T our supposed role model is not in the kitchen

Sophyrocks:


The frst few comments in the first page have described her to be so. And the comments were made out of ignorance/no knowledge of whom omotola really is. I dnt have time to go back and forth with anybody becos its pointless. Her marriage has lasted this long because her husband is veeeery understanding and doesnt envy her success. Can you say the same of most men today? I do not envy her success at all. what is there to envy? i admire women who are successful and independent. I only made my comments to let others know that Omotola's husband has some baggage to endure from her. its more of tolerance from her husband than from her thats keeping the marriage going. A typical nigerian man with huge ego would remain married to an actress by the grace of God, with a lot of maturity and understanding. we all know the kind of lives these actresses, even married actresses live so lets stop pretending not to.

And please, no time for back and forth with you.

justirich:
“I don’t believe in gender equality. I do not believe that God made man and woman to be equal in any way. I believe that in every organised institution, there is always a head and an assistant. It doesn’t mean that one should take the other for granted, or disrespect the other. I believe the husband is the head of the home and the wife is an assistant."

"My husband is a pilot, I have flown with him several times and I understood that here is a captain and a co-pilot. They are both responsible for the passengers’ lives. But when there is a final decision to make, it is up to the captain to make it. He is more experienced and the one with the responsibility.”

“When there is a quarrel, I usually apologise first. He doesn’t say sorry. Overtime, I have come to realise that it is an ego problem. Even when he knows he is wrong, he will rather do every other thing or buy things for me than say, ‘I’m sorry.’ Fortunately, the ‘sorrys’ are not too many. He is very responsible and more hardworking than me. By God’s grace, we have been able to understand our routine.”

Opinion:
Are you surprised that her marriage has lasted so long and will continue forever? I'm not implying that women should be subjugated but most modern ladies try to take the God-given place of their man hence so many crashed marriages nowadays.

Pls drop your concurrences or disagreements below. #1luv

carefreewannabe:


Justice and equity everywhere but not in their own homes.

Sophyrocks:


To me, omotola doesnt know the meaning of gender equality. even in a blog where this her view was posted, a lot of comments criticised her and had to help her define what Gender equality is to her. well, to each one his own o.

carefreewannabe:


Omotola should be deprived of her right to vote for sharing this crap.

Mondisweets:
she is an interesting character. she spends most of her time going around the world, pursuing her career, instead of catering for the needs of her family personally and she will come and shout "I know my place as a women"

tmosco:


She is not complaining and she is happy with her marriage. Isn't feminist all about women making dere decisions by dem self. Seriously don't understand nl feminist.

Stillfire:


Buhaha you still want to breed with something as shallow as myself? What does that say of you? So the itch in your groin must be scratched whether you hate women or not.

Sophyrocks:


Hehehehe. What she is doing is the exact opposite of what she claims. A comment said she knows her place and bukatyne asked the person what is her place or the place of a woman. Na im the person vex. no fit answer her question. This is why i feel that her husband is being very permissive towards her as compared to how some men here beating chest would towards their own wives. I wonder if they could marry someone like her and be this permissive. Ive been asking one here since morning. e no wan answer me. Guess they are confused.

lightoftruth:
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Yes it needs to be scratched that is the sad truth. I don't have option and more over that's your/yourkind only purpose and usefulness in life ...don't claim equality with me or with my my kind ............if I and my kind should are left to do the toasting (asking out), paying the bills , asking you and yourkind hands in marriage, paying pride price .....etc.....it goes on and on....now after all that you claim equality, please base on what grounds ?

VickyyB:


Inyanya, Psquare, Flavour and all the male celebrity ain't fluanting their abs to seduce women bah?

Bye.

tmosco:
I am beginning 2 understand nl feminists from dere comments. Most of dem don't av responsible male role models in their lives dat why dey don't understand d meaning of som1 being d head of a family. So why dey see som1 who understand wat marriage is b4 entering into it in order 2 av an happy life, dey become jealous.

Mondisweets:
she is an interesting character. she spends most of her time going around the world, pursuing her career, instead of catering for the needs of her family personally and she will come and shout "I know my place as a women"

cococandy:
another woman who does half of what omotola does with a less liberal husband will be termed an evil anti family feminist. But hey omo t has a husband who let's her be herself. Leave her kids and trot the globe. Spend nights in different hotels alone or with Colleagues, hire cooks and house keepers and every other thing that makes other women evil. With such a husband,she can afford to be anything she wants to be and take any stance she wants to take.


I would love to read her opinion again if the husband had been the quit your career and face the home kind of man.

Mondisweets:
I didn't know that a woman's place according to our African cultural values was, " engaging in amorous physical contact with numerous men, all in the name of acting", "promoting equal treatment of a girl child in society" and spending more time pursuing your career than you do bringing up your own children.

at least now I know

tmosco:
I am beginning 2 understand nl feminists from dere comments. Most of dem don't av responsible male role models in their lives dat why dey don't understand d meaning of som1 being d head of a family. So why dey see som1 who understand wat marriage is b4 entering into it in order 2 av an happy life, dey become jealous.

cococandy:
@crackhaus, you keep harping on someone looking up to Emma Watson as not ideal but I tell you,age has nothing to do with stuff like this. Emma May very well be more knowledgeable about life than some 30 year olds. No be una dey talk say age is not a number?

Just 2days ago an 18 year old girl got into the house of law makers as the youngest law maker in the history of this state. It was all over the news. She beat big older MEN and women to get in there. Had to put college on hold first to serve her tenure and then to continue her education later.

When ppl have distinguished themselves,then maybe you should just ignore their age and listen to them when they speak.

carefreewannabe:


And you have come to this conclusion how exactly?

cococandy:
another woman who does half of what omotola does with a less liberal husband will be termed an evil anti family feminist. But hey omo t has a husband who let's her be herself. Leave her kids and trot the globe. [size=14pt] Spend nights in different hotels alone or with Colleagues, hire cooks and house keepers and every other thing that makes other women evil. [/size] With such a husband,she can afford to be anything she wants to be and take any stance she wants to take.


I would love to read her opinion again if the husband had been the quit your career and face the home kind of man.

carefreewannabe:


@bold

She, as a submissive wife, and an obedient co-pilot would quit her job immediately and follow he husband's final decision.