Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

......... No O.... She shouldn't do such..... Even if she's a secondary virgin, she has made a decision not 2 do such n it should be respected ...

OMG!! and this made front page. I smell foul play here!!!

she's 19yrs and have already dated 4guys and still wants to remain a virgin? story for oduduwa! I bet u when this bi*ch is up to 23yrs old She must have kissed her virginity good bye, reason? She must have lost It outta curiosity. if She wants to remain a virgin the Let her stay away from relationships, more So from guys.

By the way, ladies viewing this thread may need to know more about their V.

These are 8 things you did not know about your womanliness.
www.nairaland.com/1991793/8-things-did-not-know

Beehorn:
when a gal dnt allow her man gt to the promise land...bt he is allowd to touch the gate

Omo if i touch the gate na to brake and enter oo

if dey truely luv her dey wun't leave her because of nt givn dm sex. She shuld jst be single dan allowin som1 dt dosn't luv her 2 take her virginity away, her true luver wil definatly come.

can I meet ur cousin?

aristocrazzy:
Secondary virgin? She shud take it to the next level and become tertiary virgin. Na dat 1 sure pass.

Perhaps she should take it to another higher level of virginity ... The Masters level

U and ur cousin are clowns

At 19years,she already dated 4guys. I had my first boyfriend at 21years.
Does it mean all she thinks about is having a boyfriend instead of concentrating on her studies?

Tell her to make her virginity professional. Only then can she apply for a corporate dicck like mine.
Shediot

Nawaho oo. Secondary virgin? So which 1 go cum be primary? Abi na were dey don dey enter.

ibkonekt:
She shouldnt. Virginity is precious. But if ur asking that means she una don dey consider am

how is virginity precious?

Missmossy:
She should not better be in a haste to get laid,she should just take her time,the right guy will come

there is no right guy,love and sex work hand in hand and its sex dat ignite the fire of love & bond d two

At age 19 she already has 4 ex, how many will she have by age 29? smh this world has really turn upside down

give me her contact.

Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

chai secondary virgin.9ja my country

Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

When the purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable. The world today is filled with mediocre, ignoramus and ample NFAs (No Future Ambition.)
My deepest apology if I sounded a bit harsh but I can't help the disdain I feel when I read or hear of some things like this. Anyway, I wish somebody will learn one or two things from what has been said, mine inclusive.
When we ignore principles whether on purpose or by default, we would most likely end up a prey because there're umpteen predators and scavengers waiting to get you into their snare. There are principles guiding true relationship. Search and be in the know about these principles, convince yourself about them before you jump into any relationship so that you do yourself a favour by relinquishing these unwanted insecurities because you've decided to be in the divide of the minority taking your stand on what is honourable and dignified. At this stage of your life (op and cousin), this is what you should be doing - understanding the purpose of a thing, developing and increasing your capacity in that area and then settling with the truth though it may not be convenient.
Most times we only get to hear only the juicy part on airwaves but people conceal the repercussions and consequences to themselves. Your future will require more than your present requires. It's so unfortunate that nowadays a lot of us work before we think; so it is when the damage has already been done that's when our eyes become open.
You train a person how to treat you, by the way you treat yourself. It takes knowledge to know the POWER you possess as a woman over a man. And if you're a woman and you don't know this yet; you are standing on a long thing...
Idleness breed loneliness. People whose mind are chunk/preoccupied with the idea/thought/talk of sex is a valid proof of idleness, mediocrity and self-satisfaction. So tell your cousin to be redefine her mentality and it'd greatly affect her priorities in life.

Ps: Please let's stop deceiving ourselves. When you define your relationship as platonic, then leave it at that. You disagree to SEX and yet you engage in all there is that leads to SEX - who are you deceiving? After browsing, you say make guy man no download - e no make sense na.
#ChastityOrNoChastity

abstain because now they are four when she lose her virginity to one she will start counting it again. clean chop mouth

she is only 19 years old. She shud remain the way she is when she sees someone dat is worth it she would know...

At 19yrs wit 4 EX boyfriends? @19?? ... Issoorite. Dia is God 0

Missmossy:
She should not better be in a haste to get laid,she should just take her time,the right guy will come

The way you took your time until the right guy came abi?

Beehorn:
my cousin must date o

when i was in her shoes i know what i heard to change and i belive it work for her too.. note its not fault u can't blame her..... lemme meet ur sis... perhaps on any social media.. we could have a chip chat. thanks

armylord:
u get sense .. come it's like u studying guidance and counseling

lol.. thanks for the compliment.. I'm not into guidance & counselling but issues like this upsets me & brings out the 'guidance & counselling' part of me

Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

una sef wetin be secondary virgin. Once hymen don comot e don comot. If she is staying off sex den I understand nor be secondary virgin. By d way 19 is a bit young. Let her grow up some more. 4 boys by 19 years is too much for a well brought up girl!

Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

4 boy friends at this age


What exactly is she doing with boy friend at this age, instead of facing her studies.



See the futures of tomorrow.

I cry for our society.

Dem go gree date older guyz lyk us ! Dem go gree? !! Insted dey prefere small smalll boys dat wil breack dere hearth , n dere is nt wrong for a 19 yr gel old to start dating ,she is matured enoff

aristocrazzy:
Secondary virgin? She shud take it to the next level and become tertiary virgin. Na dat 1 sure pass.

Lmao! And when she gets the boify and distance separates them, she can become a Phd Virgin.

Beehorn:
abeg o...am a responsible virgin.

i thought you where talking about your cousin

19 and thinking of sex...once she eats the forbidden fruit her life will never remain the same again.

LEVELS OF VIRGINITY TODAY
Pre-school virgin
Primary virgin
Secondary virgin
Tertiary virgin
Post-graduate virgin
Masters virgin
Doctorate virgin
Lmao...Ms Beehorn,she should stay alone,she can just have friends,datz enough.She wnt die if she doesn't have one besides,she is still too young to have had FOUR boyfriends!She should keep herself!

if she can keep her virginity.....good for her[color=#006600][/color]